Even the worst things have a good side

Listening to a female colleague complaining about 25 years of marriage and husband divorce, and property has been divided clearly, just missing the day to go to the divorce procedures. Asked why she wanted a divorce, she said her husband is too boring, basically no communication with her at home only to play with the phone, couples quarrel he will not coax people, they do not take the initiative to talk to him he can not say anything. She feels that her husband is a completely unaware of the warm and cold people, never take the initiative to give her a dish, never asked her what she likes, but also never bought her a gift, there is no husband feel no difference

The female colleague is a lively and cheerful personality, love to dance, and his husband every day in the home does not love to socialize do not like to talk, the young man's husband is working in the field, she is at home with her eldest son, so did not feel any particular bad place. So she didn't think there was anything particularly bad about him. She thought that her husband was very kind, and he just talked very little. Now the child is older, especially the epidemic, each other together at home for a few months, the two have no **** the same language, her husband never take the initiative to find her to talk. The female coworker has talked about divorce many times before, but never as strongly as this time.

After listening to her story, I just expressed my understanding that whether or not to get a divorce, only the person who is in the marriage knows best and has the right to decide. This epidemic has brought many people's marriages to an end also let many people feelings warmed up pregnant with their second child, usually perhaps everyone is busy running around, when there is enough time to stay together to get along, the most test is the couple's feelings. Usually tolerate minor problems, every day together may become intolerable. A lot of problems are infinitely magnified in a limited space.

No matter what, I think this epidemic is not too bad in one aspect, so that many people understand what they want, so that many people see clearly the status of their own marriage, so that everyone understands how to go in the future. So there is a good side to even the worst things.