Taboo matters on the day of marriage
Taboo matters on the day of marriage, marriage is often overflowing with the flavor of happiness and festive atmosphere, marriage in China and has a lot of traditional customs, in this full of happy days often exist a lot of taboos. To understand the wedding day taboo matters and related matters.
One of the wedding day taboos
( a ) taboo in the ghost month of marriage, that is, the seventh month of the lunar calendar.
( 2 ) Avoid getting married in the sixth month of the lunar calendar, the meaning of half a month wife.
( 3 ) When installing the bed, it is necessary to place it in the right place, avoiding the table and closet or any object with sharp corners.
( 4 ) On the day of the engagement, no matter how hot the weather, all the participants in the engagement, can not fan, or will have the meaning of separation.
( 5 ) bride wedding day dresses worn by the dresses do not have pockets, so as not to take away the bride's family fortune.
( 6 ) When the bride left her mother's home, the more she cried, the better, the more she cried, the more hair, do not cry, not the meaning of hair.
( 7 ) On the day of the wedding, when the bride went out, the aunt and sister-in-law should be avoided, can not be sent, because the "aunt" and "lonely" homophonic, and "sister-in-law" and "sweeping" homophonic, are unlucky.
( eight ) in the wedding on the way, such as meeting another team to marry the caravan, called the "joy of happiness", will offset each other's blessings, so the need for each other to firecrackers, or the two sides of the matchmakers exchanged flowers, in order to solve the problem.
( nine) the day of the wedding, no one can not touch the new bed, until the night of bed, the bride can not touch the edge of the bed.
( 10 ) Because children are prone to crying, so children should be prohibited from entering the wedding hall, because crying in the hall will be unlucky.
( xi ) When the bride enters the door of the man's house, do not step on the threshold of the door, should be crossed.
( xii ) Anyone whose zodiac sign is "tiger" or widow, can not observe the ceremony and enter the new house.
( xiii ) Bride be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, there will be shy husband.
( 14) the day of the homecoming, the newlyweds must leave the bride's home before sunset to go home, never stay in the bride's home for the night, in case there are special reasons can not go home, the couple to sleep separately, so as to avoid colliding with the bride's family to make the bride's family bad luck.
Second, the wedding day do's and don'ts
1, the bride's breakfast: as a bride, you may be this day, all things are arranged by others, is the most out of your life, in order to the whole wedding of the normal conduct, you want to make everyone feel happy, satisfied and proud of you, you will be a blank and nervous. A moment of blankness and nervousness, may not have a good appetite, but remember that breakfast can not be omitted.
2, the bride's shoes: general bride before the wedding will pick some with the wedding site dress code with the shoes, if you are careful bride will certainly buy shoes with your dress is very compatible. Here is a tip for you, you buy shoes not only pay attention to the style and color, but also pay attention to the comfort. Because the wedding day, the bride is always the protagonist, you need to stand for a long time to accompany the guests, so don't forget to bring two pairs of shoes, one pair is matched with your dress, one pair is as a change of dress more comfortable shoes.
3, the bride red packets: Chinese brides will encounter the problem of red packets when they get married, the first time for the bride you may receive a variety of friends and relatives to give you red packets, these red packets to be collected and properly preserved. Because often the red envelope will write some words of blessing and have a clear name and amount, do not mess. At the same time, some brides will also send you some junior guests red packets, these red packets should be in advance according to the number of guests who may be present at the scene were wrapped up, by the person handed to the bride to distribute them. The red packet is absolutely can not be ignored things, which contains the relationship between the near and far all included here.
Three, how to choose the best man bridesmaids
1, the height of the standard
bridesmaids height should not be too different from the bride's height.
2, the standard of body shape
The body shape of the best man bridesmaids should not be too different from the bride's body shape. Being overweight or underweight will also attract the attention of the guests.
3, clothing standards
Bridesmaid's dress color, not too bright, too fancy the same will let the guests and the new man made a contrast, which will cause the dazzle of the main. The general principle of clothing is to highlight the wedding couple.
