My husband and I have been married for sixteen years, counting on the old married couple. These sixteen years, we support each other, take care of each other, the days are also beautiful and harmonious. However, at the beginning of the year, because I learned to dance, my husband and I have all kinds of conflicts. By now, we are basically three days a small noise, five days a big noise. Because the noise is too frequent, my husband several times proposed to want to divorce me.
When it comes to our square dance quarrels, we have to start from last year when our son went to middle school. Because my son's middle school is far away from his home, he needs to live in the school to study. Before that, when my son was with me, I had to tutor him or cook for him, so I didn't have time to go out and have fun or do anything else.
After that, my son went to school and my husband went out to work, so I naturally had a lot of time on my hands. As I was really bored at home, it even made me feel suffocated and had a headache. So, I then decided to go to the park and take a look around.
After a few days of walking in the park, I got to know a few sisters who like to square dance. At their gracious invitation, I joined them. At first, I was shy and I was a terrible dancer. Later, with the help of my sisters, I gradually liked square dancing. It can be said that square dancing has given my life a new joy and pursuit. Now that I think about it, my previous life was simply dull and boring.
However, my husband didn't seem to like me going dancing. Since our dances would usually be in the evening, by the time I got home from the dance, my husband was usually already home from work. Because of this, my husband started making all kinds of accusations against me. He said I didn't act like a wife and that I didn't know how to be considerate of him.
I just don't understand, although I come home a little later than him, but I never delayed to cook for him, and never did not do housework not clean up the house. So, I think I have done nothing wrong, and besides, square dancing is my hobby now, and it brings me joy and happiness.
But my husband doesn't understand me at all, and no matter how I explain, he just refuses to believe me. As I insisted on going to dance, my husband even said that I had another man in mind. I was also guilty of thinking that it was because of my square dancing that my husband and I were in conflict.
But after listening to my husband's words, my guilt was gone in an instant. On the contrary, I feel that I should stick to my own hobby and ideas, so even if my husband wants to divorce me, I do not regret it.