If the father is absent from the girl's world for a long time-on the one hand, it will make the girl lack a correct understanding of personal value and make her less confident and belonging; Secondly, it is easy for girls to lose men's standards. Their father's love lost from you will usually continue to guide girls to get it from other places in the future. For example, emotions, but this kind of girl has a high probability of meeting a "playboy". According to data analysis, these girls who lack fatherly love in childhood will focus on older men who look stable and mature in the future and love to find older objects.
However, this is equivalent to a gambling game. Because of the age difference, girls and their partners have different cognitive levels of the world, which is very prone to disputes. Needless to say, the other party has enough practical experience and can easily catch you. Conclusion The girl's feelings are hurt.
Father is the motivation of boys' struggle. Gerdi, a famous psychologist, once said: "Father is a unique appearance and has special energy for educating children." Especially for boys, I think every boy dreamed of becoming a marvel hero like his father when he was a child-he could take the lead outside and shelter his loved ones from the wind and rain. You are their role models and the driving force for their struggle. Especially before the boy 12 years old, he has not been unified. He will learn from his father how to be a man and learn to train men's qualities on his back.
If there is no father's company, it will often lead to the boy losing his role model and becoming less confident and rebellious. There is another key point: the absence of the father usually leads to the mother's strong desire for control. They have to strengthen the teaching of their sons because they have to undertake more parental education obligations. This bondage not only makes the mother more anxious and tired, but also makes it easier for the boy to become a "treasure mother".
They grew up under the control of their mothers, lacking the correct guidance of their fathers, which may make boys lack masculinity, have weak temper and weak interpersonal skills, and become the "Bao Ma Men" that people talk about. 10 days later, I hesitated in my emotional life, listened to my mother too much, and the misfortune of my marriage gradually increased. Generally speaking, we can find that the absence of a father is usually the beginning of a family misfortune, and his wife and children, as well as future generations, will go to the abyss of sadness.