Dinner was chosen in an online celebrity hotel with northeast characteristics: Old Siheyuan, a shop run by Manchu surname. The restaurant is so small that everyone sits on the kang. There are countless well-known northeast dishes at the dinner, and the hardest dishes are stewed cock and stewed miscellaneous fish. Because every time I serve these two hard dishes, I have to beat gongs and drums and make a scene, as if I were preaching the imperial edict loudly. Although the specific content is untrue, it is full of sincerity and respect, and all guests will feel the sincerity and enthusiasm of our store.
The food is rich and the wine is in place. During the period, one director felt that even if he was admitted to the hospital, he should accompany us well, and the other director set an example directly. Obviously, he only had 4 liang of liquor, but he drank almost 6 liang of liquor that day. The following section chiefs are also very enthusiastic. Section chief a just walked around, clinked glasses, and then shouted and walked in the opposite direction. In the afternoon 10, section chief b called for another stall to drink. After drinking this wine, I can't help feeling that Northeasters are really warm, hospitable and simple.
To tell the truth, I have always had a good impression on people who are sincere and enthusiastic, because that's who I am in my bones. Growing up, I like helping others very much. I like to invite my friends to dinner and visit Kan Kan to get to know each other's feelings. Inadvertently, being lively and sociable has become my true nature. I know this hospitable temperament is inherited from my father and even my grandmother, and we are in the same strain.
In that era of material shortage and hard life, my kind grandmother was hospitable, preferring to borrow oil and eggs rather than entertain everyone who was a guest at home. This virtue has been remembered by the whole village and praised for many years. My father is generous, honest and frank. During his forty years of work, he made many good friends all over the country. Some of these uncles and aunts still often ask about me and care about my development, which I will never forget and appreciate.
Life is like a mirror, through which everything you say and do will be reflected in front of others. As you treat others, others will treat you. Through the mirror of life, you can not only reflect your spiritual world, but also reflect the ups and downs of your journey. Born as a human being, ordinary mortals will inevitably have troubles and comparisons in their hearts. To maintain a heart that can be indifferent to one's ambitions and treat others well, it is often necessary to strive to be firm, optimistic, leisurely and indomitable.
We often say that we are born to be kind. If we can go further, we will try our best to turn this goodwill into great enthusiasm, and we will continue to infect our relatives and friends around us. After a long time, why worry about a bad relationship and no intimate friends? When you are doing something, you must not hesitate too much, but help others when you should. Don't keep everything in mind, the brain doesn't need to load too many things, otherwise it will live more and more tired, bind hands and feet, and feel bound. Only by abandoning those unnecessary burdens can we go further.
Time is a good thing, because what you did and didn't do, there is always something to give back to you after a long time, such as working hard, being kind to others, learning to understand, and building good relationships. I believe that fate can't be changed, but luck can. People's fate changes with their various behaviors over a period of time. A person with bad luck can get better and better through tenacious efforts and fighting against the sky. The same is true for cultivating personal relationships and getting to know good people.
I don't believe that there is no common cause and no common goal. Whether in officialdom, shopping malls or the workplace, I have met too many people who are really good at dancing with long sleeves and talked with all kinds of people. You can say that they are quite calculating and understand other people's ideas, but each of us has the ability to grasp other people's needs. If we cultivate this ability earlier, we will continue to be kind to others and build good relationships. Perhaps a casual kind reminder from others is enough to change your present situation and even your life.
Hospitality and friendship are the code of conduct for a person to truly take root in this society. Open a door in your heart, make yourself happy and enthusiastic, and then start from the people around you and reverse your image in the eyes of others bit by bit. Determined to do a good job in marriage, do more things that are good for people, help each other in the same boat, and do less things that harm others and benefit themselves. Sow the seeds of hope, and flowers will bloom one day.
I remember I used to be an angry teenager who loved to pretend to be cool. At that time, I was dressed in a cold style, and acting was also a cold style. When you meet an old friend, you can always greet him warmly and talk loudly. Once you meet new friends, especially those you don't know, you like to pretend to be cold. Now that I think about it, I was really innocent and lovely at that time. Friendship between friends lies in sincerity and sincerity. How good an impression can you make by treating others with cold standards?
Many friends prefer to be alone and don't like to deal with others. Usually like to be alone, like to get along with yourself, which is the only process for the spiritual home to thrive. Drinking tea and chatting with others, talking about ancient and modern times, is not always rewarding, but often just harvesting happiness and killing time. I believe that only by immersing myself in my spiritual home can I live a truly rapid spiritual growth.
Even so, we should learn how to get along with others better and be kind to others. Only by bravely opening your heart and letting the sunshine outside moisten your heart can you thrive smoothly. No one can achieve complete harmony. We need to keep inner peace and be more pure and kind to others, so that we can establish good relations and gain sincere friendship.
As the saying goes, in a threesome, there must be a teacher. We often get along with friends of different identities and communicate with each other. It can't be said that there are new gains every time. At least we can constantly broaden our thinking and improve our cognitive ability. In addition, depending on parents at home, friends when going out, and knowing one more friend, there is virtually one more way, one more choice and help. Usually, we must consciously take the initiative to get to know excellent people, and sometimes we can meet a mentor and even benefit for life.
Tap your enthusiasm and keep your kindness, so that you can finally infect everything around you like a flame, and then you will find that this feeling is very good. Only when you try to stand in the crowd, keep your proper manners and manners and leave a good impression on others will others want to know you. You can make excellent new friends and expand your life circle. In me the tiger sniffs the rose. Born to be human, please be kind!