Xu Yanmin:
In short, you must find something to build up your ego. You have to be in your own coordinate system and be satisfied. At that time, you will realize that the gaps that you cared about before are not really that important. There's a word these days called Pushy Confidence, ordinary and confident. It's basically a negative word on the internet, but I think it's a great word. 99% of us are ordinary people, but the ability of ordinary people to build self-confidence is a very important foundation for us to become a happy and healthy person.
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Journalist Errong:
Decency for young people is self-sufficiency
Many people are always at a loss when they first enter college and step into a new phase of life. Leaving the familiar mode of study in the past, there is a large amount of time every day, but do not know what to do.
New Beijing News dream sharing officer Errong received a question from a 10+ student, to which she shared her story.
@drowned cat:
I am a freshman this year, some of my roommates are already preparing for graduate school, some say they don't like this profession, to be a director, as soon as they have time to go to the theater to find work to do. But I don't know what to do with a lot of time every day.
Parents used to say that it's good to go to college, but now without the final and college entrance exams, I realize that I don't know what I want to do, what should I do?
Errong believes that you can try to set a small goal for yourself, not too difficult to achieve the kind of.
When I was in college, I was surrounded by students who had cameras, so I thought I had to have one, but I didn't want to ask my family for money, so I went crazy with my internships.
When I was in college, I was surrounded by students who had cameras, so I thought I had to have one, too, but I didn't want to ask my family for money. What tutoring, shopping guide, group acting, you can think of college students part-time jobs, I almost did. It wasn't until my junior year of college that I took a part-time job as a video reviewer, working weekends through the shift, 6 a.m. to 10:30 p.m. It was very tiring, but I was pleasantly surprised to find that I seemed to kind of like 'video shooting' as a job. So that summer, I packed my bags and brought all my savings to Beijing, rented a small 6 square meter second bedroom outside the 5th ring road, and did my internship as a writer/director.
Then, I went to shoot the ancient villages around Beijing, the pearl on the plateau Lugu Lake, the ice-covered no man's land in Inner Mongolia ...... also recorded the square dance aunt, 3D sugar painting master Liu Guibing. Later, I used the money I earned to buy that camera.