Life in the world only cherish the fate to renew the fate, in the road of life we will meet a lot of people, have the fate of a thousand miles to meet, so be sure to treat the people around you, care about them, forgive those who hurt you.
The only way to be rich is to have no deficiency in your heart, and to be needed is to be rich. Happiness is not a character, but an ability.
People get along with each other, we should know how to "dance tango": you into my retreat, I into your retreat, mutual understanding.
68-year-old Auntie Wang's life is bright and open, doing things without shame, but she did not think, they used their own true heart but in exchange for remarried partner's calculations, when the old man died, his son came to the door, she could no longer bear to cry.
Auntie Wang's self-explanatory:
I'm Wang Yue, living in Shanghai, when I was young, I also had a good marriage, when I was married to my husband and I love each other, and we also have a well-behaved son.
I thought our family of three would be so happy life, I did not expect, fate seems to joke with me, one after another, give me a heavy blow.
In the son just on the first year of high school, my husband because of stomach pain, had to go to the hospital to check, I did not expect the results of the examination is like a thunderbolt from the sky, I can not accept, my husband is actually the late stage of stomach cancer.
At that time, I accompanied my husband in the hospital, every time my husband asked me what the doctor said, I said it was an ordinary stomach ulcer.
After saying that I always pretend that nothing happened to turn around and secretly wipe the tears, perhaps I cover up not good enough, my husband got suspicious.
He often said intentionally or unintentionally that if the disease can not be cured, do not waste money, I pretended to be strong and told him that it will be fine.
Asked more often, my husband no longer asked, he knew that I could not get the answer, he began to silence, I see in the eyes of the anxious in the heart, I do not know how to comfort him.
Until one day, he said he felt better, go home and recuperate for a period of time on the good, insisted on being discharged from the hospital, could not argue with him, only to agree.
The doctor also said that her husband's stomach cancer was in the advanced stage, and the cancer cells had already spread, so the treatment could not help much, and there was no point in staying, so it was better to go home and recuperate as he wished.
In this way, we were discharged from the hospital, back home, every day I carefully take care of him, every time I look at his stomach pain is tortured sweating, painkillers last longer than a short time, my heartache can not breathe.
No matter how much I don't want to give up, my husband still left me after two months. My husband's departure was too much of a blow to me and my son, and I was in a trance all day long, thus neglecting my son, which led to him dropping out of high school and returning home before he finished his first year of high school.
I persuade him to study, he said nothing willing to go, he said he wanted to go out to work, make money to support the family, for which I hit also hit, scolded also scolded, bitterly to his reasoning, told him only to read a good way out, but he just can not listen to it.
If I had the ability to foretell, I would have tied him to the school, and it wouldn't have happened.
After my son dropped out of school, he went to work in a mine with a distant relative, and since he went to work, we have spent very little time together, although I miss him, but my son is old enough to have his own path to take, and I can't possibly trap him in his own side for the rest of his life.
But I never thought that my son would embark on a path of no return, that year the Spring Festival, working outside the home one after another, I also received a phone call from my son that there are still a few days to come back.
I stood in front of the house every day looking forward to my son's figure appeared there, but I did not expect that a phone call shattered all my hopes.
At that time, how my cell phone fell to the ground, I do not know, my mind only a voice, my son is no longer, he went home the day before the accident, left me, I can no longer wait for him to say: "Mom, I'm home."
In that instant, my sky collapsed, the two important people in my life are gone, what is the meaning of my life, I was bent on death, a few times did not have as much as I wished, my in-laws and older siblings took turns to watch me, in case I do something stupid again.
My mother-in-law said, "We have already lost two relatives, do you want us to lose you again? We don't want to experience the taste of sending a black person away from his white hair anymore, if you still want to leave us, then we will die in front of you!"
In the face of the old man's words, I was speechless, yes, what I lost, they also lost, if I left them in, then what should they do, they only have me, I want to old age for them to send to the end of the day, on behalf of their son filial piety.
It took me a long time to come out of the pain of losing them. Since then, I got a job near my home and took care of my in-laws while working.
I can't make much money as a woman, and all the money I spent on taking care of my parents during those years was partly due to my son's accidental death, and the compensation given by the mine's owner.
The 600,000 yuan of the initial compensation, I almost used up half of these years, the two old people, although they do not say, I know that they have not come out of the pain of losing their son and grandson, resulting in their health is not as good as one day.
At the age of 55, I sent my in-laws back and forth, leaving me alone in this world, I live, although I live, the heart is dead.
58 years old, my friend saw me too lonely and lonely, she pulled me to go to the square dance every day, where I met the old soup. As I was a novice, Lao Tang took the initiative to teach me, get along with the process, we are attracted to each other, naturally together.
