As a married man, it seems inappropriate to talk about older leftover women. However, because his wife's classmates are over 40 years old and still single, and they often come to his wife to talk about their troubles. Therefore, the problem of older women have more or less understanding of the encounter. The following is a frank exchange with you.
Older women, as a special group of people, in society by the "deep malice", mainly in the following three aspects:
First, you have a disease?
There are various reasons why older women are left. Most of them are because of the study and examination, a significant portion of poor performance, often after years of repeating in order to be admitted to school, so when the university graduated, the age of the natural older. Introduced to the object or they are not satisfied with people or people are not satisfied with their own, several times unsuccessful, slowly left. Then there is too picky, self-esteem is very high, every aspect of the selection, do not want to settle, and finally is not high or low, also be left. These are the two main reasons for being left behind. Of course, there are also those who are single because of disabilities or other illnesses. However, it is really an unforgivable behavior to come up and suspect someone of having a disease without asking any questions. This is the most malice that older women encounter when they are in society.
Secondly, are you a psychopath?
The older women suffer from great public pressure from their families and society because they cannot solve their personal problems for a long time. It is normal that their inner world is a bit different and different compared to normal people. But most of them cannot reach the degree of the so-called perversion. However, outsiders will always treat them like aliens and pay attention to them with different eyes. This was also one of the malice they encountered.
Third, do you have a problem with your style?
Older women have their own jobs and their own circle of contacts. They have to deal with other people. To deal with male colleagues in the unit, but also with other folk in society to contact, it is inevitable. However, generally in the treatment of older women with the opposite sex on the issue of interaction, there will often be presumptuous speculation: can not withstand the loneliness of the ...... sure there is something ...... this argument, but also to the older women to bring great harm. As time passes, nothing has become something, actually it is really nothing.
Of course, there are many other confusions that older women encounter, and these unfair words and behaviors that bring them harm are not experienced by the general public. Here, we hope that the older women will be strong and walk well in the future; we also hope that people in the society can treat them normally and care more about them, instead of hurting them intentionally or unintentionally. In this way, our society can become more beautiful.