My brother is tall and handsome, with thick eyebrows and two deep dimples on his face. He has been a handsome man since he was a child.
He is easy-going, humorous and good at cooking. He is the "happy fruit" of our family, and the whole family likes him very much.
He is very clever and has always done well in school. He easily entered the university and became a teacher after graduation.
Who knows that "the weather is unpredictable", at the age of 42, he was diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, and the doctor announced that the cancer cells had metastasized to the whole body, and the survival time was up to three months.
This is really a bolt from the blue, which makes life in quiet years full of hardships. Everyone endured grief and accompanied him to chemotherapy in the hospital. Looking at him who was once so powerful, he became weaker and weaker.
When the Mid-Autumn Festival came that year, we three sisters agreed to take the whole family back to our younger brother. After the treatment, I took him home and held a family Mid-Autumn Festival party.
Each of us performed a program. I performed a dance "Tianzhu Girl", and my son-in-law used to be an armed police, performing capture fighting. My niece's husband used to be a soldier, doing military posture exercises for him, and my brother's daughter and sister-in-law performed singing. The two sisters also performed songs and dances, laughing and laughing, one after another, and temporarily forgot all about the illness.
Although my brother was devastated by illness that day, the family still got together for the Mid-Autumn Festival and ate moon cakes. He smiled happily, too. Our faces are smiling and our hearts are bleeding. This is the most worrying Mid-Autumn Festival.
Not long after, my brother passed away with deep regret accompanied by his family.
What we can remember now is that we spent an extraordinary Mid-Autumn Festival with our younger brother. My brother's bright smiling face is also fixed on that day and becomes eternal.
One of my girlfriends rented a house when she married her husband, and even rented a house when she had children. She even found her own rented house, took her children to open a shop and did everything herself. As far as I know, her husband doesn't do housework either. It seems that he has changed jobs several times, but it didn't take long. But she never spoke ill of her husband in front of anyone.
We have known each other for more than ten years. When buying a house and sending children to school, all the important events are that girlfriends run around asking questions alone, make decisions alone and go to her house on holidays. She also cooks a table by herself, but she is very happy and talks about her husband's happiness and satisfaction with a smile.
She is also quite aggressive in business, so I admire her very much. Sometimes I still rely on her and ask her to help me analyze everything. She will also laugh and tease me and say, "I will marry you as a man in my next life." You are so feminine. " She usually walks with big steps, like a man, but a naive girl is very special in front of her husband. She never quarrels with her husband and argues endlessly about what. In the days of the Cold War, she always called her husband like this: "Where are you, are you coming back for dinner?" ? Gentle can't be gentle. I admire her for this, so I can't do it.
A few days ago, she came to see me and we talked about her husband. I said, "You are more capable than your husband. You have paid a lot for your family and work, but your husband has done nothing. "
She immediately said, "My husband is a capable man, but he lacks an opportunity or a platform. He is in poor health now. I asked him to exercise more. He can't live without me now, and he takes me everywhere. This is the so-called affection. " After she finished, I thought, what a good woman, always protecting her husband, a wise woman. It's really admirable.
To say touched, what moves me most in this world is the deep affection between grandma and mom!
It was my mother's 50th birthday, but because my grandmother was seriously ill, she just came home from the hospital. My mother resolutely refused to hold this birthday, and her family acquiesced because she was very ill!
On that day, there were many people at home who came to visit grandma. Mother is busy cooking in the kitchen. While eating, grandma who had been lying for many days suddenly said that she wanted to get up. We carefully helped grandma to the table. In fact, at that time, grandma was inarticulate and delirious She sat in a chair, hanging her head and panting!
After a short rest, she raised her head with difficulty, glanced at her relatives sitting around the table, lowered her head again, and panted: Where is Xingmei? Why hasn't Xingmei come yet ... Today is her birthday, and she was invited to dinner ... Now she is 50 years old. ...
At that moment, everyone was in tears! On my deathbed, my grandmother still firmly remembers that today is my mother's 50th birthday! ……
Mom and grandma are the harmonious mother-in-law that everyone can see! Grandma has been living with us for so many years. She and her mother, like mother and daughter, have never blushed. They have cared for each other for decades!
At that time, my mother often worked overtime until late, and my grandmother went to bed early, but no matter how late my mother came back, when she opened the door to change her shoes, my grandmother would wake up and shout, Xingmei is back, what's left in the pot? Eat and sleep!
Mom, too, old people often love to wrestle, either throwing their hands or twisting their feet. Mom always sends a bowl of bone soup to grandma's bed, no matter how busy she is!
To tell the truth, before I got married, I had never seen the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in my living environment, so I didn't care at all before, thinking that most families were like this! However, after marriage, after I have a headache for these relationships, when I see the warm scene between my mother and grandmother, I am often deeply moved and feel even more valuable!
Good family style is a kind of inheritance! Now, my mother and my sister-in-law get along very well!
To tell the truth, I really envy them. Although I try to follow their example, not all women are so lucky!
