And this kind of noise is not only reflected in the behavior, but also engraved in the heart.
This is actually normal, just like birds like singing loudly and apes like screaming loudly.
However, in a crowded society, noise often approaches negative events.
When you think of war, the first thing you think of is probably the deafening roar and explosion, followed by various pictures.
Sound usually represents the transmission of signals. The louder and noisier the voice, the more likely it is negative.
People come and go in the world, bustling, and the ordinary world is always noisy.
Where there are people, there must be struggles and contradictions, ranging from bargaining in the vegetable market to shouting and killing in the field of life and death. No matter where you are, your ears will always be filled with all kinds of voices.
However, man is not a low-level animal after all, and too much animality is contrary to civilization.
People can be called human beings because we have a civilization that other creatures don't have.
The development of society is inseparable from the progress of civilization. The more developed civilization is, the lower the animal nature of human beings is.
People who grow up in civilization are often quiet and introverted. They don't need to express their emotions with low-level arguments and shouts, because this will not fundamentally solve the problem, but will make the situation worse.
It is precisely because of the existence of civilization that talents are divided into high and low. This distinction is not class, but ideology.
A truly noble person, whether born poor or rich, has a unique temperament, which is quiet and indifferent.
This nobility is from the heart, not to say that wearing exquisite clothes and expensive accessories is noble.
It is vulgar to equate material luxury with noble people. Even if you can support a little "luxury" by wearing it, it is just a treasure.
This is especially true for women.
When men talk about women, the first thing that comes to mind is probably all kinds of nagging and chatter. They think that a woman's mouth will never stop, which is worse than the spell of Tang priest.
It is precisely because of this stereotype that the phrase "a woman is equal to 500 sparrows" came into being.
This can't blame others for being partial, because women have always been oppressed, have no right to choose and speak, and even think that women without talent are virtues.
When you lose most of your choices, there is naturally only one place to vent all your emotions, and that is your mouth.
The same is true for men. It's not a question of gender, but a question of living environment.
Now the times have changed, everyone is equal and free, and has the right to choose what kind of person he wants to be, noble or vulgar, which is determined by his own efforts.
Women get everything they deserve, but the influence of the old times still exists. Noisy women can still be seen everywhere, but most of them are elderly "aunts".
They are the ones who disturb the people by dancing in the square dance, they are the ones who grab things in the shopping mall, and they are the ones who grab seats and beat people in the bus. I believe that every well-educated girl does not want to be such an "aunt" when she is old.
Everyone wants to be noble and respected, especially the liberated women.
And truly noble women are mostly quiet. They don't need to attract attention with their voices, and they don't need to stir up disputes with their tongues. They are free from vulgarity, independent, quiet and indifferent.
Noble women, no matter what clothes they wear or what hairstyle they wear, will not affect their temperament, and they don't need to pay more attention to their appearance. They just want to be neat and decent, not gorgeous and dazzling.
I am full of life, I am full of poems and books.
People's temperament is from the inside out, not by looks or mouth.
A noble person, as long as he stands there, can form a unique aura, just like a protective cover. No matter where she goes, she is independent of the surrounding environment, elegant and independent, and does not touch mud.
Such a woman has nothing to do with noise. Looking at her, you can't help lowering your voice and even feel ashamed of your noise.
In fact, gentleness and kindness are far more powerful than nagging and accusation, and calm thinking is far more useful than screaming and shouting.
The most rare quality of a woman is not good looks, but calmness.
In fact, whether a person has meaning or not and why he can grow up in the end does not depend on the level of his voice.
In fact, quantity can't prove anything. Most truly noble women are quiet.
When they are treated unfairly, they will fight silently.
When they have something that others don't have, they don't brag loudly, but cherish it silently.
They don't argue, they don't argue, they don't make trouble, they just live their own lives with peace of mind, step by step towards the established goals, and finally live a life envied by adults.