I don't think it's a question of mindset. I'm very much your age now, and I'm about to turn 50, so maybe I've reached the end of my career, and I'm counting my fingers every day for the day of my retirement.
The work is also to get by, no enthusiasm, as long as I can not find any problems in the scope of work on the line, do not think to advance ah, some of the things promoted.
Now it seems that every day in the mix, only looking forward to retirement can do some of their favorite, can go to do things.
Some of my colleagues of the same age have the same mindset. Maybe they didn't do a good job when they were young, and they just look forward to retiring and realizing their dreams?
At our age, we used to deal with pots and pans every day, surrounded by our husbands and children all day long. Now that our children are grown up, we should change the way we live.
What we can do at this age is to live happily every day, healthy and safe. From time to time, we also come to a travel, to be able to afford their own, but also to afford the family.
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I feel that this problem is mainly in the mind, the mind is old, then do what have no energy, the mind is young, then feel all over the body with strength. Our leader is 59 years old this year, a strong woman, today just returned from Qingdao study, next week ready to give us a lecture. Her husband's cancer is terminal, the whole consumed more than 2 years, she is so in front of the bed to take care of, the day and night of boiling, eating and living especially thoughtful and meticulous, touched all the staff. At the beginning of this year, after her husband left, she was depressed, after 100 days before she began to travel and study. Her pressure is not generally big ah, but she always have a force, I really admire her.
I feel that we just have to live a more fulfilling life, it is good to care for the elderly, more considerate, more care, more communication with the children, do a good job of logistics, on their own and their partners to be generous, to have a big picture, so do not give birth to useless gas, the body naturally well.
Fifty, people over half a hundred, half into the ground, see the world of all kinds of human feelings, experience the vicissitudes of life, music or bitter, slowly put it down!
The hardest thing is to grow up together with his brother in front of the go, he is a hair small and is the same school graduated senior, is the closest person in my life, as well as teachers and friends, hard times he helped comfort me, accompanied me through the difficult years, I can not accept his departure, see the last side of the brother faintly said to me, "live well. " Before leaving, kneeling to thank the brother, over the years to my care, the future of the world forever, crying heartbreaking lungs.
Understand the meaning of life and death, look down on money, despise the ugly, my wife said I am more and more no one like, do not get along, may be stimulated by the brother left. Now the world of people more bad very, in the encounter with a variety of deception, bullying, coworkers tipping, the last of the most precious feelings of the brother's departure is the pain in the back half of my body forever, can no longer listen to his open-minded relief, the heart of the story, as if the soul has no place to rest!
The month to the mid-autumn light less time, people to the middle-aged everything rest, the state of mind is so think, but life pushed to go do not let you stop, then slowly open legs continue to go, back is also life, into the life, then try, then disgusting job title to face, say to themselves to see enough disgusting on the nausea! I think of what my brother said to me, "live well"!
For you city people, retirement is a very happy thing.
For you city people, retirement is a very happy thing, but for us rural people, it is the most painful thing.
I'm 50 years old this year, and I'm still trying to save a little more money for my retirement. If by the age of 60 did not save enough money for old age, it is very unfortunate, rural pension is now all dependent on the state, but also a little less realistic, you city people retired a month there are thousands of tens of thousands of retirement pay, playing cards, square dancing, is a good time after your retirement.
Still working 50-year-old city people, be content! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. It's better to have a good life than to have a good life, and it's better to have a good life than to have a good life.
As long as it is not a leader, everyone will have this mentality, working 30 years, there is always a feeling of physical and mental exhaustion, looking forward to early retirement.
50 years old in the unit is an awkward age, in the unit, you do too much, the young people do not have the opportunity, you do not do anything, the leadership will have the opinion that the leaders are much younger than themselves, get along with it is not natural.
This time will certainly look forward to the life of the retired, with a pension free and easy, you can do something you want to do, compared to the current nine-to-five life, it must be a lot easier.
In fact, fifty years old is not yet to the age of retirement, the formal rich and experienced work of the golden age, but can not lift the spirit, I think we should adjust the mentality, stand a good last shift station post, and then create brilliant.
A few days ago, a state-owned enterprise to engage in the reserve recommended, several 50 years of age or older, the old middle level, a look at the reference personnel roster, there has been no name. At that time, I asked the personnel, how the reference roster did not have our name. The personnel replied, now engaged in rejuvenation, 50 years old and above is no longer included in the reserve range.
Once 50 years old, the unit is disdained, not to mention the "future", even the qualification of the competition is canceled. If you say let them have enthusiasm, killed us also do not believe, let them chill is the mechanism, environment and discrimination. Chicken Soup Man is going to spray again. Who made you not work hard at the age of 50, you deserve not to be on the list. Why do the people resent the chicken soup article? How many people can make a comeback because they drank chicken soup? There are. But, can be a common law?
