Life is like a play, I'm not a director or an actor, I'm just an audience.

life is like a play. When we opened our eyes at birth, we saw this vast world, colorful and bizarre, full of many amazing people and things that we didn't understand. As we grew up, we learned more and more about this world, but there were still many things that we couldn't understand, just like this year's epidemic, it suddenly started! When will it be extinct? We don't know. This is a story that we never thought of before. For another example, what kind of family will I be born in? What kind of age was born in? What kind of place were you born in? Who will I meet? Marry who? Who have you had a lot of love and hate with? These are all twists and turns like a play. Some people say that a gentleman watches a play without saying a word, while a mortal BLACKPINK takes the stage and performs to his heart's content, but we all know that at the end of the play, we will all leave the stage and the play.

we are not directors. There are always some ambitious people who will say, I want to change the world, I want to change others, and even the plot of the savior. From Plato's ideal country to Marx's * * * capitalist society. For thousands of years, many people have given their lives and enthusiasm for their ideals and beliefs. But when we look back at the 5,-year history of human beings, we will regret to see that history has its natural laws and trajectories, and it is often not transferred by human will! Many ideals have gone up in smoke, and only after the event will we be surprised to find that history will develop like this. None of us know where our future will go. So a popular saying now is, live in the present. Don't worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow's things are actually beyond our control. I think the human story is made up of countless causal karma and various opportunities, and its data is huge! Far beyond our current ability to understand and calculate. So we are not directors, we can't change the world, and we can't change such things as epidemic situation, economy, environmental changes, the future of the Internet, artificial intelligence, etc. We can only let nature take its course. If we really want to control the world, control others and control the direction of social development like God, then we can only be hurt. Everything in the world depends on its potential, so why bother!

we are not actors. A popular saying now is that life is like a play, and it all depends on acting skills. It seems that people with acting talent can get along well with the drama. When I used to work in two Fortune 5 companies, the main content of training in the companies was role-playing, which was very important in the workplace! I remember that in those days, we had a regional manager, who was a performer. He could talk about academics, loyalty, filial piety, etiquette, honesty and so on in a gentle way on the podium, and he looked like a modest gentleman. But when it comes to drinking, we will find that he is a very Jianghu alcoholic, and he is very good at taking part in accidental amusement, telling dirty jokes and flirting with some beautiful colleagues. With a wife and children, he caused many scandals inside and outside the company. So I really don't know which one is the real him, the gentleman scholar or the rogue pervert. Maybe both of them are his roles, and we don't know the real him.

more and more evidence in modern psychological research confirms that. Our self-awareness can't completely control our words and deeds. There are many modules or many different personalities in our brains, and they are competing with each other and occupying the control of our brains. In other words, maybe there is a scholar and a scum in our school. There is an infatuated lover. There is an emotional hooligan. There is a noble prince or socialite. There is also a prodigal son. Which module occupies our brain is beyond our control. So what we call acting in life is actually not our self-consciousness, but some modules in the brain control our brain. Essentially, we are not actors. We can't perform our roles according to our free will. We actually go with the flow. The person who plays his role on the stage of life every day is not "me"!

actually, we are just spectators! I don't know the script at all, nor am I a director or a screenwriter. I don't know what will happen tomorrow. Many twists and turns that happened in the past are beyond my control. At that time, my choice was not what the real "I" could choose. In this way, I can let myself go. I have no ability to change the world and others. I am not a director, and even my own role is not really played by me. It is not controlled by my free will, but the drama is directing me. I'm just an audience. I'm watching this scene. I'm watching this middle-aged man named XXX. He has played this scene for half a time in his life. There are many very tortuous and bizarre bridges in the middle. I was so involved in the play that I thought I was acting in it. I always feel that my life is too bitter, my script is too bad, I am not satisfied with my performances on many key occasions, and I have deep remorse. Now I'm practicing. Put it down! I'm actually just an audience. I'm not that actor, although the twists and turns on the stage are bizarre and exciting! But I must always remind myself that I can't get into the play too deeply. I should always see the motionless stage and the audience next to it.