Let me help you!
First you have to take the initiative.
What to do should think of the consequences
Confessions of love is actually a kind of immaturity, the normal order should be: is your girlfriend after how to how, not you do my girlfriend after how I how to how.
I saw an example of this online, I don't know if it's true or not, but it's still worth saying.
A master chased a girl, very successful, the last two people are about to have sex, the woman was so anxious to ask the man, why do not you let me do your girlfriend ah?
Girls in general like men with a sense of responsibility. Women are very concerned about the first impression, to be mature, think about it, which woman will fall in love with a childish person.
A mature man will be brave to face his own responsibility.
When you are with her, take the initiative, but keep it moderate. Girls are very timid, so don't scare her.
To show stability, have the main idea, do everything is panic but not chaotic. You've got to have a man's temperament and demeanor. Have sympathy, especially for small animals and other things. (Women like this kind of man)
But also have confidence, no confidence in anything is not good. In life, encountered a worrying thing, in front of it to show optimism (provided that let her know that you encountered), let her see how strong you are.
You don't say "I love you" to her often, say more than the meaning of the flavor, and don't say "forever" how to do.
Because many women don't believe in forever. My girlfriend does.
If you're sincere, and you put your heart and soul into it, then she'll definitely come to you.
If she's worth pursuing, then do it.
I've got some tips for you on how to get a girl, so let's see if they help you.
The more you touch a woman, the more likely she is to fall in love with you>
Touching a woman is a great way to increase intimacy (physical contact is the best way to get closer to a woman, but it takes a lot of skill to touch a woman without leaving a trace), and it's perfect if you can get on her knees or hands. But if it's your first date, don't do it. In a coffee shop or restaurant, it's best to sit side-by-side (that's how opportunities are created), but if you sit face-to-face, you won't have a chance to touch.
Women's body, the left side (roughly the left half of the right side, but for a left-handed woman is the right half of the right side) is a non-routine area, easy to feel the itch, the left side of the breast is more sensitive area for women. Therefore, it's best to keep the woman on your left side, and if you wrap your left arm around her from behind her left side, she will fall into your arms. Then look forward to further good results.
<Difference between popular and unpopular men>
Popular men always stay away from women they don't want to be with, but they have a way of keeping the woman they love close to them. Women are curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is a woman's Achilles' heel), and this curiosity can be used for interesting conversations and for fresh information. If you do not have popularity, even if the other party is very curious, but see you only desperately avoid, unpopular men are always around quite lonely, no matter when you want to be in a lively atmosphere, want to become a popular man, you must have self-confidence (self-confidence is not arrogant is the only way to chase a girlfriend, remember!) You must have confidence (confidence without arrogance is the key to getting a girlfriend, remember!) , and good interpersonal relationships, and believe that this way, a good girl will belong to you.
<From friends to lovers>
Have a good chance to ask her out, but do not know what to bring a gift, in this kind of occasion is best to bring a flower, so that you may be able to for her will be the flowers in the chest (gift is learning, but to want to put the flower inserted in the chest of "do not know" women is unwise oh) or on the hair, that naturally formed a kissing opportunity between each other. When it comes to dining, you may want to be a little more discreet the first time around, but after the second time, you can choose to eat as a couple to increase your intimacy. If you and she can eat a lot of food, you're not just friends, you're a couple.
<Let yourself have the opportunity to step into her heart step by step>
After the other person becomes your girlfriend, there are a lot of people who suffer from not being able to take their relationship further, in fact, these people either don't care too much, or they often let the opportunity to enhance the feelings of the people who are slipping away. In the female community, there is a lot of emphasis on guys who can help women with their coats, because the moment they take off their coats, if a man is present, it's easy for women to get the impression that they're a couple. If you can say, "Put something you're going to forget on my side," when you take a taxi, you'll be bringing yourself closer to her. But if you don't use these behaviors correctly, it can be a mistake.
