What are the etiquette and procedures for marriage?

Part I: service personnel division of labor, duties (a) witnesses, officiating; best man, maid of honor; hotel chief, fleet chief; master of ceremonies, cameraman, photographer.　　I. Witnesses and celebrants Witnesses, as the name suggests, are the legal proof of marriage. Centered on the male family, from the point of view of etiquette witnesses to the guest position, the order of etiquette is generally in front of the main wedding, usually served by the bride in the past. The main content of the witness's speech is: "marriage is legal, congratulations on the new marriage" and so on. Usually hired by the woman witnesses, most of the bride unit leaders. Of course, witnesses can also be hired by the man. Officiating the wedding according to traditional etiquette is the groom's parents as, from the point of view of etiquette officiating at the main position, the order of etiquette is generally in the back of the witnesses. Nowadays, most parents do not personally officiate at the wedding but entrust others to officiate for their own, so the work of the officiating person is to officiate on behalf of the parents, the main points of his speech is: "Thank you for the guests, exhortation to the newcomers, and mention some of the requirements of the family after the" and so on, commonly known as to the "wedding speech". Officiating must be hired by the man. Witnesses, the wedding officiant wedding wear identity safflower, wedding speech can not be long-winded. Must arrive at the hotel on time, to 10:30 am for good.　　Second, the best man, bridesmaid. Must be unmarried, equal in number, from the height try not to be too much higher than the newcomer. Best man, bridesmaids in the wedding day should be well-dressed, always pay attention to the newcomer and inseparable, to provide the newcomer with their most needed personal service. If the bridesmaids are wearing wedding dresses, they should not wear coiffure or heavy makeup; the best man should be dressed in a suit. Bridesmaids generally should bring some simple cosmetics, personal items for the bride, at any time for the bride to make up, etc.; but also carry a small bag, for the new couple to receive the storage of congratulatory gifts and other items. The best man accompanies the new couple to give the guests a toast.　　Third, the hotel manager. The hotel general manager of the hotel is responsible for the overall preparation work, led by him, 5 - 6 welcome personnel with.　　The main work is: 1, to the hotel to carry happy supplies, including three categories: A, cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, melon seeds, drinks.　　B, 'happy' words, double-sided tape, witnesses, boutonnieres of the main wedding, marriage license, happy couplets, agenda, banners, wedding props (such as: flower gallery, garlands, wedding vows declaration, etc.).　　C, color buckets, balloons, concierge cannons, fresh petals and other wedding supplies; which color buckets, balloons, concierge cannons, fresh petals to be purchased on the basis of the total number of hotels to get two-thirds. Bring to the hotel balloon color bucket is mainly wedding use, the bride get off do not step on more than one use. Concierge gun is generally used outdoors at the time requested by the master of ceremonies.　　2, paste 'happy' words, happy couplets, wedding agenda, set up the wedding site background props, hang banners, test sound, check the microphone, the wedding march and so on (can be handed over to the professional wedding company arrangements).　　3、Prepare the wedding banquet guide, directional signs, table sign; focus on scheduling the mother's table, arrange special people to welcome the guests and so on. Welcome guests to be polite and pay attention to prevent the participation of foreign unrelated personnel (in other words: to prevent the joy of thieves to fish in troubled waters).　　4, set the table, ready to hand over the cup of wine with the hotel to arrange for the waiter to set the table, melon seeds, alcohol, cigarettes, beverages, sugar; hand over the cup of wine selection of goblet, pouring Coca-Cola or red wine, tray loading, lined with a white cloth sprinkled with red rose petals. When setting up the table, depending on the actual situation, consider whether to set up drinks at the end of the wedding, in order to avoid individual guests with drinks after shaking spray newcomers.　　5, to the caravan seal gift, dismantle the flowers on the float. Caravan to the hotel regardless of whether the guests get off the car according to the agreement to seal the wedding gift; arrangements for specialists to quickly dismantle the flowers on the float, the float hood of the flower clusters taken down to the ceremony stage decoration.　　