What is it like to have a childish mom?

My mom is also, before the New Year, said she wanted to go to Shenzhen to work, grandma and aunts are scolding her, she also want to go. After the New Year, I started school to go to Shanghai, asked her to go, she said her cousin in Shenzhen said a little bit bitter that 2020 then say it. I told my mom to go to the square dance when she is free, but she said that the square dance is not suitable for her, she wants to go to the ghost step.