<Create chance>
Mystery is very important to women. A woman is more attracted to a man she meets by chance than to a man she meets at work or by introduction, and if that chance happens again and again, she is sure to be convinced that it is meant to be. But is it possible to create a second chance? If you want to meet a girl no matter what, you can check her commuting route and other related matters, then it is much easier to create a second chance. If they realize that a man is not their favorite type, they will most likely take advantage of the opportunity to escape. It would be best if you can make some changes to match her preferences. And a good memory is a female trait, some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember it very clearly, so you must remember every word you say to her
<What kind of gift will she like? >
In terms of gift-giving, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can send a ring, a watch or a small flower, or if she likes large items, you can send a large doll or a large bouquet of flowers, all of which can win her heart. Generally speaking, people who like small objects are more mature, as they can keep them within their control and therefore are less likely to act on them. Women who like big dolls are more likely to be a little childish, so when she's happy, she'll probably pester her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after getting tired of hugging the dolls, they will not want to hug you anymore. In this regard, although women who like small objects will make you spend more money, it seems to be easier to cultivate a long-lasting love.
<If you give in too much to a woman's words or attitude, you're bound to fail;
Women are both cute and scary creatures, and unlike men, women have two sides to their personalities; on the outside they look pretty, but on the inside they can be a bitch. Men who are not good at courting women tend to succumb to this kind of terror. Men who are not accustomed to dealing with such women will succumb to their words or smiles and become indecisive.
<How do I pursue a girl who is more sensual and emotional? >
There are two types of women: those who are attracted to men who put them on a pedestal, and those who are attracted to men who are always putting them down. Men who are not good at understanding women always glorify them, so they are not able to provide objective insights. On the contrary, if a man who is good at socializing with women, even when he says something unpleasant, he can still not blush, and he is often surrounded by some good opportunities.
< sometimes it may be worth to her pampered>
Men and women of the same character is of course the best, the world is often called a certain two people [a natural pair] these people in addition to knowing each other before a lot of * * * * common place, when they * * * * together with the same life,
there are also a lot of similar places. In fact, if men and women can complement each other is also a very good combination, in the status of the boss of the women's group often to prove their own income, often show their own tough side to others, if your partner is this kind of female, you may find an opportunity to the other side of the pampering. To [self-esteem] strong women, the easier it is to catch her heart This kind of girls, what they say and do are generally the same, the most important thing is to satisfy her self-esteem, so you may want to play a little love slave, and these women get along with you as long as you keep in mind not to sing the opposite of this principle, then the pursuit of them will be unexpectedly easy, and it will be the ideal object.
<Show your tenderness>
Doing this kind of tender behavior, can not be too deliberate, you have to master the timing, with a very calm attitude to do. If you can show affectionate smile to the puppy, kitten, or to the small flowers and grass, are very important, at this time she will surely think you to these small things are so affectionate, then to the woman's feelings are more undoubtedly, and she will also be sure that you are a very gentle man. That's half the battle.
<Sea and sunset is the best combination to seduce women>
Since ancient times, women have longed for the water (yes, the best place to go on a date is the sunset by the sea!)
<Give her dreams while dating>
Some people think that girls are easy to fool, but is it really true? The truth is that when a girl is faced with the prince of her dreams, she is willing to be cheated on. So when a well-groomed man appears in front of them, these girls will probably take their chances according to their own desires. So the most important thing is that you have to give each other some dreams, in the beginning, you approach her attitude or commitment can not be changed, to put it more clearly is to give her dreams, if you continue to let her keep the dream, your relationship will be deeper.
Is she patient with you?
If your girlfriend yawns softly on a date, it's not a sign that she's tired, it's a sign that she's tired of you (be careful with this little bit, it's very pertinent, and it's important to know if a woman is impatient with you), or if she gestures a little bit for you to pay attention to the time on your watch, etc., it's a sign that she's already wanting to go home, and if she's even stronger, then she'll probably go home. If she has a stronger desire to go home, she may act like she's looking around without looking at you, which means she probably doesn't have you in her mind anymore. When a woman is with her favorite man, she often doesn't think about her surroundings. It's not too much to say that these women are self-centered, but if a woman looks at something else, you should be prepared to end the relationship at any time. Many women like to add the word "hate" to the phrase "men are a pain in the ass" when they say "men are a pain in the ass". However, there are two different meanings hidden in this usage. Generally, the word "nasty" is used when a man and a woman are close to each other, but if they are not close, they may give you a disdainful look in silence, so if a woman is willing to talk to you, your intimacy will increase in comparison. In order to increase the intimacy between you, you have to show her your masculinity as soon as possible, but if a man makes a woman feel unclean, it is likely to discourage her.
