Like the girl to you have these five kinds of performance to be careful
Like the girl to you have these five kinds of performance to be careful, in fact, we should all know, our love life is quite wonderful, but also full of a lot of unknown situations, want to develop a long time away from the two sides of the maintenance, the following like the girl to you have these five kinds of performance to be careful.
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First: moving temper
a girl who loves you, she must be gentle and considerate, plus the character of the super good, but if she is pretending to like you, you will find that she is easy to get angry, a sentence did not say good, and immediately ignited. Quarrel is even more so, you do not come to the head to admit fault, that can definitely cold you for a year and a half, you think she is for your sake, care about you will be angry, in fact, she is with the help of such a way to pinch you.
Like a person's performance is very obvious, do not like it is also very obvious, but pretend to like it makes it very difficult to identify, especially not much love experience of the white, it is easy to be crummy female pinch, randomly make call, be used as a tool. So if you're not sure how to judge, you can come to the public number: small nine remedial classes, small nine to help you analyze at the same time, but also take a high emotional intelligence chat strategy, master more to drive the mood of the tips, so that you rely on chatting alone, but also can harvest sweet love.
Second: constantly emphasize their own hard
love would have needed to pay, a really love you girls, more will not pay more or less, and even suffered losses will also silently bear, but if she is pretending to like you, her eyes are only, their own pay and hard, and constantly emphasize how much they have! Great, how many sacrifices for this relationship, and for those of you, choose to turn a blind eye and keep your mouth shut.
Third: emphasize the need for private space
Girls in love, are very love brain, like you will be full of the world, share your sweet love, even if you just say a "baby I want you" to her, will not be able to help! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that, but I'm sure you're going to be able to do it.
But if she is pretending to like you, there will not be some action, and even usually you about a little more often, she will be very impatient, said she needs to be alone in the space, you have to respect her, out of the date to take pictures, but also only the food, scenery and her.
Fourth: your position is always very back
Like your girls, everything will be the first to think of you, but pretending to like your girls, you will find that your position is at the end. Her family work friends, even a dog she keeps at home, are more important than you, so get along, have you never suspected?
Fifth: never take into account your feelings
You have a little bit of chicken skin things, will be analyzed half a day with her, for fear that she will be suspicious of anger, but to do her, even if it is true that you are not happy with the things that she will not even have a resolution.
More will not care about how your heart is thinking, if you tentatively ask a question, she came to a: If you think so, I can not help. This time, have to congratulate you, and become a fish.
How to chat with your favorite girl
First, choose the right time
If the girl sends a circle of friends to show that she is now playing outside or eating, this time do not go to find her to chat! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that. Even if you chat with you is also intermittent, absent-minded, this time your chat state will be very poor, this time forced to chat is easy to get up resentment, cold field or even be pulled black. The only thing you need to do is to comment on her friend's circle.
If your favorite girl has just gone through a breakup, don't take the initiative to mention her feelings in the chat, because mentioning her emotional life at this time may cause her discomfort, and even evoke her topic in this regard. So when chatting, don't mention her old feelings, you can talk to her about some food or topics that she is interested in.
Second, the opening of how to chat
If you just know the girl, is not very familiar with, you can chat like this, such as help her a little bit of the problem, or talk about some of the things she is more interested in.
If you see her send a circle of friends where to play, you ask her some of the questions you are curious about, for example, she went to Shanghai to play, you can ask her where to play in Shanghai? If she answered you, you can also ask her to send you a picture.
Three, the way of chatting and interacting
The idea of boys and girls chatting is completely different, boys are always thinking of solving problems in the chat, the girl's idea is more emotional, and boys chatting and interacting with each other, often do not want to think about solving the problem, but to share the state and feelings.
