The first time I met moncler jackets outlet Ken, it was in the dusk of a summer day.
He was sitting on one of the steps in front of the neighborhood in a disheveled and unkempt outfit, shouting something about divorce and the lack of a conscience.
This time, after dinner out of the cool more and more people, surrounded by moncler jackets outlet uk around the people watching the fun is also more and more people.
And the snotty, snotty moncler jackets for sale, stinky, sweaty clothes were wet many times, and he was crying, which made him sad to hear and sad to see.
01, 69 years old was divorced, the old partner too desperate?
Mr. Ken introduced himself, he is 69 years old, six months ago was forced by his partner divorced, now he two days to eat a meal, the body of the clothes, half a month have not washed, completely like a widow.
Think of the year, the couple is also considered a poor couple, who had thought that the old, old, old, his partner gave him such a show, but also to provoke the relationship between his daughter and him, he is now really good pity.
And the reason why he chose to sit here and cry, because his old partner after the divorce moved to this neighborhood and his daughter to live with her, the old partner loves to square dance, here is her must pass through, he wants to stop his old partner to ask a clear question, why is so desperate, what is the intention!
Just in everyone's sighing in the middle of sighing, from the neighborhood to come to an aunt in her early 60s, holding a fan, dressed in a red satin dancing clothes, it seems to be to catch the square dance.
This aunt heard moncler jackets for sale the yelling from afar and accelerated her footsteps, and as she approached, she became angry.
Obviously, she is the former partner of Mr. Jin's desperate and unsympathetic wife.
After listening to Mr. Ken's questioning and the neighbors' comments, Auntie was both furious and justifiably angry, and Mr. Ken went head-to-head.
According to the aunt, when she was young, she didn't mind the fact that moncler jackets sale her family had many siblings and was poor, so she married moncler jackets sale him in a cowshed and lived in a dilapidated house in the village brigade for three years before she got her own three-room grass hut.
In order to improve her life, she worked early in the morning and late at night to labor and save money to spend the day, but her husband, on the basis of their own read a few days of school, cultured, want to save face, never work in the field, and do not do the household chores, every day's mind is to find the fox friends drink, talk about business.
"At that time, there was no running water in the countryside, so I went to the water tower in the center of the village every day to get water, and he slept in his bed. Pregnant 7 months of winter, I have to go to the water, road slippery ground wet, a foot stepped on the air, fell a big horse lying down, the child in the belly did not move, I want to go to the hospital to check, he did not take me to my own begging others to take me to the county to do the ultrasound, the fetus is dead, molding of the child, induced abortion than the production of a more fatal. But he did not look at me, blaming me for being useless and losing his son." Auntie finished, tears flowed down.
Then her husband finally found a way to start a business, and his income grew, so he looked down on her even more.
A man, once he is critical of his woman, will breed trouble.
"In the fifth year of marriage, I finally gave birth to my first daughter, but in the month, a woman came to my door, claiming to have been bullied by my husband, but also left evidence, so that I paid for the disaster, or to bring my husband to justice. 80's in the countryside, I was an ignorant, no income, with a child of less than a month of the woman, there is no other choice? I borrowed and scraped together 500 yuan, but this 500 yuan, at that time, was my and my child's living expenses for nearly three years, but whenever I think of this incident, I feel like swallowing a live fly." The Auntie finished her speech and glared at Mr. Jin, who scowled, seeing that what the Auntie had said was true.
Auntie explained that in the days that followed, she was so determined that her husband would correct himself that she worked hard to run a business with him, and the days were red-hot and eye-catching.
Whether in-laws or husband, all hope that the family to add a male child, so Auntie again pregnant.
After five months of pregnancy, her husband personally took her to an acquaintance for an ultrasound, and when he saw that it was a girl, he immediately asked for an abortion, but Auntie refused, and her husband has since justified his dislike of Auntie.
After the birth of Auntie, her husband was even more furious, and he simply made it clear that he was looking for a woman to live with him outside the home in order to take revenge.
Auntie was busy with her business while bringing up her two children on her own.
"Do you ever remember, your business bankruptcy when your good-looking woman, pitched you more than 100,000 yuan disappeared; do you ever remember, the children in high school, you gambling, losing the whole family has no rice under the pot, I pushed a small three-wheeler selling ten years of breakfast, up and down. One winter, snowy morning, I called you to help me push the car, you are too tired, do not get up, I push the car, a small slope, up and down, slippery slope, I froze to climb an hour, winter months, a sweat, to the stalls of the place, has passed the peak of the morning meal, I did not earn the expected 100 dollars, their own sneak wiped tears in the morning. Summer rain, shouting you pick me up, you are afraid to get wet, I and the car together overturned into a ditch, is a passer-by will help me up, fell into the mud people I, crying and thanked that person all the way." Auntie finished, sobbing.
Later, when her husband's career turned red, the old problem returned.