6, held in a star hotel wedding but also with the hotel security articulation do not let the other car close to the hotel door steps to park. Because the floats are generally not from the normal traffic into the hotel, more than one hotel steps under the square parked in front of the hotel, so that the visual openness is conducive to the creation of grand site effects. If there is a fountain in front of the hotel to prompt the hotel to open.　　7, on behalf of the main family and the hotel agreed. One: the wedding did not start do not serve gazpacho. Because the wedding started to spray flowers, flowers easily contaminated dishes; on a good gazpacho is not conducive to the guests to focus attention on the ceremony. The second: all non-agreed consumption, the hotel must seek the consent of the hotel manager or the host family, to avoid excessive non-normal expenditures. Third: with the hotel to confirm the total number of wedding banquets, to determine the total number of the first meeting; as far as possible to arrange a table of ten people after the opening, to avoid waste. Fourth: pay attention to the wedding banquet to be in the center to leave the bride and groom out of the aisle and the wedding site should be space. Fifth: agree on the place where the drinks are placed, supply procedures, etc., and have someone in charge.　　8: Remind to help the main family to close the booth after the wedding banquet. Arrange the service staff to dine, check whether there are guests missing items, packing up the remaining cigarettes and alcohol, etc., leftovers packaged food, etc..　　Fourth, the fleet chief 1, to help newcomers in accordance with folklore requirements for the preparation of driving routes, welcome time, and to determine the number of both sides of the welcome to arrange for enough vehicles to meet the bride.　　Driving routes set the best can run once in advance, to time, traffic control, prohibited, etc., and then delineate a formal road map can be clear at a glance and marked the departure place, the mother's home, the hotel, what section of the road to organize the fleet and fleet manager, the hotel manager, the groom and other relevant personnel contact information and other relevant content. Welcome time to ensure that 10:30 am back to the hotel is best. Based on this criterion to consider the distance, traffic conditions to draw up when to leave, when to the bride's home and so on. The bride's family should allow at least 40 minutes from the time of entry to the time of departure. The overall time design should also have at least 15 minutes of reserve to cope with traffic jams and other emergencies.　　2, the fleet chief to the float to pay enough attention, when to tie, when to tie good to have a clear idea.　　At the same time, boutonnieres, hand bouquets, fresh petals should also be brought back on time no less. The float is best to return to the departure place half an hour before departure, because the groom before departure also have to use the identity flower, hand bouquet, etc..　　3, the morning of the wedding day according to the agreed time down the caravan.　　Camera car in the forefront, at least 60 meters from the float in place; then the float head, the rest of the car based on the gift of the high and low grades to consider the requirements of the folklore in order to follow the good, the requirements of a straight line; to each car issued car road map and in the car in the gift of the car in the mirror according to the folklore Department of the red strips of red, red flowers, the latter affixed to the 'happy' word.　　4, the convoy to the mother's home according to the mother's home terrain to consider the convoy into, placed, turn around and other issues. The convoy out of the mother's home but also consider the mother's neighbors to stop the happy, generally prepared sugar and cigarettes to cope with the happy.　　5, the convoy to the hotel after the float according to the agreed position of parking (floats generally do not take the normal lane), the convoy chief to remind the hotel with the chief executive to the convoy to seal the wedding ceremony, to be the newcomer off the car after dismantling the float flowers and so on.　　(B) married female guests, pressure car children, lighting, sound engineer, salute hand, sprinkle sugar, sprinkle flowers, hotel welcome, auxiliary gift personnel.　　First, marrying female guests commissioned by the parents to participate in the wedding, focusing on welcoming the bride's family. To the bride's home to accompany the bride's family greetings, mutual congratulations, accompanied by guiding the bride's family on the limousine, to the hotel accompanied by guiding the bride's family to the designated banquet seating, to avoid everyone clustered around the bride's family, no one to take care of the female guests to make the female guests to the beginning of the feeling that there is a special person to take care of.　　Second, sprinkle sugar to pay attention to spread the later the better, preferably in the bride's family on the float, the bride's family is also almost on the time to sprinkle; sprinkle sugar to pay attention to prevent onlookers coaxed to grab the pocket; sprinkle sugar also pay attention to do not once sprinkled to stay a little bit to be prepared for someone to stop the happy time to use.　　