<Observe women by talking to them>
What kind of person is she? If she's a person who talks continuously, it's easy to wonder what's going on in her head. Humans always want others to take a look at them, so both men and women make a point of organizing their appearance, but appearance alone is not enough, so by having a conversation, you can let others know a little more about yourself. Women whose voices change rapidly show their inner excitement with their voices, and their soft and gentle tone of voice is also a type of pleasure. But for women with a hissing voice, you have to be especially careful, she may be extremely jealous, while women with a lower quality of voice may be more masculine.
<Women who often listen to Walkmans are more self-centered>
Recently, I've seen a lot of women on buses wearing Walkmans, but some of these women who use headphones to block out their hearing are escaping from loneliness by letting themselves be immersed in the world of music. But some women are willing to take off their headphones for men, but it takes a lot of vigilance to see that this is part of the self-centered person.
<Women are often attracted to [first impressions]>
It has been reported that women are more attracted to (-Be careful with first impressions, it kills many!!!!!!!!) men with beards than those without. Men with beards are rated higher than men without beards. Appearance, posture, and clothing are all important factors in determining first impressions, so it's not good if these first impressions aren't realized. Often the first impression of a man's appearance is y embedded in his heart, so the first impression is very important. If a man can pay attention to the attitude of the clothes in the usual way, then in the love field will be more successful.
How to chase the existing main flower?
Once a girl has a boyfriend and has made a commitment, she won't be able to easily accept someone else's love again.
But if you like a girl with a boyfriend, what should you do?
Don't be so rash as to go up to her and ask for her hand in marriage, you're bound to get rejected. Because she doesn't know you well enough to give up the love she already has for you. Should be good to her, care about her, to the general identity of friends of the opposite sex, and she played together. Over time, she'll think you're a good boy. Don't give her a chance to reject you, and don't ask her for anything. Let her know that you have feelings for her, but don't say so.
Then, when your relationship (or friendship, in her case) reaches a certain stage, find an opportunity (it could be when she's just fallen out with her boyfriend). Write a letter or talk about it in a subtle way.
At this point, she may still be in denial, but if you find that she doesn't hate you, go ahead and do it. She'll make comparisons and choose you over her old boyfriend.
The whole process is like this, but before that, you must compare yourself with her boyfriend, if you think you are not as good as the above method will be ineffective
Chasing girls means a small full
(1) Chasing the silent and arrogant type of girl
What seems to be quite tricky. In fact, this kind of girl appearance cold, inner often wild, they generally like a little more wild boys. If you are the kind of well-mannered boy, looks and not good, the possibility is relatively small, or another good person's good. If other people's evaluation of you is "so cool oh!" then you're in for a big treat! If you don't get rejected the first time you ask, don't miss your chance! They may start to treat you with disdain. Don't get discouraged.
Be persistent and even persistent. Ask to see a movie, ask to dance, ask to ice skate, go to the study room she frequents, are all good ploys. Be sure to look for more opportunities to express yourself, more and more (of course Iloveyou or save it for last, lol) ...... For this type of girl, your outward show of true feelings is very attractive.
This kind of girl generally chase the time need to be longer. If you're graduating or leaving school soon now, it seems better not to start. So as not to waste ...... Oh. But after chasing her, she'll generally be dead on her feet and you'll be floating around thinking you're the happiest BF in the world! Haha.
