Everyone has his first time, the first time to drink, the first time to skip class, or when he just grew up, he first understood the concept of friends, made good friends for the first time, and quarreled with friends for the first time. These are all inevitable. Of course, everyone will try their best to get the first time, but the more so, the more likely it is to develop in the opposite direction.
When we first fell in love, we were all confused. After being with someone we like and have feelings for, if both of them are first love, they will want to have a serious love talk.
But the more it backfires, it's like catching sand by the sea. You tried to catch a handful of sand, but in the end you caught nothing. Life is like this. It always gives us unexpected things and takes us by surprise.
The correct love should be that everyone has their own things to do, everyone has their own space to be alone, two people love each other, know each other's likes and dislikes, and don't do things that touch each other's bottom line. Both of them have their own goals. They have made some achievements and must be excellent.
On the contrary, however, the first-love friend tries too hard to catch each other, and doesn't want the other person to leave his sight, or even to be separated from him for a second. So it is impossible to judge whether it is correct or not. Everyone has his own way of life, and two people may have their own skills in getting along, but such skills are not suitable for everyone. Some people may feel bored and suffocated because they are too attached to each other, so the future they expect may be far away.
There are really many skills for two people to get along. In fact, sometimes we all need to read more books about these. After reading these books, we may gain more, and we will learn more skills of getting along with each other. These skills can't be bought by money, and you may not really understand what is in books. Everything needs to be felt by yourself.
Let's see if our parents quarrel at ordinary times. It seems that two people who make up after each quarrel will be closer than usual, because they know how to cherish. They understand that a person's life is neither short nor short. The man around them has been with you all his life, and he has verified all your joys and sorrows. What reason do you have to leave him? You leave him like a bird leaves the sky.
Cherish the person in front of you slowly, give each other space and give him time to evolve. When he is in pain, we hug him and share for him. When he is happy, we are proud of him. Isn't that enough? We give ourselves a good excuse to be melodramatic, cherish, optimistic and happy.