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult in the world. To love this man, we must live together! If you can let go of your preconceptions about each other, even if you can't treat them sincerely, it's better than opposing each other all day!
No one should pay! Gratitude and contentment can bring a happy life! Although it has been five years since the scene of that day, I will burst into tears every time I think about it. The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop. I miss my grandmother! ……
I'm Sunny, thank you for reading.
Seeing a father who suddenly made me feel close. At a banquet.
It's a father with gray temples.
He said: At that time, how could I put all my eggs in one basket? Even though I lost all my money, I had to borrow money. I dare to borrow 654.38+ ten thousand, 200 thousand, 300 thousand or even 700 thousand, and I dare to take it ... now I think about it, I really can't imagine it. What makes me so crazy?
I quietly looked at him opposite, and suddenly felt respect: I know. At that time, there must be a firm belief in your heart that has been supporting you.
He looked at me intently and murmured, yes. I can't give up treating her.
When she was ill, a beautiful young woman who had a stable job and gave birth to twins for her husband's family was mercilessly abandoned by her husband's well-off family because of the huge medical expenses. Overnight, it seems that the whole world has given up on her.
However, he didn't, just because he was the woman's father.
This is the most touching family story I have ever heard.
My husband has been engaged in the import auto parts business for more than ten years, and the business is doing well. I quit my job and stayed at home as a full-time wife for ten years, but I didn't go out to work. Unforeseen events have happened. Due to various reasons such as repeated investments and management problems, all the money earned was lost and debts were owed. In desperation, all my relatives and friends are as far away from us as the plague. My sister gave me tens of thousands of dollars without hesitation. She said to take the money and let me know when it is not enough.
Let me also tell a true story of a neighbor.
I lived in a big house thirty years ago. There is a neighbor named Zhang, ranking old and full. We all call him Zhang Man's father.
Zhang Man's father is honest and not good at talking. At the age of thirty, arranged by the matchmaker, she married a woman who was blind in one eye. Three daughters were born in five years, named Zhang Juhua, Zhang Meihua and Zhang Xinghua. I want a child with a handle. But the family planning policy didn't allow it, so my wife Wang Aizhi was forcibly taken away by the task force and had a vasectomy.
Zhang Man's father is helpless, so he tries to support a family of five and barely makes ends meet.
Twenty years later, the three daughters grew up. The eldest daughter is nineteen, the second daughter is seventeen and the youngest daughter is fourteen. Except the youngest daughter, who is still in high school, the other two daughters left school early. The eldest daughter is a bit stupid and timid, and the second daughter is fierce, like a tomboy.
Zhang Man's father has no background or relationship. After the two daughters came home, they stayed at home to help their parents farm, cook, wash clothes and size. Their income was meager and their life did not improve.
This autumn, Zhang Man's father suddenly coughed badly and his sputum was bloodshot. Zhang Man's father secretly went to the hospital for examination alone. After the results came out, he was almost anxious to commit suicide. But I stopped thinking about my three daughters who live with my wife day and night.
On the way home, Zhang Man's father tore up the medical records and films and threw them into a small port in the village, muttering: It's time to force them, it's time to force them.
After dinner that day, Zhang Man-Dad saw his eldest daughter and second daughter sitting in front of the TV watching TV series again. Suddenly, he picked up the broom, glared at his two daughters, became furious and snapped at them. The second daughter whispered something. Without saying anything, Zhang Man's father picked up a broom and spanked his second daughter.
This is the first time I was beaten by my father after I was sensible. The second daughter couldn't help crying and hiding in the room. Early the next morning, the second daughter took the luggage, bid farewell to her mother, ignored her father and strode out the door.
Wang Aizhi's mother was about to go after her when Zhang Man's father snapped at her: Let her go!
The second daughter, Meihua, went to Shenzhen and found a distant aunt to work in a clothing factory opened by her aunt's family. I haven't been home for three years, so I scrimped and saved every penny I earned, totaling120,000. Three years later, she discussed with her aunt that she should go shopping on the ground floor, set up a facade in the local area, open her own fashion shop and be a small boss.
It's time, and the door panel can't stop it. Due to genuine goods, honesty and trustworthiness, prosperous business and strong financial resources. At that time, Meihua earned more than 300 thousand. She gave her aunt a thank-you fee of 20,000 yuan, sent it to her mother and bought a car of120,000 yuan. The rest decided to expand their business, earn another year's money and choose another branch.
Meihua hasn't been home for three years. Call your mother when you are homesick and simply greet your family. I never said a word to my father, and I always hated that broom in my heart.
One day in April of the fourth year, Meihua was busy in the store when she suddenly got a call from her mother and told her father that she had terminal lung cancer and was taken to the hospital today. The doctor diagnosed that he would not live for three days. After all, you are his daughter, and your father is in a daze and has been calling Meihua in bed. You'd better come back, mom, please.
Meihua hesitated, but soon agreed. That night, after arranging things in the shop, she drove home.
