How to choose a suitable boyfriend?
First of all, please find a man with love experience. Although I hate to admit it, men are much more naive than women. Although not every man will grow up after falling in love, experience means that he may know women a little better, and women will be immune if they watch more, so the chance of cheating will naturally decrease. Experienced in bed, it is also less eager to move, at least a little foreplay will last much longer than a virgin.
And more love experience means more experience in breaking up. If this man is really not suitable for you to break up, you will feel less guilty. Anyway, it's not the first time he's been lovelorn. Just get used to it.
second, both parties should not be over six years old.
as the saying goes, three years is a small hook, and nine years is a big hook. The hook here refers to the generation gap.
It may be hard for ordinary people to believe that two people who are six years apart will have completely different ideas because of education, economy, life and environment. It doesn't mean that they can't be together because of too much age difference, but it will take them longer to run in than ordinary people.
third, it sounds old-fashioned, but it is actually very important.
If you are a girl from an ordinary family, but you are with a rich second generation, how many differences in values will there be between the two of you, regardless of the gossip of outsiders looking at each other's parents?
The company that Dad worked so hard to run is nothing more than an ATM to him, and women are nothing more than a readily available item to them. He will not cherish what he has now, and never think that he can fly to the branches to be a phoenix.
So please recognize your identity and find someone with similar education, family background and family background to avoid unnecessary disputes in the future.
fourth: please find a man who is self-motivated. If your man lacks self-motivation, he must feel that he has no need to make progress, his lessons will be rotten, his performance will be low, and it doesn't matter if he is a small clerk all his life. With such a person, do you think he will change himself because of you? Do you think he will learn how to be a good husband or even a good father?
Fifth, men who chase you too exaggeratedly should never be together. The so-called exaggeration means that when chasing you, you will sing karaoke downstairs, and then you will be given jewelry and necklaces at three or five o'clock. There is also a person in Song Joong Ki who will use 1% power to chase you. After catching up, is it possible for him to treat you with 1% strength? What he thinks in his heart is only how you can repay him 1%, so that his efforts can be fully harvested.
once he can't get it, he will start to freak out, and then you will understand what a horrible lover is.
sixth, the interests and specialties of both sides should not be too close.
yes, you heard me right.
if a couple wants to last for a long time, it is very important that both sides can appreciate each other's advantages continuously, besides their feelings.
For example, I teach English, but my wife is an English idiot, so for her, she will appreciate my good English. That's the same. My wife's cooking is really delicious in the world.
But I am a person who can't even cook instant noodles, so I will appreciate the advantage that she can cook.
But if my other half today is also an English teacher who can't cook, then this kind of thing, English, will naturally become nothing, and then cooking can only be done by praying that the other person won't get food poisoning because of eating what he has cooked.
Seventh, men who don't love small animals are out.
The so-called small animals refer to cats, cats, dogs, dogs and other pets, not cockroaches and mosquitoes, which are called pests.
If you don't love small animals, it means that you may not love children, but if you abuse animals, you may abuse children.
If you plan to get married and have children, you can get a pet first and see how it reacts.
basically, people who don't even bother to walk the dog or change the cat litter don't expect him to change your diaper after the baby is born.
Eighth, a sense of humor is more important than you think.
If you want to chase your man, take you to the square of the park, put two feathers on your head, bite a rose in your mouth, and dance with your thighs while playing the guitar. That's not humor, that's mental retardation.
A man with a sense of humor can tease himself, and naturally he can accept other people's criticism, listen to other people's opinions and tolerate their shortcomings.
After all, lovers should be able to communicate and tolerate each other, and don't be with men who care about things. This should be self-explanatory.