Auntie was preoccupied with her children's college entrance exams, graduation, employment, marriage and children, and the couple became strangers, and ten years passed.
"Do you ever remember, you good words, let me go to help the eldest daughter to bring up the child, three whole years, you and other people cohabitation ah, you then have been 65 years old ah. You were 65 years old at the time. Where is the woman who was a dozen years younger than you and who scolded me with you? You only eat once every two days and don't wash your clothes once every half a month, why? Because I've been your nanny for most of your life, you're used to being fed and clothed, and now that we're divorced and I'm no longer serving you, you've come back to this, what are your intentions?" Auntie questioned.
Before everyone's eyes, Jin lowered his head, stood up, did not say anything, hunched back, dragging a pair of dirty and worn slippers away.
"Don't come to my daughter's place to find me in the future, I'm going to live in a nursing home, let the children have a few days of clean life, you come again I will call the police." Auntie shouted from behind.
Sure enough, the next day, the aunt's daughter was seen loading three or five boxes into a car and sending the aunt to a nursing home.
02, half a year does not return home once, is the daughter unfilial?
Seeing moncler jackets outlet Ken again was not too long ago.
Near the Chinese New Year, still in the district entrance, moncler jackets outlet, wearing a collar cuffs are worn warm underwear, the middle of a broken, the jacket is an outdated, stains all over the body, the smell of oil and smoke full of the old down jacket, the lower body of the pants, stained with urine, bare feet, wearing a pair of cotton shoes.
"Your neighborhood, less than 8,000 yuan a flat, she lived in more than 140 square feet of large house, working in a high-grade office, wearing thousands of dollars of clothing, the annual goods have long been prepared for it! Who would have thought that I am her father, she is my daughter it, I have not seen her for half a year." Apparently, it was his daughter that Ken came to crusade against this time.
But what goes around comes around, and the daughter didn't leave her father with much face when she came out.
"You are now thinking of your daughter half a year does not come home to see you, when you and other women living together, often a year and a half, can ever think of coming home to see my daughter?" Daughter's words are blame, but it is hard to hide the sadness.
"You now see me sitting in a big office, living in a high building, wearing good clothes, who was when I was a child, while hitting me, while cursing, daughter has no talent, money-losing goods." The daughter said through gritted teeth.
"Study for more than ten years, you did not transport me once, sick countless times, you did not comfort me a sentence." Daughter continued to accuse.
"You probably don't remember, when I was in elementary school, one day after school, it was pouring rain, I waited for my mom to pick me up at the school gate, you were with another woman, picking up a little boy from school, I saw you, but you pretended that you couldn't see me, and waited for my mom to come and pick me up, and in the pouring rain, I saw you and the woman and the boy, sitting in a restaurant, talking, laughing and ordering their food to eat. " The daughter finished, has long been sobbing.
The daughter was going to say something else and was pulled back by her husband.
A little later, the son-in-law came out and comforted, "Dad, you go back first, on the second day of the year, we will go back to pay you New Year's greetings."
The old man got up to go, the daughter and chased out to add: "Do not go to Beijing to bother my sister, otherwise, you are sued me sentenced to imprisonment, but also will not go to see you again a trip."
Again, there were sighs.
Some people lamented moncler jackets outlet the heartlessness of Jin's old companion, some people were saddened by their daughter's indifference, and some people pitied Jin's old age and despondency, but when you think about it, is it pitiful or deserved it ?
03, write in the last:
Ken's thing, is not an example.
Whether it's a survey of data or examples around us, the active or passive divorce of the elderly has reached a climax in recent years.
The old divorce is a lifelong grudge, but also in which each of the children of the hijacking, a lifetime of discord between the two people, in the completion of the children to grow up, the task of starting a family, a beat, buried not only the happiness of the majority of their respective lives, but also on the child's character growth, married life, and a huge impact on the way to deal with the world.
And the party at fault in the marriage, often young rampant, willful, wantonly hurt the family, when old, and leaning on the old, everywhere crying, redress of grievances.
"I am most afraid that he is old and kind, down and out, half a lifetime of obsessive hatred for him to dissipate, half a lifetime of happiness is buried, who is to blame?" A bosom friend once said this about his father.
"Why doesn't he scold me anymore? It's been like this for most of my life, and now he's serving me tea and shushing me, what am I going to do?" A netizen once left me a message.
"I am most afraid of the evil man to become old, you are no longer reasonable, but also can not take him to do, if this evil man is your parents, you only have the part of crying." Another netizen message.
"Now I am extremely dissatisfied with the marriage, divorce, and do not have the courage and ability, and my husband is like a replica of my father, and I became my most hated, my own mother's appearance, I am really afraid that the child will be the next me again." Was the message from yet another user.
So this article, borrowing from Ken, is written for all young couples and parents. As a husband and wife, do not start and stop; as a parent, be sure to start and end with caution.
Don't be afraid to ask for help in your old age.
May the above text, and my readers *** encouragement.