4, the standard of demeanor
Bridesmaids from the choice, should be the wedding couple's best friend, their demeanor, should reflect the wedding couple's cultural qualities. Therefore, the newlyweds should pay attention to this issue when choosing the best man and maid of honor. Because on the day of the wedding, the wedding couple of many things need them to take care of, their treatment of people, speak manners, to reflect the grade of the wedding couple. And those who drink after the willingness for buddies two ribbed knife friends, or arrange for them to drink the best.
wedding day taboos 2What are the bride's instructions when she gets married and goes out
A dress without pockets
When you get married, every bride will wear her own carefully prepared wedding dress. But in the bride to get married out of the house, wearing the wedding dress must not be able to have pockets. Because it is said that the bride's trousseau with pockets will take away the wealth of the family.
Second, do not incite fans
The wedding site can not be someone with a fan, the bride is no exception. Because the fan as the name suggests is the meaning of breaking up. So brides, for the sake of their own happiness, must not bring a fan, especially when they have to go out.
Third, the bride to cry
The bride in the time of leaving the mother's home, itself will have more or less sad. Therefore, the bride married out of the door can cry out loud, and cry the more sad the better. Because in folklore there is such a saying, the bride does not cry not hair, the more you cry the more hair.
Fourth, sister-in-law avoidance
When the bride married out, the bride's ` aunt and sister-in-law can not send the bride. Because, aunt of the harmonic is "lonely", sister-in-law of the harmonic is "sweeping", so the two relatives in the bride out of the time, it is best to avoid as appropriate.
Fifth, do not say goodbye
When the bride married out, never be able to say goodbye to them, including the bride's parents can not say goodbye. Because goodbye such words can easily lead to the new couple's feelings of discord, and the possibility of remarriage.
Other tips for the bride to get married
A cross the threshold
When the bride arrives at the man's home, it is important to remember: always carry your feet across the threshold of the man's home, never step on the threshold of the man's home.
Second, before the end of the wedding can not lie in bed
Although the wedding is tedious, but the bride must remember: even if they are tired down, the wedding is not over, can not lie in their wedding bed. Because the implication of lying in bed in advance is that you will be the end of the year to the end of the meaning of the sick in bed.
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5, the tradition of the custom of the bed, in the bed must be placed in the bed position, avoid any sharp objects against the bed place.
6, engaged everyone after the engagement dinner, everyone must not say goodbye, which represents the meaning of remarriage.
7, the day of the official wedding, the bride's clothes can not have pockets, which is to avoid will take away the bride's family fortune.
8, the day the bride got married, when leaving the mother's home, you must cry wedding, crying the more powerful the better, there is the meaning of hair.
Taboos on the night of the wedding day what to pay attention to on the day of the wedding
9, the bride out of her mother's house, as the aunt and sister-in-law to be avoided, because the "Auntie" and the "Lone" homophonic, and the "sister-in-law" to avoid the "Lone", and the "sister-in-law" to the "Lone". "Sister-in-law" and "sweep" homophonic, are unlucky words
10, if the day of the wedding a lot of people, if the wedding car on the way to meet the other welcoming team will offset both sides of the blessing, so both sides of the firecrackers or matchmakers to exchange flowers to to resolve.
11, the day of the wedding, the bride spoke of the groom's home door can not be feet on the door, you must use the cross.
12, on the day of the wedding, the new bed of the new couple shall not allow anyone to lift, must be until after today to the next day.
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13, the wedding day, but not before the bride can not lie down, or there will be "a year to the night are sick in bed," the meaning of the very unlucky.
14, the Chinese zodiac is a tiger, because the "tiger" and "bitter" have agreed, so it is not appropriate to observe the ceremony and into the new room.
15, the auditorium avoid using fresh flowers, because flowers are easy to thank, only the lotus flower and pomegranate flowers are not taboo.
16, the bride should not step on the groom's shoes, because there is a shy husband.