You should believe that all success is cumulative.
All successful people have one thing in common: they have experienced many hardships and failures, but they have never given up their growth, have been studying hard, and have a tenacity to surpass others.
Imagine that it really takes a long time to surpass others, not a day or two. It takes time to find the right direction, to explore successful methods and to precipitate yourself.
Only by studying thinly and living thickly can a person become a wise man; If you accumulate enough experience and take failure as a stepping stone, your life will be very high; Swallow pain and grievances, and your mind will be strong; Stick to Wan Li Road and keep going uphill, and your horizons will be broadened and the pattern will be big.
There is an old couple in our community. They took the lead in organizing a square dance team and people came here one after another. Now the team has grown to more than 50 people.
Surprisingly, it takes 500 yuan to join this team. I asked the people in the team: "There are free square dance teams everywhere. If you don't go, why spend money to learn square dance? "
They told me, "The old couple danced all their lives and won many prizes. Their dance is very professional and worth learning. "
The words "I have been dancing all my life, and I am very professional" are resounding, which also makes me see the attraction and value of self-discipline.
Ma Yun said: "What is a great thing? A great thing is to do the same thing countless times in an ordinary, repetitive, monotonous and boring way, which will be a great thing. "
A truly successful person does not necessarily do great things, but does a small thing repeatedly all his life, which increases the height and thickness of life and makes people far behind.
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What is the meaning of self-discipline? Making money hard may be a good answer.
If you are good at observing, you will find that there is a kind of person who has been strictly self-disciplined and then silently increases his income.
Perhaps, from such people, you will find that the purpose of self-discipline is not only to go to bed early and get up early, run more in the morning and read more books, but also to need financial support.
If there is no good economic foundation, then what self-discipline can we rely on? It is easier for a person to talk about self-discipline when he is full of food and happy.
For example, a very poor person has to stay up late to work overtime in order to get more overtime pay; If he insists on working the night shift and can get an extra thousand dollars a month, it is estimated that he will be willing.
We are all running for our lives, and the life of adults is really not easy. Stick to forming good habits and stick to them, perhaps to make more money. Good habits can only be adhered to when the economic income is high.
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Self-discipline is a sign that a person grows up quietly and becomes rich.
In the circle of friends, I often see people who like reading, running and writing, as well as people who love food and travel. However, if you look closely, you will find that they are just "pretending" in their circle of friends, and their lives are often very bad.
In recent years, there are really many people who "fake struggle". For example, a young man goes to the gym, pays money, and then goes to the gym for a walk every day. Instead of taking a solid exercise, he took some photos of himself and left. Then, he has the capital to show off and tout himself as a "fitness expert".
Hard-working people have no time to share their "experiences" with you, nor have time to bask in their own lives. He is very busy every day, either starting a business, studying, exercising or spending time with his family.
Self-disciplined people, like geckos, often lie motionless on the wall for hours. When the prey flies in front of them, it quickly runs over and takes the prey into the bag.
Talking less and doing more is what a struggle should look like.
Forming good habits, going to work on time, reading and exercising are actually improving the ability to make money. When the conditions were ripe, he immediately seized the opportunity to surpass others.
When watching a long-distance race, often in the last few hundred meters, someone launches a sprint at an amazing speed, leaving everyone around behind. Such a person is a person with strict self-discipline. He always keeps a constant speed when running, saves his strength and never falls behind.
All vigorous struggles are hypocritical, and only obscure persistence can be true and effective.
When a person struggles silently, it is often the beginning of becoming rich.
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People who are strictly self-disciplined often have the potential to "get rich silently".
Last Sunday, when I was shopping with my friends, I saw a man riding an old bike.
The friend said, "Look who has millions at home and doesn't want to buy a motorcycle."
I was surprised: "He has millions, why didn't I know?"
The friend said, "There are eight facades at the gate of our community, and he has five. At the farmer's market, he also bought a facade and a house. "
I asked, "Where did he get his money?"
The friend said, "He used to be a repairman, but later he opened a repair shop."
I suddenly lost in thought, and I seemed to see the process of a person getting rich-trying to make money, trying to save, and trying to create "after-sleep income."
Many people want to have the idea of "Qian Shengqian", but they can't control their habit of spending money indiscriminately, and they can't keep the momentum of making money.
A person can't even insist on "trying to make money". What else can he insist on?
Being rich is a person's greatest self-confidence and a stepping stone to a happy life. Only by consciously forming good habits and making money with healthy body and strong ability can a person's income and savings increase slowly.
The purpose of self-discipline is not necessarily to make money, but it must be self-discipline for making money.
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