Dying at 75 but surrounded by loved ones and dying at 80 with no one around. Which of the two options do you choose?
Dying at 75 with loved ones and dying at 80 with no one around, I would choose the first. I have most people would choose the first. More than seventy years old, has been over half a century, has experienced the world's sweet and sour, experienced the world's grief and clutch, what remains is only affection. When you are old, no children's company, no family guardian, then you are left with only loneliness. When people are old, think of things is less, they do not need the material basis, can eat, can wear warm on the satisfaction, will not ask for what big fish and meat, because they can not eat, but also can not be absorbed. All they need is to have someone to keep them company. Once "often go home to see" sang the old people's mind, they do not need you to do much for them, do not need you to buy them much good food, as long as you can often go home to see, and dad play chess, and mom nagging, can be with them, the family peace and quiet can be. Now has entered the age of aging, there are too many old people in the home alone, they long for the children can go home to accompany them, at home to eat a meal, and they talk about the family. They don't want when the door is opened and the empty yard is standing there in a mortar and pestle. Nowadays, in order to live, for the sake of the family, every day busy in two points one line, the family, the company, the children. Always feel the time is not enough, want to go home, no time, this should also be some people's excuse! No time can make time, squeeze out time, as long as you have the heart to go home, it is impossible to have no time, do not wait until the parents are elderly, only to find that parents do too little, then you regret are late. Can be in the parents in the days of life, good company in their side, even if the parents died, you will not have regrets!