-Zhou Dedong's love, don't bloom.
"Natural love has a time limit."
Helen Fisher, an American anthropologist, is a female scientist. She believes that it is human nature to live a monogamous life with different partners or to have a fixed relationship with time limit. So, how fragile is the newlyweds' vow to be together for life? Do sexual desire, love and partnership really rely solely on hormones? Are people in love actually like monkeys in heat?
Well, nobody answered.
But life tells us that seeing is not necessarily believing. Couples who quarrel, beat and scold, and outsiders don't seem to love each other have come to an end. Migratory birds that seem to be happy and loving also fly away halfway.
Love has always been a procedural process of natural creatures, but human society has attached ethics to it, making it both romantic and sad, as well as true love and false love.
John and Mary are a happy couple. Of course, in the eyes of outsiders, this is almost a model. However, each of them wants to kill each other.
The reason is simple: an affair.
The infidelity of two people makes the flower of love wither in the corner. Marriage is the grave of love. I don't remember which celebrity said it. What we can know is that the shelf life of love is very short, and the final result depends on how the two manage it.
John and Mary don't really hate each other. Instead, it gives birth to "I don't think the other party is at fault. Why should I betray?" Ambiguous psychology. However, every time we have an affair or a tryst, the "he" next to us always asks in a gentle and even urgent tone, "Dear, when can we be together well?" You must get a divorce! "Humans can't help doing things that make them struggle and choose, such as true betrayal and excuses for self-forgiveness. At first, John couldn't find a reason to divorce Mary because he thought it was despicable to kick his wife away for no reason.
You heard me right, mean. A man who has completely betrayed his wife physically and is about to be separated mentally cares about the beauty of the house on the eve of the storm rather than the firmness. This is ridiculous, but the real betrayal really needs a hypocritical and sad face to cover up in the adult world. Death may be the perfect prop. John thinks that only when his wife dies unexpectedly can she know the truth without sadness and be with her lover. Of course, the most important thing is to give yourself a "hint". People are animals who like to hint at themselves, and sometimes they like to direct and perform themselves, so that they will not fall into a quagmire on some ethical commanding heights.
The terrible thing is that Mary thinks so, too.
The lovers on both sides seem to be impatient and ready to move, as if waiting for this wonderful play. One day, John and his wife, Mary, had dinner together, which was their last dinner. John said that his wife didn't pay attention and gently pushed the stone carving, which was a perfect crime. Unexpectedly, in John's cup of coffee, his wife has prepared him with an excessive amount of sleeping pills. Death, let the lovers go together.
A O'Henry ending shattered the dream of love with the couple's common death.
The flower of love is really delicate and charming at the moment of blooming, but have you ever thought that what is waiting behind this delicate and charming is withering? If you want it to be beautiful forever, it is mutual loyalty between two people. And mutual loyalty needs management and nutrition, which is the demand after a hundred flowers bloom, and this demand is a test.
John and Mary can't stand it.
Can you stand in front of the screen again and again day after day? I think it depends on the interweaving of human nature and individual soul.
Human nature can be loyal, can be together, or can go their separate ways and find another lover. This may be nonsense, but how to control its weather vane depends on ourselves and make full preparations.
"Love, don't blossom!" No one can guarantee that it will stand the test, because no matter in the past or now, some people fall in love sweetly and others fall in love. What remains unchanged is the eulogy of faithful and infatuated love songs and the screening of movies that make people cry. They always undertake the mission of spreading "sacred love" for the world and society. What about us? He always turns at one intersection and meets another at another.
Are you ready to hold his hand at the next intersection?