The old soup is 7 years older than me, his partner died three years, he wanted to find another person with a destiny **** in his old age, he said that I met me, is the arrangement of God, I'm too much to let his heart ache, said that I went through so much can still be so strong, good, is really rare.
He is a humorous person, I was often amused by him to laugh, how long I have not laughed so much, if not to meet him, I have forgotten what it is like to laugh.
Lao Tang has a son, only 20 years old, working in the provinces, usually busy work, back less, so Lao Tang feel very lonely alone, just want to find a companion to accompany him to talk.
That day the old soup initiative to find me to talk about, he said if I am willing to marry him to live together, he will not treat me poorly, he knows that I do not have children, said that his son is my son, he will give me the end of the old age.
In fact, at my age, see more things, then I just listen to it, and did not take it seriously, but my life is too bitter, it is rare to meet a person who can make me laugh, I also agreed to him.
Since I married him, my days have been very comfortable. I do my best to take care of the old soup, do a good job of a wife should be obliged. And the old soup to me also love and care.
For the old soup so spoiled me, I am very happy, he is still willing to pay for me everything, others say that the second marriage is generally not happy, but I think I am very lucky, are old, but also to meet a soulful man.
In order to take care of the old soup, I did not go out to earn money, he has a retired salary is enough for us to live, free time we will also go to travel, to go a lot of places I have not been before.
After remarriage, we have lived a comfortable life for several years, the old Liang's body began to appear a variety of problems, often need to take medication and hospitalization.
His pension was no longer enough to cover our living expenses, so I began to take out my own money to subsidize the household.
Once his son drove accidentally hit a person, after much regulation, the other party promised to private, but to compensate 500000 yuan, because the person hit the second half of life can only lie flat on the bed, but also to take medication to maintain life, the late is a bottomless pit.
At that time, his son took out all the savings is only 200000 yuan, the old soup cobbled together to fill the 100000 yuan, it is not still 200000 yuan, no landing, the injured person's family said that if you can not get the money, you have to take his son to court.
I looked at the old soup all of a sudden seems to be 10 years old, I am particularly distressed, I married into this family since his son is very good to me, usually come back to see the old soup, but also did not forget to bring me a gift, every time I see him, I think of my son. Unconsciously I really treat him as if he were my own son.
Lao Tang is the oldest son, due to his wife's health reasons, until he was more than 40 years old to have such a baby son, he can not stand by and watch his son's future is ruined.
But he can not help, I really can not stand to see, they called together, said the rest of the money I out, I told his son, I only have one wish, this money is my son with his life in exchange for, I hope that he can call me a "mom", so I can be at peace with out of the money, because I am in order to save my other son, I think my son, I want my son, I want to see him, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son, I want my son. I think my son will not blame me.
In fact, my heart is so eager to have a son to call me a "mom", I thought this life is not possible, maybe it is God's will, when I heard his son called me mom, I can not control the tears flowed out.
Some people may say that I take advantage of people's danger, but no one understands that I longed for the heart, but this son did not let me down, since that day called me mom, he said that from now on, I am his mother, he was heartbroken that I lost his son in his youth, and he now has a child, and he can't imagine that kind of pain to lose his own child.
From then on our relationship was instantly closer, I took care of them in every way, living a life of motherhood and filial piety, and our feelings became deeper and deeper.
With the passage of time, Lao Tang's health is getting worse and worse, and then almost in the disease, watching him more and more weak I am very sad and sad, but can not do anything about it.
In the tenth year of our marriage, Lao Tang died. Once again I lost someone I loved, I grieved for a long time and it was my son and daughter-in-law who stayed with me.
Until my son handed me a letter, I know the truth of the old soup hidden for many years, I did not expect him to be so thoughtful at that time, when I read the letter, I cried red eyes.
If placed at that time, perhaps I will be very angry, but now after so many years, he is good to me, I see in the eyes of marrying him, I have no complaints and no regrets.
It turned out that at that time, his son had an accident, he was able to come up with that money, but he knew that his health was not good, and he wanted to test me to see if I could pay all for his son.
He said he was very satisfied with my performance, he knew it was wrong, but he still did it, but he was very happy that he did not do wrong, I have one more son filial piety, his son has one more mother who loves him. He hopes I can forgive him for what he did.
What the old man did was bad, but I did win his son's approval, and his son said he would treat me like a dutiful father in the future, so I have everything he has.
He put all the money he saved in a passbook, which was placed in his favorite vase when he was alive, and he said that this money is at my disposal.
I want to keep a small portion for daily expenses and give the rest to my son, do you think it's okay for me to allocate it this way?
Auntie Wang has had a rough life and what she has gone through is heartbreaking, but thankfully, it gives her something to look forward to in her old age, and I hope that she can live in peace in her old age.
Who says second marriages aren't happy, it's just that you haven't met the right person. In fact, people get along with each other, they need not much, as long as they can support each other, mutual tolerance and respect, they will have a happy family.