How to promote the reform of national wedding customs
How to promote the reform of national wedding customs, starting from about 2000, by the influence of the surrounding environment, the pursuit of lively wedding gradually went out of style, changed flavor. Uncivilized wedding customs inserted into the formation of a bad habit. nam National wedding customs reform how to promote.
National wedding customs reform how to promote 1Marriage customs reform is a cultural project, but also a livelihood project. In recent years, Li County to eliminate the bad habits of marriage, establish a new style of marriage is effective, in April of this year, was established by the Ministry of Civil Affairs for the province's only national experimental area of marriage reform, in the next three years, Li County is going to be given to the word of marriage and new content and new weather.
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"I got married at the time, the ceremony, although a no band, two no song and dance, are by the The groom and the best man to sell singing, but lively, that kind of happiness is not designed, is from the heart." Li County Liyang Street Mengjiagang community party secretary Ma Shaoqing recalled that more than 20 years ago to pick up the bride is to lead an "army of bicycles", singing all the way to the bride's home. After the bride received back, about a mile away from the groom's home to get off the walk, the groom "three steps a tribute" to express respect for the female side of the respect and love, which was then respected traditional wedding customs in urban and rural areas of Li County.
"It's just that for a while, uncivilized wedding customs inserted themselves and formed a bad habit."
Starting from around 2000, influenced by the surrounding environment, the pursuit of lively weddings gradually went out of style and changed flavor. The groom was forced to request the wedding wedding off, instead of pulling the bride forward with a crate; forced the groom to take off his shirt, pole dancing around the pole, not satisfied with the release; singing and dancing team at the wedding site, but also intentionally play some vulgar programs; after the wedding, there are wedding pranksters maliciously teasing the bridesmaids ...... In short, in order to achieve the purpose of watching, eye-candy! In short, in order to achieve the purpose of watching, eye-catching, wedding tricks are also endless, which with the local traditional wedding customs in Li County and civilized society on the "new wedding". The requirements are getting farther and farther away.
In this regard, in 2017, Li County began to promote the marriage field within the county, village rules and regulations (residents' convention), experts, party members to take the lead in the way of "full line of action" on vulgar wedding, the bride price, dowry, dowry comparison, humane winds, etc. to rectify. Village, the two committees in the village rules and regulations, the wedding banquet can not be more than 350 yuan per table, with the standard 300 yuan, the wedding celebration fireworks, firecrackers, while the establishment of the red and white council, each village, the group has established a "change of custom advocating civilized new style" WeChat group, the rural party members and cadres and the masses **** with the participation of each other to supervise each other, the village of the village, the two committees in the village rules and regulations. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the bad things you've been doing.
The village red white council chairman introduced: "In the past to do the wedding, often have to compare each other with the big manipulation of three or four days, a wedding down to spend one or two hundred thousand. Nowadays, the villagers to do red and white wedding, prior to the record, to sign the application and commitment to consciously and voluntarily comply with the village rules and regulations." In the past two years, the village has more than 10 pairs of new couples married, are done festive and simple, the villagers no longer for the people tired.
At present, more and more villages and streets in Li County have set up red and white councils, formulated their own village rules and regulations, and organized villagers through self-education, self-management, self-service, and self-governance of the wedding and funerals and other bad social customs.
"Auxiliary" and "service" simple marriage into the hearts of people
In the Li County Civil Affairs Bureau marriage registration office, the 90-year-old Yuan Ziling young couple entered the marriage counseling room before the official receipt of the license to answer the question. The marriage counselor carefully prepared 15 small questions, including family responsibilities, childcare concepts and other topics.
In September 2020, the Civil Affairs Bureau of Li County formulated the "Li County Marriage Reform Pilot Program," which includes marriage and family counseling, premarital counseling, marriage licensing services, and collective weddings into the government's purchase of service matters, forming a long-term mechanism.
At the same time, in order to promote the reform of wedding customs in Li County, advocating simple and appropriate wedding etiquette, the county Civil Affairs Bureau continued to carry out a series of activities, such as the "romantic eve, tree civilization," and vigorously promote the modern civilization of the wedding ceremony. In the marriage conflict resolution, the civil affairs departments and other functional departments to jointly carry out marriage and family counseling, improve the humanistic care and psychological guidance mechanism, crisis intervention mechanism, and effectively enhance the mediation to deal with the success rate of disputes.
In April this year, Li County Civil Affairs Bureau through the government to purchase services, hire experienced social workers, marriage and family psychological counselors, etc., for each pair of new couples to carry out the first lesson of premarital counseling.
Every time a session is completed, the staff will stamp a small slip of paper to prove it. Solemn and romantic awarding ceremony has also become a standard part of the marriage registration process, the new couple in the recitation of the "marriage vows" together after the marriage certificate into the frame prepared in advance, press the love fingerprints, and finally framed the warm moment. The newcomer Yuan Ziling said excitedly: "quite happy, completed a major event in life, the ceremony is full of, let us feel very happy."
In addition, Li County actively innovate marriage services, the use of "520", "Tanabata" and other days of special significance to organize single youth blind date, collective certification ceremony, collective wedding and other activities.
