They are always outside, on the holidays or New Year's Eve when it is possible to return to their own homes, parents will always ask if they have a friend first, set up no, this is a piece of the old man's heart, the old man is always thinking of their own marital affairs, the parents urged to get married naturally anxious, and their own age must have an object or get married, their parents are the most intimate people, to understand a piece of the old man's heart, but not because of the old man and lost his temper, not to understand and sympathize with the parents. The closest people, to understand the old man's hard work, but not because of the old man's urge to get married and lose their temper, do not understand and sympathize with their parents.
2. Do not contradict parents hate parents
Parents urge to marry is also a manifestation of love for themselves, which parents in the world do not want their own children to live a happy happy, in the parents urge to marry, they must respect their parents, listen to their parents seriously, even if it is to blame or count, to listen carefully, never contradict their parents, complain about their parents, said parents too nagging, and even talk back to themselves, said that they would not let the parents of the parents of the parents of the parents of the parents of the parents of the parents. Even talk back to yourself, saying that you don't let your parents control, don't worry about your own things, you must pay attention to your attitude and words and deeds when communicating with your parents.
3. Do not choose to escape the way to deal with
Parents urged to marry, some children feel upset, they chose to escape the way, in the holidays or New Year's Eve lied that they are busy at work can not go home, and take the parents do not meet the way to avoid their parents urged to marry, this is not a solution to the problem, can escape a moment, can escape a lifetime, or to face the way to avoid their parents to escape the way to deal with will make their parents to escape the way to escape the problem. The way to deal with it will make their parents more sad.
4. Tell your parents what you think
Parents urged to marry, if you do not have this intention and plan in a short time, then find an opportunity to communicate with your parents, talk about it, so that your parents know what they think, what they really think, tell your parents what you think, what arrangements you have, I believe that your parents know their own ideas and specific arrangements and plans. After the arrangement plan, will also support their own, so that parents will not urge the marriage, be sure to let their parents know their own ideas, do not let their parents worry about themselves, worry about themselves.
5. Find relatives to help persuade their parents
If their parents are more stubborn, is to insist that they must first start a family and then set up a business, they can not persuade their parents, you can look for their own relatives to help themselves, such as their own uncles and aunts, the more loving relatives, so that their own relatives and parents to say, don't rush the marriage, they have their own plans, their own Marriage will be considered, so that parents to give themselves a period of time, do not need to worry too much about themselves, they also understand their parents, but also hope that their parents understand their own minds, with the help of relatives, I believe that parents will also be considered for their own.
6. Let parents clear their own situation
Many cases the reason why parents will rush to marriage, see their own will ask themselves whether there is a male (female) friends, because the parents are not clear about their current emotional state, they did not tell their parents, parents are more worried about caused by, do not want to let their parents to rush to marriage, so that the parents are worried about, that is clear to tell their parents about their current emotional state! If you have a friend of the opposite sex, tell your parents, so that parents do not worry about themselves, if not, then also tell your parents their recent arrangements, such as work is particularly busy, temporarily unable to take care of, so that parents to give themselves a period of time, so that parents are clear in mind, the parents heart bright, it will not be too anxious.
7. Listen to your parents to meet each other
Parents urge marriage is also for their own good, in fact, think of nothing, if they do not have friends of the opposite sex, parents urge marriage is naturally that their age is not small, to the time to talk about marriage, it may be worthwhile to listen to their parents arrangements, the parents of the arrangement is certainly also well thought out, to meet the fact that nothing, when making a friend more, so that you will be able to meet with your parents. When more than one friend, so that parents will not be too difficult to meet do not necessarily have to get married, so that parents also feel at ease, do not worry too much about their own.
8. Take lovers home to see their parents
Parents urged to get married because parents are worried about their own lifelong matters, if you do not want to let their parents urged to get married, also do not want to let their parents worry about worrying, you can be in the festivals and New Year's Eve, take their own lovers home to meet their parents, parents know that they already have a love affair, naturally, will not be urged to get married, instead, they will be from the bottom of the heart for their own happy, if there is a love affair! If you have a lover, you must bring your lover home to meet your parents, this is something sooner or later, has been hiding their love, will only let the parents worry, urge marriage.
Second, contemporary parents urge the reasons for marriage
1. hope that the child early independence.
