We belong to the love from school uniforms to wedding dresses. We went to high school together. At that time, we just liked each other in a daze, but we knew what our task was, so we never confessed. We didn't confirm the relationship until we finished the exam and attended the graduation ceremony.
Later, we were admitted to different universities, and the two schools started a long-distance relationship eight hours away by train. At that time, there will be heterosexual pursuits around us, but as far as our love fever is concerned, no one can spy on our love. We got married right after graduation. We thought we could live happily all our lives, but in the third year of marriage, our marriage was exhausted.
Love and marriage are two different things. Love can only consider the feelings of two people, and everything needs only two people to be happy, but marriage is not like this. There are too many conditions to consider in marriage, and many times what we think is simple is difficult to do. Coupled with the child, I stayed at home to take care of it, and finally found that there were fewer and fewer topics between us, and he came back later and later. I tried to bring our love back to the past.
But unfortunately, I didn't succeed, he didn't cheat, and I didn't find anyone else. We are still a family, we will go out for a walk on weekends, and we are also very harmonious in front of our children, but without our original passion, we are like friends who don't care but want to live together.
So, in my opinion, love has a retention period. Maybe someone will take care of it, and finally love will become family. Maybe love will last longer, but more love will become friends who must live together after marriage.