There are many kinds of relationships between people. In fact, not all people can get along well in our life. Some people with good relationships will certainly have bad relationships. Here's how to reply to the comments.
How to reply to criticism 1 The first is humorous reply.
1, wherever it is, it's just as long as you want.
I like you who have never seen the world.
3, beautiful women are not worthy, but it is true that I am a woman.
I like your serious nonsense.
5. Really? I put on a light makeup today. It looks good.
6, ah! Really? This young man has a good eye.
7, good eyesight, optimistic about your future, haha.
The second is a simple reply.
1, thank you! (With a standard WeChat)
2. You are beautiful, too (praise each other)
3. No (polite smile)
Answer praise:
1, naughty answer: You always make people so happy when you talk.
2. smug answer: wherever there is, it will grow casually.
3. Humorous answer: Thank you for your compliment. I like your eyes better than this.
4, domineering answer: I like you like this, seriously love to tell the truth.
5. Implicit answer: not only beautiful, but also so many words.
In this world, there is no one who doesn't like being praised, which is why flattery was popular in the past. When others praise themselves for their beauty, the most witty reply is humor, and you can tease them according to others' statements.
Because most people like humorous people very much, humorous people will solve embarrassment and have high emotional intelligence, which will increase others' goodwill towards themselves. If they are praised, they can boldly say, "Yes! It's a pity that I don't rely on my face to eat ",or" your eyes are becoming more and more tolerant ",and replying in such a humorous way will make others think that you are a very easy-going person.
Although many people like humorous replies, a few people are serious, such as some elders and leaders. There is still a generation gap between them and us, so they seldom understand our points. At this time, the atmosphere will become a bit awkward. In this case, it is actually moderate. It would be better to reply.
In some cases, when foreign friends praise you, because of cultural differences, it is better to accept the praise generously, because their education is not modest, and our reply will vary from person to person.
When they praise us, they probably want to get some compliments, or when others praise each other, they will feel happier if they can praise each other. For example, you can say, "Thank you, your clothes look nice, too", because finding the advantages of others and seeing the beauty of others will also make your life happier, which is killing two birds with one stone.
When people are praised, they are actually happy inside, but they just don't show it. Sometimes people may be modest on the surface, but they will be secretly glad inside. At this time, we should actually look at ourselves with a normal heart, because only by correctly understanding ourselves and having a correct positioning can we develop better in all aspects.
How to respond to being criticized for being beautiful? When others praise you for your beauty, how can you respond to highlight your high emotional intelligence?
First, reply the word "thank you" directly, so that others will think that you are concise and polite.
This seemingly straightforward and simple response can clearly tell the other party that you are both a polite and educated person and a person full of confidence in your face value. It also reflects the clean side of your personality. This kind of answer is often used in polite compliments of others. Although your answer is simple and clear, it is very gentlemanly and leaves a good impression.
Second, respond to each other in a humorous way, so that others think you are very good and interesting.
"Beautiful face Qian Qian absolutely, interesting soul one in a million. My soul is more interesting. Do you want to see it? "
Such funny and ridiculous answers will make people think that you are very interesting and want to be attractive to make friends with you. The other party will think that you are not only beautiful, but also easy-going, humorous and interesting. Being with you can be very comfortable and you can relax yourself as a whole. As a result, you often make yourself very happy.
Third, in the way of praising others, we praise ourselves and raise each other more subtly.
"You have a unique vision. No wonder people say that you are a person who knows how to appreciate and has high taste. "
Praise and raise others with a unique perspective, and also affirm your own Excellence. Such a high emotional intelligence answer can not only make the other party elated after listening, but also raise the other party just right, which will naturally make the other party extremely happy and deepen their goodwill towards you. And then, whether chatting, doing things together, or becoming friends and confidants, there will be a good start.
Fourth, belittle yourself, highlight each other's Excellence, and let others think that you are modest, sensible and meaningful.
"Wherever beauty is, it is temporary. A low-key and connotative talent like you is the most worthy of our appreciation and learning."
When you answer the other person so modestly, you put yourself first. This makes people feel that you are not a superficial person who only values the surface. What you care more about is your own connotation and cultivation. And your affirmation of the other person can narrow the distance between you and the other person, and the other person will not feel a little inferior because he looks ordinary or even ugly.
The so-called high emotional intelligence actually refers to enhancing the output of your understanding and expression ability through the cultivation of self-awareness, so as to make people in contact with you feel comfortable and happy, thus promoting their relationship with society to develop better and more smoothly. I think everyone wants to be a person with high emotional intelligence and can talk, so we need to keep learning, cultivating and training ourselves in life.
How to reply to being criticized for being beautiful? How to reply that high emotional intelligence is praised as beautiful?
1, accept reply
If someone praises you, you don't know how to respond, at least accept and thank them for their affirmation. At this point, you can say "thank you for your compliment" and so on. Acceptance itself is a response to each other.
Some people say that your travel photos are beautiful. You can say: the main thing is the good scenery. It is better to set off people.
Step 2 answer modestly
If you are usually a low-key person, you can choose some modest words to respond when others praise you, such as "where, where, you flatter me" and "I just did my job."
For example, if a leader or elder praises you, you can say: Thank you for your recognition. Such a good result is not because of your leadership, but thanks to the leadership's cultivation.
Without your guidance. I wouldn't have done so well. I will learn more from you in the future.
If a colleague praises you, you can say that it's all due to everyone, or you flatter me, which is not the result of the joint efforts of the team. Or: thank you, I was lucky this time and won the first place. This answer gives the impression that you are modest.
3. Respond with counter-praise.
If you are eloquent, you might as well try to say something moderately complimentary at this time. For example, if someone praises your beautiful clothes, you can say, "This shirt you are wearing today is also very beautiful, and I like it very much.
Or no matter how others praise you, you can reply thank you directly, and then praise the other person for being really good at talking! Your eloquence is not generally good! How did you practice your eloquence so well? I want to learn eloquence from you. This common sentence pattern is a kind of entertainment.
Step 4 respond with ridicule
Or say happily: I like listening to this, and I can say more in the future.
Your mouth is like eating honey. When did it become so sweet?
For example, if you praise your beauty, you can say that you are really happy to hear your watch. Yes, otherwise, how can you stand by and watch your side?
If someone praises you for your excellent work, you can reply: please don't do this.
Someone is humorous: you reply: Hey, it's too difficult to be a saint. I still like to listen to these flattering words.
Someone praised you for being handsome: You replied: How can you steal my lines? Still too happy to be praised by beautiful women!
Step 5 respond by changing the subject
If others praise you for your talent, but you know that you actually have only half a bucket of water, then the praise may not be intentional, so you don't have to detour on this topic. You can express your thoughts diplomatically and find another topic to talk about. It would be better if we could do something less straightforward.
For example, when a colleague praises your clothes for being particularly handsome, you can say, thank you. Do you like it? I bought this dress at Ira's shop in Wanda Shopping Mall. Can I take you shopping this weekend? In this way, the topic was subtly changed.