Fifty know the fate of the world, know the fate of the world, but also to maintain the "professional (career)" enthusiasm, that is "mental exuberance", enthusiasm decline, that is the law of nature.
You see those rich and powerful people, 50 years old, still in the blood, still want to live another 500 years, it is because the desire of the hormones continue to burn.
Ordinary people, by life has been ravaged for decades, long wanted to remove the burden, for their own life a few years. What's wrong with the mindset? Isn't that the mindset of the masses? Not convinced? Give you a rich and powerful position, you see whether you immediately chicken blood surging?
Domestic job market, bullying an old man and a small man, the age of the small inexperienced not recruited, the age of the heavy burden of not recruited, which companies want to "eat the sweetest middle section of the sugar cane". You will say, this is the private sector, people seek to maximize the interests of ah, but, the system will not be a little better?
In the system, the age of the division is more cruel. 34 years old can not mention the deputy section, basically be suppressed. 39 years old can not mention the deputy section, the career space is capped. 44 years old can not mention the main section, the career is at the end. Especially now advocating the use of 90, the age of the older people, even the unit advised you not to toss, idle point is not good? The treatment is reserved for young people to make room, you are also to play, make a contribution ah.
Even if you have your own enthusiasm, the unit will not let you have enthusiasm. A lot of units in the system, 45 years old, began to retreat to the second line, 50 years old, basically across the board. 50 years old, retreat to the second line, some units and even the office, the desk do not stay, let you go home, the implementation of the research salary.
Society in general is such a mentality. High-paying Internet, high-tech companies, not to mention, 35 years old, faced with the risk of "aging" was kicked out of the Bureau. Other industries, is not the older the more popular? With the exception of "experienced professions" such as doctors and teachers, where middle-aged and old-aged technicians are more and more popular as they get older, all other trades and industries actually expect middle-aged and old-aged people to make room for young people. This is a common phenomenon.
There are too many people in the country, the young wait for the wailing, middle-aged and old again capable of low-cost replacement of your people, really is the Yangtze River waves push the front wave ah, the front wave was shot dead on the beach. Is it that older people do not try? It is not. This is a serious imbalance in the supply of labor and talent, ah, the contradiction between supply and demand is too prominent. The only way to get the middle-aged and elderly to give up their positions, then, without the stimulus of "career desire", who can maintain the enthusiasm?
The first is to automatically "give up" the position. For example, people in their middle age, wealth freedom, children and family happiness, and even add children and grandchildren, their own hard work all their lives, want to leave the armor to return to the field, to enjoy the happiness of the family. This is open-minded, take the initiative to "retirement". This kind of people, has been transcendent, their own early adjustment of the mentality, belong to the happiest class of people.
The second is, passive "let out" of the position. For example, the system of units, 50 years old, the second line, 50 years old to the logistics of the transfer, and so on. This is a unit of a one-size-fits-all mechanism, not to the person, who to the "point" who must be back, let the young people to do, otherwise, a crop of young people to suppress.
The third is that the passive "forced out" of the position. For example, outside the system of enterprises, 50-year-old workplace, basically belonging to the middle and senior management or business, technical backbone, annual salary is one or two times the young people. The young people they train can replace them in a few years. Young people and obedient, and progressive, low wages, good use, as managers, fools do not want to metabolize it.
The fourth is, Buddha nature to treat all this. For example, many middle-aged people, through the storm, full of frustration, see through the sadness of the world, see through the nature of right and wrong, and others were supervisors pit, was cheated by friends, was colleagues fell into the well, and so on. In short, to see through the truth of the workplace, take the initiative to make you free, to work on the interpersonal to maintain a Buddhist attitude, as the case may be, stop, there is no need to "enthusiasm".
The fifth is, pessimistic and disappointed. Before the age of 50 also struggled, also want to do a good job, due to limited capacity, no success, or a small worker, small staff, small clerk, completely give up the pursuit, no desire to be just, mixing, hate can not be early retirement. There is also a part of the people are capable, but the opportunity is not good, missed a set of promotion, step by step to catch up, disheartened, self-loathing. There is also a part of the people are capable, but by the exclusion of suppression, by running relations, will give gifts to the people climbed to the top, the heart is not convinced, more uncomfortable, simply early retirement. And so on.
