Some people say that the happiest woman in the world is the one who is spoiled by her parents at home, spoiled by her husband when she gets married, and spoiled by her children when she gets old!
However, such a mother, actually by their own children "dislike"!
(a) No housework, no children, no husband, no grandchildren of the "giant baby mom"
"No housework mom"
No housework mom"
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Chunping is a young woman of knowledge, at that time it is also considered a good family conditions, parents are high-ranking sons and daughters! The first time I saw her was when she was a young girl, and she was spoiled by her parents like a "princess"! Later grew up, met the current husband, the husband's family conditions are relatively poor, is a high climber, so, in the family has been on Chunping submissive, never dare to let Chunping do a little housework! Later, there is a child, in addition to the birth of the child suffered a little bit, Chunping almost did not bring the child a day! Almost all of them are his husband in the band!
Then the child grew up and got married!
"I don't care about my husband's mom."
However, the sky is the limit, and his husband is sick!
This disease ah, the daughter can be bad luck!
Her daughter said, since my father fell ill, I have to go to the hospital every day to take care of my father, and to take care of the children, and most of all, I have to go home to cook for my mother, her self-care ability is really too poor, nothing! My dad used to do everything, but now that he's sick, all the pressure is on me! I'm too busy even if I have my own way of doing things! Let my mom go to the hospital to take care of my dad. She says she doesn't know how to do it, so she's just adding to the mess! I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it!
Her daughter said, once she went to the hospital, back to the traffic jam, did not have time to go home to her cooking, she even packets of instant noodles will not buy to eat, live there waiting for me to go back to her cooking! To be honest, I really dislike my mom! She doesn't act like a mom! She's just here to be the "Queen Mother"! The whole family is like a slave to her!
When I was a kid, my dad always told me that men and women should be independent! However, my mom's character is completely spoiled by my dad! My dad always said, his own daughter-in-law, they have to spoil! So he can't help it, he spoils her himself! What happened? The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not going to be able to do anything about it, but I'd like to be able to do something about it!
"I don't care about my grandchildren's mom"
I didn't have much of a feeling at first! Then I had a baby of my own, and I was thinking that everyone else's moms could help out with the baby, but my mom said that she still needed someone to take care of her own, so don't think about her coming to take care of my baby!
Then my dad got sick, and then my dad died! My mom was the only one left, and I just got genuinely tired! I had to take care of a little baby and a "big baby" every day! I have to go to my mother's house and my mother-in-law's house! She refused to hire a nanny, and insisted that I, as a child, should take care of her myself! I don't know what to say about her, but she won't stay with us, and she's just so full of problems! I don't know how to judge her, but she is my own mother, there is no way, I don't care about her, no one cares!
Chunping's daughter feels angry whenever she talks about this! She said, other people's mothers can help with the children, home to help do housework, cooking, cleaning! I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do with this, but I'm going to be able to do with it!
When I was a kid, she never touched me, and she didn't take me with her! I'm not sure how much trouble I'm in when I grow up! I feel like I can't even serve her with a thousand hands! I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm sure I'll be able to get by with a little help from her! When I cook for her, she thinks I don't cook as well as my dad used to, and wants me to learn more! I told her to learn to cook by herself! She said she's so old, it's time for her children to be filial to her! I'd like her to learn how to help with the kids, but she says she's never had a child of her own, so she has no time to help us with our kids!
If we go further, she will say that it is because she is lucky! I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this," he said! Now that the children have grown up and understand, there are still children to spoil! Then I can only have nothing to say!
After all, it is their own mother, the service still have to serve, but, honestly, really tired.
(2) But, like this "giant" mom, really good?
Nowadays, a lot of people boast that raising a girl should be rich! When you marry a girl, you say: I spend so much money and energy to raise a girl, and ask others to be raised as a "princess"! But if every girl is "spoiled" like this, doesn't do housework, doesn't have kids, doesn't take care of other people, then is it a good thing or a bad thing?
A friend of mine got married before, and when she did, she met a "giant mother-in-law!
She said that usually her mother-in-law does nothing but go out and dance. The broom at home fell down, will not help a little! After eating, the table on a put, and went out! When the child cries, she not only doesn't bring it, but also scolds the child for crying non-stop all day long and making a lot of noise!
And then they let themselves move out earlier!
She said, "I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to take care of my family," she said! I don't know how their family can stand her!
In fact, all people are equal! However, there are always some people, under the banner of "giant baby", to avoid their own responsibility, but also to dump the pot on others!
Marriage is a partnership, but it's not a partnership, it's a partnership! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for it!
But where the pre-wedding frankly, after marriage, "ten fingers do not dip in the spring water" of men and women, to put it bluntly, is "selfish"! Do not know how to make sacrifices and dedication for the family!
(3) Why is the divorce rate so high now?
Doesn't it have anything to do with the existence of "giant babies"? Too many women dream of being a "princess" and want to marry "big money", but they never look at themselves, "why"? By your stupidity, by your stupidity, by your stupidity? Or is it because you can't do anything? The only thing that you can do is to have a fool's face.
Previously, a girl said, now the man can be more "smart" than the previous man! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get a new car!
Unlike many women, a monthly salary of 3,000, to buy 4,000 skin care products, but also stupidly asked why men do not want her! I'll tell you why! Because you even the basic "financial management" will not! The first thing you need to do is to get married and go back to your family!
There is a woman, a month of 20000 salary, buy a piece of clothing must buy 30000 a piece! To put it bluntly, this kind of woman is not stupid, who is stupid? But if there is a little bit of basic "financial" knowledge, can this spend?
Life is the material rice, oil and salt is not true, but, life is also need to "management"! The credit card, but also to go to the "plastic surgery", that is, the face into a flower, but also look a kind of "stupid" temperament!
And as a "smart" financial man, how can you look at a "stupid" stupid girl? Are they in over their heads?
So, I advise all the "silly white sweet", do not daydream anymore! If you don't do housework, don't know how to manage your money, don't have children, and only want to do beauty treatments, drive a luxury car, and be in debt every month, you can still expect to catch a "golden son-in-law", and I'm afraid that's only possible in the "turtle pool"!
Of course, there are many "giant baby" men! Just like those who obviously have no money in the bag, but also 0 down payment loan to buy a car of men, the degree of stupidity is not worse than others!
And the world of "giant babies" will one day collapse!
Those who are young and greedy for comfort, when they are old, will be all "doubled back"!