Grandpa passed away, see grandma alone my heartache how to do?

The death of a family member is a big change for a family, and all the family members' moods will be affected for sure. The death of the grandfather, for the grandmother will be a bigger blow, because not only because they live so long time produced feelings, but also because for the grandmother, the future without the old partner, will be more lonely. So to solve this problem, we need to start from two aspects: for the fact of death to give appeasement, because people have a death, if it is a long time to die of disease, for the patient is also a relief, so that the grandmother to look at this matter from an objective point of view, to give her heart to soothe. For the grandmother's future life, give her proactive consideration, such as the first few days a month in the son or daughter to live in the process of transferring her thoughts, soothe her uncertainty anxiety fear, so that she slowly come out of the emotions.

It also takes time, don't be in a hurry your grandfather passed away, grandma is in a bad mood is normal, time is the best medicine, you have time to spend more time with her to talk about what she sees and hears every day, do not have to deliberately go to comfort her, talk about daily life interesting things, and even ask her to help do some chores, so that she has a little something to do she will be faster to come out from the loss. Should be more communication and exchange with him, and take her outside to go for a walk, take a break, let her go outside for a while, travel tours including with some of the former good friends to do some of the things they want to do, more to participate in some collective activities, more people at home, accompanied by more detachment you also have to pretend to have passed the sadness, every day is very happy, this is not to say that grandma passed away can not be sad, but in the Grandpa in front of these sadness can not show, you have to let him feel that you have gone through this sadness, then he will also try to live happily.