After half a century, I have a house and a car and a deposit, but more and more I find that I am very lonely, what should I do? The same as a fast running five people have a house and a car, there are 6 digits of the password to keep the double-digit deposit, every day is to think about how to earn money, but so far have not been able to realize.
They and their wives are busy at work every day, fighting poverty, epidemic prevention and control and other tedious work, so that people are busy in the dark, and when they are not busy, they just want to sleep well until they wake up naturally, which is a very happy and happy thing. The child just went to college, because of the epidemic can only be at home on the Internet class, so every day after the busy unit work, go home also have to care about the child's situation.
Parents are also more than seventy years old, and when they are not busy, they still have to go to see them, pay attention to their life and health, and simply do not have the time to let themselves really idle. Because, when one is really idle, one again has to think about how to solve the monthly mortgage and car loan, or fine-tune the daily living arrangements to make one's family go better.
So people just need to get busy and move every day, where there is still time for you to be lonely and isolated. If there is nothing to do, the whole day is empty and boring, loneliness and loneliness will come naturally. And the subject is now food and clothing, suddenly lost the goal and direction of life, all day seems to have nothing to do, not lonely and lonely is strange. If you are busy every day, something to do, see you still lonely not lonely, so you are idle out of the problem. So how exactly do you come to solve this matter?
1. Cultivate hobbies and interests.
As a 50-year-old person, not far from retirement, in order to make their future life more fulfilling, then you should consciously develop some hobbies. For example, square dancing, fishing, playing chess, playing cards, etc., especially with some people of similar age, together with the above things, it is easy to integrate into them, find the joy of activities, enrich their leisure life.
2. Participate in the study of senior university.
The study life of senior university is still very rich, no matter whether you have specialties or not, you can find happiness in senior university. You can learn what you are interested in, and you may also find some like-minded people, which will be more conducive to your own life and make it colorful.
3. You can go out and travel.
The subject is now 50 years old, if you don't take the time to go out to travel, when the children become a family and have small children, the subject may not even want to go out very easily. So, until the subject's children start a family and have grandchildren, this is the easiest and most enjoyable time, and as soon as that time passes, you should be busy taking care of your grandchildren.
Of course, with your 3 million in savings, you can hire a nanny for your grandchildren when the time comes, and you'll be just as likely to go out traveling and sightseeing. To be honest, the questioner gives people a bit of a sick feeling, the vast majority of people around 50 years old, are still running around for the life of the worry, and you have nothing to do here, and even idle boredom shouting their own empty loneliness and loneliness, which is clearly not in the pulling of hate it? Readers and friends of this issue, and what do you think? Welcome to leave a message in the comments section below to exchange exchanges.