Third, the salute gunners should carefully read the instructions of the salute gun, observe the wind direction, generally hit the top wind. Pay attention to the time and direction required by the master of ceremonies to hit on time.　　(C) the day of the wedding service personnel, guests of the basic etiquette requirements I. The whole listen to the master of ceremonies to arrange the command, and then we all do their own jobs, each responsible for their own responsibilities, and cooperate with each other, in the agreed upon time to their own commitment to the service work completed on time. It is strictly prohibited to push the committee and pull the skin.　　Second, the stars. Pay attention to anytime and anywhere to flock to the newcomer, service personnel, guests stand the best in the back of the newcomer, so that it can fully feel "a life when the protagonist back to the happiness".　　Third, pay attention not to block the camera. Camera and the straight line distance between the new people do not block or back and forth over.　　Fourth, pay attention to the safety of the celebration. Color bucket is flammable, use to avoid the fire source, light smoke to avoid spraying the color bucket.　　Fifth, pay attention to the even use of festive supplies, do not pile up with, the best wedding all day with festive supplies to bake the atmosphere.　　Sixth, pay attention to the bride to the basic respect. Spray color bucket do not spray to the bride's face.　　Seven, pay attention to dress neatly, avoid clothing sloppy, wear against the auspicious dress; make fun of the way taboo pranks. Part II: the procurement of festive items to prepare a macro, including the new house, decoration, furniture, electrical appliances, necessities, cave decorations, ornaments and so on. Second, micro 1, cigarettes, alcohol, sugar, melon seeds, beverages purchased on demand. The wine should pay attention to include the seal gift to the fleet driver, the new couple wedding banquet toast required. Sugar, melon seeds to consider the wedding to individual friends and relatives after the return gift. Summer also need to prepare beer.　　2, video camera, film, flash batteries. Non-commercial camera services (friends to help) to consider video tapes, video lights, etc., depending on the wedding grade, the size of the purchase as needed. Commercial videography services required by the camera equipment videographer to bring. Weddings are recommended to ask a better reputation for commercial videographers, 3, color bucket color bucket is divided into color flowers (also known as spray flowers), color snow (snow), color bars (ribbon), when shopping for three kinds of attention to color flowers, color bars are mainly, color snow as a supplement. Also note that the color of the cover, the general cover is what color, sprayed out of the flower is what color, so choose more red and pay attention to color matching. Color snow note must not buy white cover, it is best to red cover. Color bucket to pay attention to the purchase of regular manufacturers of products to ensure the quality of the celebration. Usually check the color bucket packaging whether there is a factory name, factory address, telephone, do not buy three products. Color bucket depending on the wedding grade, the size of the purchase as needed. Generally need 16 buckets - 60 buckets. Take 20 buckets as an example: 8 buckets of colorful flowers, 8 buckets of colorful stripes, 4 buckets of colorful snow, such as the number of colors with the best.　　Be careful to remove the logo, pocket, etc. before the wedding day. Newlywed tokens are commonly wedding rings, but also each other for each other to prepare a commemorative pre-wedding confidentiality of the gift wedding, and let each other guess a guess. Wedding vows declaration each other on the proposed or the officiant to provide. You can also use each other's tone of voice for each other to draw up each other's wedding vows declaration, confidentiality before the wedding, wedding please read each other, this method is very interesting.　　6, corsage, hand bouquet, head flower, wrist flower, fresh petals. Wear corsages for the bride and groom; both parents; witnesses, officiating; best man, maid of honor; emcee, VIPs, etc., prepared accordingly. A bouquet of hand bouquets is presented by the groom when he sees the bride. Head flower, wrist flower refers to the flowers used for the bride's disk head and wrist, usually consisting of lilies, magnolias and so on. Fresh petals refers to the red rose petals, the number of more good, in the wedding day of the bride's family welcome, the big wedding thrown.　　7, Guestbook, invitations, red thread, the size of the red envelope, happy words, happy couplets, agendas, small plastic bags filled with candy, double-sided tape, wear corsage pins.　　8, wedding activities required by a variety of props to promote the festive atmosphere. For example: wedding background, sound, music CD, flower gallery, rainbow door, red carpet, festive red candles, performances accompanied by banquets, banners, bands, flying balloons doves and so on. Part III: the new man etiquette requirements a. Generous and decent, happy and smiling. Bride and groom each other to prepare a big smile. Even if some people make fun of some excessive, the new couple can not lose their temper, unhappy. All the way to the end should be smiling.　