Chengtoushan Township, Zhanjiagang village of Aunt Wu happily told reporters, "Thank you to the party and the government advocated a new marriage, son's wedding to do and happy and worry." Aunt Wu's family economic conditions are not good, although his son is hard-working and kind, but has not been able to find a suitable object, I did not expect to meet in a Youth League organized by the county party committee of the single young people will meet the soulmate. In August last year, the two applied for marriage registration, participated in the county civil affairs bureau organized by the collective licensing ceremony, the two vowed to do to change the customs of the actors, disseminators, only held a simple wedding.
According to the relevant person in charge of the Civil Affairs Bureau of Li County, September 26 will be held "Yuan Zhi Li Lan - Good Hundred Years" collective wedding for the county's marriageable young people to provide a new form of wedding choices, and to further promote the reform of wedding customs, change the customs, so that the new concept of simple and moderate marriage in the hearts of the people.
How to promote the reform of the national marriage customs2Miles of cloudless mirrors in Kyushu, the most reunion night is the Mid-Autumn Festival. The Mid-Autumn Festival is a great opportunity for people to get together and have a good time, and it's a great opportunity for people to get together and have a good time, and it's a great opportunity for people to get together and have a good time. The city's marriage registration authorities strictly implement the requirements of marriage registration epidemic prevention and control management, combined with the work of the National Marriage Reform Experimental Zone, the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival for the public for the marriage registration, to provide a variety of characteristics of the marriage registration services, and the newlyweds *** with the sharing of Mid-Autumn Festival reunion of the festive joy.
Strengthening the protection force, good registration service
In order to fulfill the commitment of "I do practical things for the masses" and to meet the needs of the masses for marriage registration on special festivals, the marriage registration authorities of all districts of Guangzhou opened their doors for marriage registration on the day of Mid-Autumn Festival, and by adding registration windows, increasing staff, and providing a wide range of services, we have been able to provide the public with a variety of services, which are very useful for the public. Additional registration windows, additional staff, advance pre-qualification materials, improve efficiency and other measures, the day of all the marriage registration in line with the provisions of the registration can be registered, the city's *** for the marriage registration of 581 pairs.
Strengthening the epidemic prevention and control, the implementation of regular management
Guangzhou marriage registration authorities in various districts to strictly implement the epidemic prevention and control management requirements, strengthen the management of personnel in the marriage registration service, the strict implementation of the wearing of masks, health information verification, temperature testing, ventilation and disinfection of anti-epidemic measures, additional manpower, linkage of volunteer ***The company's website has been updated with the latest information on the latest developments in the field, including the latest news, the latest news, the latest news, the latest news, the latest news, and more.
Promote marriage reform, carry out a series of service activities
In order to carry forward and inherit the excellent traditional Chinese culture and family virtues, advocate modern civilized marriage new style, vigorously promote the construction of the national experimental area of marriage reform, guide the masses to set up a "heavy registration, strong responsibility, sublime thrift" new style of marriage.
First, the initiative of love. Guangzhou Municipal Bureau of Civil Affairs jointly with the Municipal Civilization Office printed a "new era of civilized marriage and family initiatives", put in the city's marriage registration authorities and urban and rural communities, advocating that the general public attach importance to the construction of the family family culture and education, abandon the high bride price stereotypes, set up a correct view of marriage, advocating the new wedding ceremony, the wedding ceremony briefly, to create a new healthy and civilized civilized marriage customs.
The second is the love message wall. The Panyu District Civil Affairs Bureau marriage registry set up a "message wall" in the waiting area, the production of the Mid-Autumn Festival elements of the stickers, so that the newlyweds will "love the voice" pasted on the message wall, interactive show of love, *** with the sharing of the sweetness of the marriage and happiness.
The third is the "tree in the fall" of love. There is an interesting custom in Guangzhou, every mid-autumn festival will be tied lanterns, hanging high, known as "tree mid-autumn" or "vertical lanterns". The Marriage Registry of Panyu District Civil Affairs Bureau combines the Canton custom of "tree mid-autumn festival" and hangs mid-autumn festival lanterns in the service venue with cards of lantern riddles, poems and blessings, etc. Newlyweds can pick the card of their heart to exchange for a beautiful lantern. The site will also invite the newlyweds to make lanterns, in the experience of traditional culture at the same time, through the husband and wife to cooperate, thinking, unity of opinion, etc. *** together with the production process, experience spousal support, companionship, and enhance the husband and wife on the sense of belonging to the home.
Fourth, the love of the punch line. Liwan, Panyu, Nansha District Civil Affairs Bureau Marriage Registry set up outdoor punching points for newlyweds as well as members of the public to take photos and create a festive atmosphere.
Fifth is the love quiz question. Huangpu District Civil Affairs Bureau Marriage Registry carried out civilized marriage culture online promotional activities, new people receive task cards to participate in the online wedding quiz and learn civilized marriage related knowledge through online video, enhancing the sense of marriage registration ceremony of new people, but also to raise the awareness of **** build a beautiful family.
Sixth, love counseling class. Nansha District Civil Affairs Bureau Marriage Registry opened online "Marriage Navigation" Newlywed Lecture Hall, to help new people to understand marriage, realize the transformation from love relationship to marriage relationship, effectively deal with differences and conflicts in marriage and family, and improve the ability of new people to manage their marriage.