Thought about it, but after thinking about it still feel as if it's better to get married.
Once when I was watching TV dramas, I saw a lot of people who were very sweet when they were in love before, but once they got married, they were very different. Moreover, there are a lot of troubles before getting ready to get married. First of all, there is still a chance that the other half's parents may not like themselves and may not really want you to get married. Even if his parents agree, there may be a lot of conflicts between both families because of the wedding. There are also a series of problems like those in many TV dramas, such as whose name is written on the real estate license and so on, which will arise because of the need to get married. In solving these problems, it may damage the relationship between the two parties.
And, even if you can get married, there are all kinds of problems after marriage, like what the sister-in-law conflict, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law struggle is not too common. After a girl gets married, she has to live with the man's family, and the only thing she can rely on is her other half. But if you have a conflict with your mother-in-law, and he is toward her, not at all toward yourself, then feel too poor.
So, every time I see those TV dramas, I think it's good not to get married, or not to get married in this life, and it seems to be good to live by myself. Because if you don't get married, there won't be so many things. But not getting married for the rest of your life seems to be a bit unrealistic. Not to mention how the people around you will look at you, is your parents should not agree with it. So, it's better to imagine not getting married for the rest of your life. In fact, marriage can be a happy thing.
For example, my brother is a very immature person. He doesn't seem to think about what to do in the future, and he's a twenty-something person who feels like he's not doing his job all day long. At that time, I was also once very worried about his future life how to live it. But now, long married now the child is almost a year old, and he feels completely different from before. Now he seems to know his own responsibility, will think to work to earn money to support their wives and children. When he is at home, he will always coax his child and will hold and tease him. I used to think that he probably wouldn't be very nice to people and wouldn't be able to take care of them, but now it turns out that he will, and when he's at home he's especially nice to my sister-in-law. Since, I live with them, it's just so obvious how happy they are as a family of three.
You see, getting married is actually an amazing thing, right? When you get married you have your own family and you have your own children, and that's something that's very happy and something that doesn't make you feel lonely. So, if you don't get married in your life, you should think about it. Marriage is still a good thing, and everyone should enjoy the happiness of married life. Not married seems to always make people feel lonely, lonely.