Second, frankly enjoy the service. Before the wedding couples in the master of ceremonies to coordinate all things assigned to the person, the wedding day groom to find the head of the air, do not enter the state of the chief executive; the bride to find the feeling of the Princess, and each other frankly enjoy the service. Even if the service work done by friends and the requirements of the new man some distance to be natural, because the new man in the wedding day and then go to arrange what is almost unhelpful. Also affect the new man's demeanor" three, the new man should pay attention to the wedding day, always line shadow with each other, line "arm tie" the best, to maintain shoulder to shoulder, bladder by bladder and happy smile.　　Fourth, in the indoor space is relatively small when it is necessary to pay attention to the cameraman a "face", in order to facilitate him to shoot more positive shots of the bride and groom.　　Fifth, the bride should pay attention to self-protection. In the boudoir to the groom to open the door, to the hotel to get off the float, the wedding started when the bride is the most colorful barrel jet time period, the bride should pay attention to these times to put down the veil to cover.　　Six, the new toast in the spirit of order, first female guests, after the male guests; first elders, leaders, after the principle of general friends. To female guests, the groom served wine, to male guests, the bride served wine. The bride and groom should not kick the wine, wine, do not persuade to toast, to be fast and decent, to ensure that the table to the principle of general banquets as far as possible a table one end.　　Part IV: Determine the wedding style, form, grade A lifetime of great joy is the wedding. How to do the wedding grand style is very satisfied, sweet and happy memories often?　　First of all, you have to choose your favorite form of wedding. Each form of wedding has its own specific iconic content. Modern popular wedding is our most common rich in the characteristics of the times of the form of wedding, flower car to marry, hotel ceremony, feast guests and friends, the bride and groom toasting, happy cave and so on.　　Collective wedding is the most trouble-free choice, but also strongly advocated by the government, but not conducive to highlighting the wedding personality. The traditional wedding form is also known as the pure Chinese wedding, its main content is the sedan chair shaking, suona ringing, pick up the bride, red cape, red cape, wear red flowers, light candles, worship heaven and earth, honor the high hall, into the cave and so on. Each ethnic wedding has its own traditions and characteristics, our country has fifty-six ethnic groups, wedding 'ten miles of different winds, a hundred miles of different customs', each with its own unique characteristics; want to make their own weddings to do novel and chic, full of exotic atmosphere, drawing on the wedding customs of ethnic minorities is not a good choice. Europe and the United States church bible singing, refers to Europe and the United States wedding customs, the use of this wedding form of general newcomers at least one is a Christian; its main content is the church, the priest, the Bible, holy water, wedding vows, wedding rings, choir and so on. Chinese and Western-style wedding is a combination of church weddings and modern popular wedding, this form is very common in Hong Kong, Macao, Taiwan, the use of buffet form, unique, the wedding dissolved into the dance and performances, everyone sings and dances, the stars *** with the blessing of the new couple. Green field knot mandarin ducks is the representative of the outdoor wedding, in the nature of heaven and earth to testify, the mountains and rivers to testify, guests to testify, married; *** planting love tree, burning incense and vow, hold your hand, and grow old with your son. Alternative forms of wedding a variety of forms, air marriage, underwater marriage and so on; the purpose is to be new and different, different, new and exciting, unforgettable for life.　Determine the form and content of the wedding, to clarify the wedding grade, specifications and input plans, and then entrusted to the professional planning, arrangements, handling or design their own plans to prepare in an orderly manner.　Thorough and meticulous pre-wedding preparation is the basic conditions for a successful wedding. So how to carry out innovative and meticulous wedding ideas and planning? What do you need to pay attention to before the wedding preparation?　Wedding ideas and planning vary from person to person, on the basis of ability, as long as the grand and festive, 'lifetime when the protagonist', so that the newcomer to fully experience the sacred happiness of marriage, satisfied, unforgettable for life, is a good idea and planning.