Because some people choose to do whatever it takes to get the result, some people will stick to the principle of not crossing the line, even if they want it again. This is the conscience in human nature.
So is love. Many people choose to ignore it for love. As long as they are in love and tempted, then they should take this person into their arms, no matter what method they use!
Therefore, many people who have lovers or have entered marriage will inevitably be tempted. In the face of these temptations, do TAs stick to their bottom line? What will happen to those who fall in love with married people?
Zhang Lan is a young and energetic girl. She is 28 years old. According to the current social trend of late marriage and late childbearing, she is actually not an older young woman.
Zhang Lan, on the other hand, is physically and mentally exhausted, because she has struggled for eight years in a love that she shouldn't have started. Even when chatting with her best friend, she would tease herself like this: "The eight-year anti-Japanese war is over, but unexpectedly, I still can't see the dawn."
In the year of college, Zhang Lan was twenty years old, the best time in his youth. Zhang Lan, who just entered the university, attracted many people's attention because of her good looks.
Zhang Lan is a lively and cheerful girl who knows a little dance skills, so she can always be seen when the school organizes activities.
Later, through the introduction of a senior, Zhang Lan met a businessman who sponsored the Student Union. This man is 12 years older than Zhang Lan. Of course, he is also a husband and a father.
The latter seems to come naturally. Young and inexperienced Zhang Lan couldn't resist men's pursuit, and finally degenerated into a man's mistress.
Zhang Lan's family is poor. Although she always talks and laughs on the surface, in fact, her inferiority complex in her bones actually makes her vain and yearns for a superior material life.
So with the financial support of men, great changes have taken place in Zhang Lan. Wearing brand-name clothes and carrying big-name bags usually cost more.
But this kind of emotional "game" has rules. Men take part in accidental amusement, and women are always easily emotional, so Zhang Lan gradually moved his heart and had the idea of "being superior".
I quarreled with a man, prayed for him, and even had an abortion for him. Zhang Lan's purpose was clear. She told the man that she wanted to be his wife, to be with him aboveboard, and to stop sneaking around.
The answer is obvious. In men's eyes, Zhang Lan's behavior is the little girl's unreasonable behavior. I took her to travel abroad and bought a lot of jewelry and gifts, which temporarily calmed Zhang Lan's mood.
It's graduation season in a blink of an eye. When roommates were running around in the job fair, Zhang Lan had decided to work in a powerful company, which was arranged by a man.
After taking part in the work, Zhang Lan didn't bother to improve his work skills. She thinks that there is a man behind him anyway. His daily work is nothing more than sitting for a while, brushing his mobile phone and catching up with the drama.
Bored, Zhang Lan thought of a man's wife again, and the thoughts that once came out began to work again, especially seeing the love of a man and his wife several times, which made her jealous.
So she found the man's wife and prepared a card for her. The "true love" mentioned by Zhang Lan countless times sounds like a funny joke to the man's wife.
Zhang Lan's expected collapse and hysteria of the man's wife did not appear, but the woman smiled at herself so calmly, as if she were a clown in her eyes.
Finally, the man's wife said to Zhang Lan, "You know he can't divorce me, because do you know that if he divorces, everything he has today will be lost? You have been with him for so many years. What a shrewd man he is. You should know. Do you think he will do such an uneconomical business? "
Zhang Lan began to feel guilty, but he was unwilling to give up. She looked up as if to show off. "So what? There is no love between you. Do you know how obsessed he is with me? He told me that he doesn't love you! "
The man's wife laughed louder. She said to Zhang Lan, "Little girl, you can say such childish things, saying that you are simple, and you have indeed been a third party. Do you still think you are full of love and water? Do you really think he will divorce me for you? If you can, will you wait for so many years? "
Think about men's perfunctory procrastination over the years, and even their recent alienation from themselves. Zhang Lan felt a little shudder because she didn't dare to admit it, but she also had to admit that the man's wife was right.
Although the truth is really unwilling to face, Zhang Lan clearly knows that it is impossible for a man to divorce himself. He has been so persistent, waiting for a man to give himself an answer, which is nothing more than self-deception.
We will also see a similar situation on the Internet. Some girls who regard love as everything meet the wrong person in their prime and devote themselves to the wrong love just to get the "true love" they want.
So, what is true love? In fact, true love does not mean that you must get it if you love it, and there is no such thing as "meeting the right person at the wrong time" The timing is wrong, the environment is wrong, and the fate is wrong. Since it's the wrong fate, why start?
Especially after knowing that the other person has a family, some women choose to continue to "love", which is actually doing things that hurt others under the banner of "love", and it is also trampling on their self-esteem and personality.
There is no right or wrong in love, which is a poisonous chicken soup in itself, because such unprincipled love will only make women lose themselves more and more, and their mistakes will become more and more outrageous.
True love will make a person better, whether in mental outlook or attitude towards life, because she can get more positive things from this love instead of being consumed by it all the time.
Therefore, women should always remind themselves that only the love that makes them feel at ease and happy is correct, and those that only bring entanglement and insecurity are actually wrong.