Now the children do not get married still think they are still children, are almost 30 years old or even over 30 years old, but also think that they have not grown up, neither responsibility, but also do not know to think about the future, do not care about anything, neither know to save money, but also do not know to plan for their own futures, either often and general friends outside the madness, or stay at home every day do not go out, and some of the Even still gnawing on the old man, want them to pay some living expenses still think that parents do not do the right thing, but also think that their parents to raise them is a natural right, but also at home to live in the days of food, clothes to stretch their hands, and parents are still very childish to talk, as much as possible to say some borderline childish words, outside the work of the immovable resignation, a little bit of aggrieved to run to the home, and then nested in the home, did not realize that they have grown up, do not realize They simply do not realize that they have grown up and do not realize that there are grievances in their career and work. Moreover, you cannot say anything about them, and if you do, they will talk about some irrelevant so-called reasoning, which can be said to be both angry and hateful. Therefore, earlier marriage can let them earlier independent, let them know life is not easy, know to take responsibility. Marriage is a hurdle, only after marriage will people be pragmatic, only after marriage will they understand life, only after marriage will they cherish their work, only after marriage will they know how to save money, and only after marriage will they understand their parents' difficulties in educating them.
2. You can help your parents with their children when they are still relatively healthy.
Many children always say that they don't want to get married and don't want to have children, but these are some childish words. Almost all of them want to have a child as the first thing after they get married and if they don't have a baby for a few years, they will be very anxious and go to the hospital immediately for a checkup, and if there is really a problem with their body, then they will also think of a way to solve it as soon as possible. Moreover, we are now in our fifties and sixties, the body is generally still relatively strong, to be able to help them with their children, so that they can wholeheartedly go to their own careers, as parents, this is also the last in their lifetime to be able to help them, which is a better order of human turnover, if another 10 years, the children are in their thirties and forties, to give birth to a child they are also increasingly Difficulty, and at that time the body is not the best stage of life, the child will increase the possibility of unhealthy, if there is really a problem may not be able to solve it, it will bring regrets to their life, and we are also old, can take care of themselves is good, to bring them a child that can only be the heart is not able to do so, so I hope that the child to get married earlier, on the one hand, the possibility of their children's health and excellence will be greater, the most important aspect is that their children's health and excellence will be greater, and the most important aspect is the possibility of their children's health. The most important aspect is that we can finally help them a hand, to do our parents' last responsibility.
3. The older they get, the less likely they are to find a satisfactory match.
The vast majority of young people will be married before the age of 30, so, to the age of 30 is not married, to find their own satisfaction with the object of the possibility will be smaller, because the choice of narrower, so many people the older the matchmaking conditions that are increasingly lower, especially girls to the age of 30 to find their own satisfaction with the object of the various aspects of the really very difficult, but they do not understand! The truth is that there is a Prince Charming, Princess waiting for them, but they do not understand this, always take some special cases to perfunctory us, even if there is a Prince Charming, Princess that also become someone else's husband and wife. Therefore, our parents urge them to fall in love early, get married early, really for their sake, not at all because of the need to pass on, not to mention the so-called prevention of old age, we all have their own income, and not low, the future of retirement also has a retirement salary, we only hope that they will be able to find their own satisfaction with the object, and this is to take advantage of the early.
Three, the way to find objects
1. matchmaking. This is the most direct way to find a relationship from ancient times to the present day, there now exists a profession called matchmaker. Some of the matchmakers are professional, such as dating agencies, professional matchmakers, some are amateur colleagues, relatives, friends, classmates, seven aunts and eight aunts and even the neighborhood committee aunt to introduce.
2. Friends of friends. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new one. A friend of a friend may be the right person for you. Friends will know more about the person's situation, if appropriate, there are friends of the acquaintance of the more natural and casual, dating is more comfortable.
3. Through the network and social software to meet people who love each other. In the era of the Internet, many social software, forums for us to increase the chances of meeting strangers, which may have your MR RIGHT. The advantage of internet and social software is that it is easy, fast and wide range. The disadvantage is that the virtual world is too easy to hide themselves, it is difficult to gauge the hearts and minds of people, and the chances of encountering scammers will be greatly increased.
4. Hitchhiking. In any occasion encountered the heart of the person, whether you are a boy or a girl, to be brave, to take the initiative to hit on. Miss the moment of encounter, you may miss a destiny. Pick up must be polite and courteous, never rude.
5. Through networking activities. If you're not a fan of the newest and most popular brands in the world, you should take the initiative to attend some of these events, and maybe you'll meet your ideal match there. The choice of sorority activities is large, lively and interesting, not too awkward, and there will be more opportunities for performance.