(2) Chase romantic fantasy type of girls
If you really like such a girl, I first remind you - you have to taste all the sweet and sour! This kind of girl seems to be more for the pursuit of the spirit than for the material, in fact, the opposite is true. Romance requires money to create. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you'd better reconsider carefully. As she is very fond of wind and flowers, flowers and chocolates, you send more gifts can best tug at her heartstrings.
To chase this kind of girl into your hand, don't be stingy with your small money. The sky except the moon, the ground except ...... (What? I can't think of it) as long as she wants, you have to try your best to get it without hesitation. The usual roses, snacks, is more subtle to see the spirit ...... In short, if you want to chase this kind of girl, usually must cultivate more to read the girl's mind ability. The girl around the roommate classmates, don't forget to bribe more.
They will tell you a lot of useful information. And your own dress must be more thought, do not all day rustic. (After chasing a girl, you can rest assured that you can show your true colors, because in her eyes you are no longer dirt.
Looking for her to play it should also be more to the romantic place to go, such as spring tour, dance, watch love story movie ...... She slowly will not be able to leave your care and attention, haha! Such a girl although it is very costly yourmoney, but will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun, as long as you really like, you can still live a happy and fulfilling life.
(3) Chasing a gentle and considerate girl
This kind of girl is the giving type. Once she becomes your GF, she will be considerate and caring to you, gentle and relatable, making you feel the warmth and reliability of love. Can chase this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man. This kind of girl should be better to chase (and suitable for all types of boys), as long as she does not hate you, and you are worthy of her. Now let's discuss the means.
First of all, you need to take care of her in life and study. It doesn't need to be material, but it needs to be a kind of care from the heart, appearing in front of her when she is in need of someone's help. (A word of caution here: you must be more observant in order to find a good opportunity to start.) Of course if you're a romantic, sending a gift of flowers for the holidays is foolproof.
At first, you can send something of a friendly nature, and then when you feel you can express it (for example, when she starts to look at you differently than she looks at other people or when she looks a little overwhelmed in front of you), you can send roses! If you do not intend to spread so much, you can study on weekdays after the small talk in the flow of some, and when the time is ripe, suddenly came to a "and you feel so good together," and so on, she is not to avoid, you can take advantage of the iron, said that you have long been wanting to say the words. The best time to choose in the evening: the night people's ability to prevent is weak. If she began to avoid, do not force, you can then silently care, until she moved until.
BTW: If you usually have little contact with her, she does not know you when she has been aiming at her, you can through you and her *** with friends, pretending to know by chance, and then through the same study room and then a few "chance encounters" to deepen the impression, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl honestly, after chasing to be very safe. In fact, it depends on the individual, some do not let her super time away from you, really not, then to diligently write letters, call.
(4) chase lively cute type girls
This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. And they are often the first to have BoyFriends in new environments. It's not that they're easy to chase, but they're often in the driver's seat. Like this kind of girl, if she also like you, then it is very easy, more and more contact with her, and then occasionally also expressed a good feeling for her, she and you synchronized to the goal closer. If she does not like you (or worse, she even like another person), do not be discouraged. As long as you still have a chance, you have to go for it (of course, if you are just average to her, you don't have to). You can start with her as a friendship and try to cultivate the same hobbies as she has ****. And in the meantime, your humor, open-mindedness is very important, so that she is still thinking about you on the way back. If her favorite person is not interested in her, then you can take your time, until she is more active with you than with him.
At this point you can take the obvious plunge and make her your GirlFriend, and if she and he like each other, and if you think she's worth taking the rap for, there's every chance you can strike a final blow before they've even talked to each other. At this point, opportunity is important.
You have to observe carefully, and when they are in conflict and have misunderstandings, you can take advantage of the situation (not too ...... Haha), to a shortcut first, the victory will likely belong to you in the end! (General girls chased into the hands of the less likely to have other ideas, haha) this kind of girls have BF may also have uninformed people like, you have to timely notice "please! She already belongs to me!" , the result should be more optimistic.
One, should give mm what kind of first impression (time: just start contact mm)
1, I think the most critical, is to let mm see your motivation.