In short, forty is not confused, fifty know the fate of God. Since you know what you want, you need to know what you need. Wealth freedom, the initiative to choose to give up the "passion for work", to the young people to make space, worthy of appreciation. If you haven't realized wealth freedom, but you are tired of working all your life, it won't hurt to take a break. It is also worth respecting those who can see through the world's coldness and relieve themselves without causing any trouble to the society. The fact that they continue to be passionate about their work and have a new spring in their step is even more admirable.
"I'm 50 years old, I'm not passionate about my work, and I'm looking forward to retirement.
I think there is no problem with the mindset.
I don't think there's a problem with the mindset. I've been on the job for decades, and I've been doing the same thing every day, day in and day out, and I'm not sure if I'm passionate about it.
Work to keep us from starving, but not rich, year after year, our best youthful years in the monotonous and boring work life wasted away.
The world is so big, so colorful, why do we have to be so monotonous and repetitive life.
What kind of life we want to live, we have to try to realize our dreams a little bit. Otherwise, with the age is getting older, we reap the harvest is not necessarily poor, but must be aging. This is the law of nature, who can not be avoided.
But we can make our life more interesting, more quality. This requires us to keep learning every day and keep moving forward. When we are making progress, we will continue to find different and wonderful scenery.
After work, we can do what we are interested in, which can inject vigor and vitality into our life. In this way, every day of life will be a lot of fun, rather than no passion for life, nothing can interest.
[No matter how old you are, if you keep thinking, "Ah, I'm this age..." Then you're screwed!
She's been described as "I work at 71, I fall in love at 86, I win awards at 102, and I don't have the energy to die."
At a time when many people her age were settling into old age, she decided to pick up a camera and record everything she wanted to. She spent six years traveling all over Japan, large and small, interviewing many people.
She went on to organize photography exhibitions and write books about what she saw and heard.
She studied English, read and did yoga every day.
At the age of 100, Sasamoto won the Best Dressed Award.
At the age of 102, Sasamoto received the Lifetime Achievement Award for Photography, the highest award in the world of photography.
One of the most endearing and funny things about Sasamoto is that at the age of 96, she wrote a card expressing her love for Charles, a French sculptor. Charles was late in replying and she was so depressed that she thought she had been rejected. She later learned that Charles had passed away of a heart attack.
I think her mind is a few dozen years younger than her actual age, so that she can still have love in her heart at such an advanced age, and will go to her beloved one to express her love.
There is love in the heart, which is the treasure of youthfulness. There are pursuits that will make your life full of passion.
I once saw a long-lived old man, he said to stay young, to deal more with the opposite sex. When he was sick and needed surgery, he and the doctor said, "I don't want to play anesthesia, you arrange a beautiful nurse to stand next to it." As a result, the doctor really arranged for him to stand next to a beautiful nurse, he hard no anesthesia to let the doctor finish the operation. You see the beauty can resist painkillers.
Compared to 105-year-old Tsuneko Sasamoto, 50 is still in the prime of life. One's mind is transformed, and it opens up.
Being a pursuing person with love in your heart will open the second spring of your life.
(Below is a photo of Tsuneko Sasamoto)
The mindset of a 50-year-old who doesn't want to work and wants to retire can't be said to be problematic.
First of all, for 50-year-olds, the pressure of life is relatively high, especially for women, who start menopause at around 50 and experience problems with their health, stamina, physical fitness and mental state. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
Secondly, at 50 years old, this age group is close to the age of retirement, and if the middle leadership position is retired, then there is some psychological loss, and it is understandable that there are some deviations in the mindset.
Third, to this age, if the general staff, you want a more relaxed working environment, as well as cordial relations with colleagues, if one of these two points in the problem, but also let you want to think of retirement, which requires you to reflect, introspection,
Fourth, there is the possibility that the unit so that you do not have a sense of belonging to the work of the atmosphere is not too good, coupled with the benefits of your unit did not meet your expectations, and you have a lot of time. The benefits of the unit did not meet your expectations, as well as the work you are doing is not recognized by the leadership, there is a sense of loss, may have wanted to retire the idea.
With this idea is not terrible, the first thing to do is to carefully analyze the real reason for this idea, itself from the objective and subjective to find the reason, if it is a subjective reason, then it should be a little more open, may wish to use a little Q's spiritual victory law, life has finished half of what we can do to put down should be put down, it should be happy, not to be happy. Happy is a day happy is also a day, learn to share our insights of these decades, for the imminent arrival of the retirement life in preparation, and can work not much time, the work of the time has entered the countdown.
Cherish what you have now, open your heart and embrace the life that still gives us the sweet and sour.
Unless you have a good work unit, good working conditions, good job benefits, and high wages, chances are that these people are not looking forward to retirement.
