But she stayed at home for 5 days, she felt no fun, I said why don't you help your parents to do some work, or take them out to play, after all, so many years back, it is time to do some filial piety.
She said she couldn't help at all, and at home she was just giving her mom and dad a hard time. The first thing I'd like to say is that I don't know what to do. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night, and I was in the middle of the night.
Girlfriends said "see parents have their own things to do, and do not have to worry about their children, and can do something they like to earn some money, health, there is nothing to worry about."
Yes, parents love their children it is natural, when the child leaves you, do not feel that you have nothing, only when they put down, have their own life. In order to live a healthier life, the children are assured.
A colleague Xiaomei just got married, she almost every day to us to spit, said today that her mother-in-law came to their house cleaning, to her a seemingly quite 80% of the new bag are thrown away, in fact, that bag is a bit of a problem with the zipper, Xiaomei have time to go to the repair, and the results of the evening after work to go home to see, the bag in the garbage can. She has angry, why the mother-in-law did not give her a word, just throw away all the other people's things? The mother-in-law said she saw the broken zipper and thought she didn't want it. She was going to say something about her mother-in-law not letting her come and help clean up the house, but she was afraid she would get angry.
In the evening, Xiaomei gave her husband to discuss whether the old lady can not come to help cleaning and cooking and so on, her husband perfunctorily, said that is his mother, good intentions when they are babysitting, Xiaomei think about it and forget about it.
The next day, the mother-in-law still came to help them cook, clean up the room, the evening Xiao Mei after work, dinner time to the mother-in-law said that this dish is a little light, not very good. The mother-in-law did not say anything at the time, but a turn of the eye to his son, said the daughter-in-law, really in the blessing of not knowing the blessing, to you do a good job of cooking still picking and choosing the four. The first time I saw this, I thought it would be a good idea for me to get out of the house and get out of the house.
Then he came up with a way to buy his mom a personal high-tech electric chair, so that she can do it at home, do not have to go to their home every day to help. But the old lady was not happy, saying that her son had married a daughter-in-law and forgotten her mother.
Later or Xiaomei's father-in-law persuaded the old lady, they are adults, do not need your help, everyone has everyone's life, married, should be responsible for their own responsibility. We should also have our own life, do not put the focus of life on the child.
And then Xiaomei's mother-in-law finally woke up, nothing to go to the park, to go to the square dance, the day is very full, see people say, to give the children free life, respect the children's life. To have their own life.
Put down the children, assured that worry about the life, live for yourself.
Suddenly, I remembered Zhao Qiping's mother in the "Ode to Joy", a gentle and elegant, know how to respect her son's opinion, her son is in love, although you can see that she does not like Qu Xiao Xiao, but Zhao's mother gave her more than enough respect and appreciation.
Zhao's mother is very knowledgeable, has her own life, and speaks politely when she reminds her son that "Married life after passion is not as simple as you think. I hope that he will be able to think far ahead, not to be greedy for the moment, and then regret it for the rest of his life. "Such a mother who knows how to let go and respect her children at the right time. Living with such ease and confidence. Let me y admire from the bottom of my heart.
A parent, no matter what time, whether young or old, whether accompanied by a child, or not accompanied by a child, should have their own life. Know how to put down at the right time, when the child is very young can give full companionship and love, grow up and learn to put down and withdraw, the child can not be your all, to learn to live for themselves.