So when chatting, don't be in a hurry to express how strong you are mostly competent, but show a delicate emotional side, such as girls tired because of overtime to you to express their worries and feelings, you will certainly comfort her, but often comfort can not solve the problem, but only to ease her emotions, in the end, how to solve the problem? What you have to do is to express your feelings about this matter. You can answer this way: I also do not like to work overtime, my boss is very hateful, often after work called me to a meeting, dare to be angry. If you say it's worse than her, then she'll find a balance in her heart and feel much better
She found someone who's worse off than she is, so you can have a ****ing conversation. She will then feel that you know and understand her grievances and situation. When she comes to you to confide in you and you help her to open up her emotions, it's a good opportunity to bring the two of you closer together. If she only shares sad things with you and not happy things, then you have to be careful, she may just treat you as an emotional trash can.
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How to chat with favorite girls
1, cause *** love
Let's look at two groups of dialog cases:
The first group:
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Male: I went to a restaurant today, their cheese fried shrimp is particularly good.
Woman: Yes, I like cheese, what are his specialties?
Male: Emmm ~ I can not describe, anyway, is quite fragrant. The next time you can bring you to taste.
Woman: Uh-huh, good.
The second group:
M: I ate at a restaurant today, but also too delicious, especially the cheese fried shrimp, crispy a complete fried shrimp, wrapped in a layer of milky golden cheese, bite fresh crispy, taste is really great.
Woman: mom ah ~ ~ I love cheese ~ listen to you say I have to drool.
Male: want to eat it, come on, I feed you, open your mouth, ah ~
Female: hahahaha, really annoying.
Male: Haha, next time you eat ah.
Woman: good wow.
Look at these two sets of dialog, what do you feel?
The first group is obviously very bland, you say how delicious it is I do not feel. So it's hard to get the girls interested.
And the second group, it is very vivid and natural, obviously the atmosphere is also more cheerful, listening to the description of the boys, the girls have been impatient to eat this dish.
So ah, implanting a sense of picture in the dialog, can let the other side more real feel the mood of your chat, more likely to cause the girl's **** love.
2, so that girls have expectations
Look at the above case of this conversation, we can analyze:
Listening to the description of the boys, we seem to have been able to imagine the golden crispy fried shrimp and cheese, which happens to be very much in line with the girl's tastes, and she certainly can't wait to eat it.
Although the boys are jokingly feeding the girls through the air, but this invariably creates an ambiguous atmosphere, there is no feeling that the air is filled with pink bubbles?
If she has a good feeling about you, the promise of "next time you take you to eat" will make the girl's anticipation of this matter immediately increased, she will even look forward to you feeding her at the dinner table.
So ah, the picture of the molding, but the girl's expectations will have a great impact.
How to describe the picture well? The first thing you need to do is to get a good picture of what you're looking for, and you'll be able to see what you're looking for.
For example, when talking about food, you can start from the color, aroma, taste, texture; when talking about the movie, you can start from the actors, the picture, texture, the sense of view 。。。。。。
But also want to remind the boys, this time to talk about the content, must be the two sides have talked about, and are interested in things, or you give each other to describe the people simply do not cold, it is a waste of effort.
Just like she obviously do not like to eat shrimp, you have to say to her how delicious shrimp, how tender the meat, the entrance to the teeth, pull down, a little effect has no.
This is the first time I've ever seen a shrimp, and I've never seen a shrimp.
3, so that girls impressed by you
To attract the attention of the girls, first of all, the boys have to establish their own attraction, today, by the way, to tell you a little heart tips Oh: chatting process, in the introduction of their own skills, you can add a little picture description. For example:
Male: What are you busy with?
Female: Just finished eating. How about you?
M: I just finished dancing, super tired.
Woman: Wow, you can dance ah?
Male: Yes, before learning a few years of street dance, recently this is not fat well, dancing, as a diet.
Woman: so powerful, but also teach me to do it, dance street dance is so cool oh.
Male: No problem ah, I'm the leader of the square dance in our neighborhood, our neighborhood many children follow me to learn the street dance it. Have you seen the little kid dancing that dance "Mack
Daddy"? They've all learned it. Next time you take me to a square dance, I'll teach you myself.
Woman: OK OK, it's a deal.
After saying this, even if the girl has not seen this video before, she will certainly go to search and see, and then just imagine you dancing this dance, and 。。。。。。 images of you teaching her to dance.
You see, so a chat, the girl is not through the "dance" to remember you?
This is the first time I've ever seen a girl who has a dance.