The ordinary workers, rely on youth to eat the wage earners (sales industry, service line), this kind of crowd to the age of 50, certainly look forward to retirement. If in your 50 years of age, was dismissed by the work unit, or laid off, or work unit bankruptcy and closure, that for this unit of work in the 50-year-old people, it is "worse". Because the health of a 50-year-old person is going downhill, and his work is not as enthusiastic as it was when he was young, coupled with the fact that he has an old man on top and a student at the bottom, and his family affairs are numerous. If you're laid off at 50, it's really hard to find a job.
There are a lot of people around me who are in their 50's or older, and their mentality is really "looking forward to retirement".
Our unit is a toxic and hazardous work type, male workers can retire at the age of 55 after eight years of work in the workshop. I remember in 2008 when the unit has a master 52 years old, really do not have the heart to work, do not have the heart to go to work, every day hanging in the mouth of the words is "I'm 55 years old, I do not know how good for retirement", because there is a little bit in the file and the actual inconsistency. As a result, three years later, the company's labor department smoothly for his retirement, retirement book a hand, the work of a handover, directly home, no longer work.
There is a master around, 50 years old from the original unit resigned, rested a year later and found a unit to work. The reason for going to work is that one does not want to be idle at home, and the second is that there are still 10 years of pension not paid.
There is also a sales friend, female, 48 years old, in a shopping mall to do promotions. They want to dismiss him and find a younger promoter. Her pension has been paid for 13 years, two years short of the minimum 15 years. She is now working very hard for fear of being fired. After two more years of work, she will automatically apply for "resignation" if she has paid enough for 15 years.
All of these are ordinary workers and ordinary wage earners, and when they reach 50, they all look forward to "retiring soon", and there are people around me who work in good organizations, and they don't want to retire.
Around a friend is working in the Trade and Industry Bureau, leading cadres level. 2006, when 50 years old, the Trade and Industry Bureau to promote new people, in 2008, their Bureau of the provisions of the "more than 50 years of age, all retire to the second line". My friend, of course, did not agree, the original is a leading cadre hand, which retired to the second line will have no rights. But after thinking about it, the Commerce and Industry Bureau needs fresh blood and young people, so he agreed, and after retiring to the second line, his salary was a few hundred dollars more than before, and it was 4600 yuan a month. But in 2008, my monthly salary was only 580 yuan. The other people unit good, retired to the second line of the monthly salary than I was 8 times higher.
So, people over 50 years old who are looking forward to retirement, I think there are the following reasons:
1, physical health problems;
2, in the unit is not valued, replaced by the newcomers;
3, the paychecks are not high, the work is heavy, many;
4, no energy to work;
5, in the unit You can't see the hope of work, you are a dispensable person;
6, a lot of family affairs, no desire to work!
I am nearly 40 years old, I don't know what I will be like when I am 50 years old. I'm looking forward to "retirement" now. The people in our organization who are going to retire often say: "Retirement is to enter the safe, after retirement, if you want to go to work, go to work, do not want to go to work at home to rest, anyway, there is a pension, enough to spend".
From this, we can see that 50 years old are looking forward to the retirement of the crowd, is very, very much!
People get to a certain stage, they get burned out. But it's understandable that you're looking forward to retirement now that you're 50. If you're a man, then you have 10 years before you retire, and if you're a woman, then you have 5 years before you retire. At this age, you usually have a certain career and your children have grown up. At this time, you may not be under much pressure, so it is normal for you to have this mindset.
This mentality of yours is mainly caused by three factors.
Because of your age, your desire may no longer be, for example, when you are young, you face the problem of buying a house and a car, getting married and having children, so you will work very hard, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you will overcome them with all your heart, because your desire is very strong. When you reach the age of 50, maybe your life has been very successful, for example, you buy a house and a car, and the children have grown up, at this time, you feel that your life has no regrets, so you will not be enterprising.
On the Siberian steppe, a pack of wolves is hunting.
Here, there is a saying circulating: "There is never a starving wolf on the steppe, only a wolf that runs to death in pursuit of prey."
The desire for prey creates the terror of wolf nature.
About wolf execution, there is such a passage:
In the vast grassland, a few black figures are chasing a group of wildly running antelope, these antelopes are they their hope of survival. These black figures in the heart of the silent thought: faster, faster, only to pounce on one of them, we can only be considered to complete the task, in order to live ......
These black figures are wolves, in their minds, not only has the stomach hungry hard, but also has the order of the head wolf. Under such a survival environment, they only constantly listen to the orders of the head wolf, constantly hunting, they have the hope of survival. No matter how bad the weather, prey multi-faceted difficult to catch, they must carry out, unconditionally.
Only with desire can a man truly do not tire of his work.