Men's greatest attraction is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let mm feel that you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell the mm, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, to appear confident and responsible
Don't act like a child, girls are lazy hope to find a dependence, you have to come up with your own confidence and responsibility. There is a wrong choice is better than no choice at all.
3, don't be too serious, but not too casual
The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting. Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull.
4, look mature
The man who is calm and unhurried has a fatal attraction to mm.
Two, how to start further contact with mm (time: the beginning of the chase stage)
1, this stage is the most critical is not in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you're chasing people. Think about it, the average person will not look at you at a glance, but also will not look at a glance hate you, are the children of the people's family (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), the good sense is needed with the understanding of the increasing realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to develop further.
Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you are so direct rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact after a while found that you do not like you, then it is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition, basically will be immediately smothered back.
2, to start with a low profile
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as a "friend", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become a "good friend", there is a "good friend". The taste can also ask each other to become a "confidant" or something, in short, never say "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chase" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - you didn't chase her how to reject you!
This will reduce the psychological pressure on the girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Do not fantasize about knowing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not produced out of thin air.
3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating
To have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to catch the long way" (this is the crystallization of my classmates how many years of hard work).
You pester people all day long naturally do not feel good about you, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits of you in.
And don't come up with "non-marriage" aspirations, too much of a bad price, sometimes you can play a little trick.
4, to create the appropriate opportunity
The previous said, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity.
You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait-and-see into an encounter, or you can play it cool and find the best possible reason to invite someone to do something with you.
All in all, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice.
5, cut the taboo cut the taboo: casually send people gifts is not polite
Some people chase girls eager, like to often buy things to send people, I do not know that chase girls most taboo this. As the saying goes, "you don't get what you pay for", you send people things like this is to put pressure on them, they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to return to you, if there is no way to return to you will find a way to not socialize with you, so as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show their sincerity, but may wish to invite girls to spend money together, such as looking for a good restaurant to eat, or looking for expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people spent together rather than become something to take home.
Three, "girlfriend" in the end what?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise
You and the girl began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to "very very good friends". The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person, and then kiss her. At this point, she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she mentally already think you are his boyfriend.
I know the most brilliant, until the bed did not ask "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "How do you not beg me to do your girlfriend ah!
So, don't be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said earlier, confession is actually a formality, and the correct order should be: in fact, it has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, and the water will flow. Many people do not understand this problem, always think that people first promised to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say that he is very very "simple", but also very very "stupid".
3. Is there a time when you have no choice but to express your feelings?
There are times, such as when there is a third party, or when your relationship with a girl is not mature but the two of you may be separated for a period of time.
This time the confession is the conditions of immaturity confession, the risk is very great, similar to the game of Go when the situation is critical, the backward party forced to put out the "winners and losers", win, lose can only say that "bad luck are born". The first time I've ever seen this, I've seen it in my life.
4, "love" word do not easily export
Often see the forum appear "bold confession", honestly I really think this is very immature a performance. The word "love" is a sacred word that means pursuit, commitment, and even a responsibility.
The man who just says "love" is irresponsible.
Four, civilized love, can not be forced
1, not every mm can chase the hand
Good girl will always have a lot of people to chase, it is not possible to try everyone's wish, there will always be losers. For example, even if you have studied hard to master the most super chase mm principle, you can't catch up with any one of the twins.
Thinking about it from a different perspective, a small rural nanny who didn't graduate from elementary school, even if she's good to you and earns 600 every month to buy you 700 gifts (overdraft), is willing to be a cow for you to be a horse, you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and wails every day, you will definitely feel annoyed.
So love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.
2, chasing mm do is a serious social activity
Never get people annoyed, to give yourself a way back. The most important thing to remember is that there is no such thing as a wife. Some mm really snob (a few), if not convinced, you can be angry, with the facts to prove that "she was blind", absolutely do not mislead people wrong.
Lastly, don't be cynical in front of the mm, cynicism sometimes means "you're a loser"
I don't really like the kind of girl who lets herself go with anyone, but she does, so I'm sure she's a good candidate. (I'm pretty sure that once I confess to her
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