At ten o'clock the next morning, Meihua finally returned to her home after more than three years. I saw the door locked and I was going to the hospital. My mother and elder sister came back by motorcycle. When the mother and daughter met, the mother held her daughter and burst into tears. Soon after, he dragged Meihua into the house, wiped his tears with his hand and told his daughter, "Meihua, we all blamed your father wrongly." He found out that he had cancer three years ago. In order to reassure himself after death, your father thinks you are the most likely person with a bright future. Just because you were born in the wrong environment, he tried his best to force you to go out for fun. No wonder every time you call me, your father listens carefully and tries not to cough. Just now, in the hospital bed, he gave me a passbook, saying that he saved 80,000 yuan and wanted to do business for you. "
Meihua cried like a crybaby after listening to her mother's story. For a long time, she wiped her tears, let her mother and sister get on the bus and ran to the hospital like lightning.
After arriving at the hospital and parking the car, Meihua asked the bed number of the ward, told her sister to help her mother, spread her feet all by herself and went straight to her father's room. As I ran, I shouted in my heart, "Dad, forgive my daughter for being unfilial. My daughter is here."
Unfortunately, it is too late. Just as Mei Huagang rushed to the door of his father's ward, there was a heartbreaking cry from his sister Xinghua in the room: "Dad, dad, open your eyes, don't scare me, don't scare me, second sister will come back soon, come back soon."
The story is over. My friends, my father loves me like a mountain. Be good to your parents! (original text. When we all received the same message, we knew something must have happened to Xiaowen. We all rushed to her. We kicked the door open together and saw red blood on the floor in front of the bed.
Xiaowen is our college roommate, ranking fourth. After graduation, we are in the same city. At first, except for work, we were almost bored together. Later, we got married one after another, leaving Xiaowen alone.
We know Xiaowen is always waiting for a hopeless person, but she doesn't think so. She thought that the promise given by that man would be fulfilled, but five years later, he hasn't seen any action. He asked Xiaowen to divorce his wife and marry her two years later. As a result, five years later, he is still lying to her. We all advised her to let him go and start over, but no one can let go of emotional things easily. She's been waiting, all of us.
Xiaowen promised on the surface, but his heart could not be changed. She waited and waited. Can wait until her unexpected results, such as a bolt from the blue, he divorced, but the marriage partner is not her, but the daughter of another real estate agent, and he finally became a money worshipper, and his commitment to Xiaowen has long been forgotten.
It stands to reason that Xiaowen should recognize her true colors and give up love rat this time, but what we didn't expect was that she was so puzzled that she chose to commit suicide. Looking at the red blood on the floor, our hearts are cramping.
We rushed her to the hospital, shouting her name all the way. The doctor said she was lucky to be delivered in time, otherwise she would have died. Looking at her gaunt face, we all cried and shouted together: silly Xiaowen, don't do stupid things in the future. For him, a love rat is not worth it.
In the following days, we took turns to deliver meals to Xiaowen and chat with her to enlighten her. She slowly recovered and finally had a smile on her face. When she left the hospital, she said, Sister, it's good to have you. I will never forget you. Long live friendship.
What I feel most is the father's love.
To tell the truth, I was moved by myself. I have a lovely girl. I am six years old this year. Children of this age are curious about people and things. He can imitate the speech and behavior of adults, so everyone thinks that parents are children's teachers.
I usually shave with a razor. The blade is very sharp. Children often watch me shave. This summer vacation, because the children have grown up and can take a bath by themselves, they didn't participate in the whole process like adults. In the case of trusteeship, out of curiosity, the child took my razor and shaved his eyebrows. Don't blame the children, blame them. Parents' supervision is not in place.
The child is very painful and tells us that it is ugly without eyebrows. Going to kindergarten tomorrow will definitely be laughed at by others. So his mother painted his eyebrows artificially, but the effect was poor. Because his eyebrows are clean, you can tell at a glance that they are painted by fake eyebrows.
When this happened, I made two mistakes as a father. First, the supervision of children is not in place and minor accidents occur. Secondly, my razor is dangerous for children, but I didn't keep it well, so that children can easily get it. This is a dereliction of duty as a parent.
Looking at the crying child, I still felt guilty, so I made a decision. Since I can't make him happy, I can be sad with him. So I took a razor and shaved my eyebrows in front of the children. It blows faster than him. Don't you think it's ugly when the child sees it and asks me? I told the children that it doesn't matter, the eyebrows can grow back, and they will grow thicker and better. This ugliness will only pass in a short time. In order to make him more confident and not inferior, I specially took him out to play. A week or two passed and our eyebrows gradually began to grow. At this time, I asked him, did someone say that your eyebrows are ugly? Has anyone ever laughed at you? He said no, I said yes, the beauty of people is from the inside out, from the heart out. No one will care about your appearance defects, others will care more about whether you are kind and sincere.
I told my children with actions that everything should be confident, any difficulty is short-lived, and don't be afraid of ridicule. So I am very touched myself.
I am a very impressionable girl. So even small family gatherings. Look at everyone. Live in harmony. I will be moved. Many things moved me. I can't finish all at once. Can be written into a novel.