Marrying a man who gambles

Married to a man who gives back gambling, that is certainly you yourself, this life may be screwed up. Because he may be losing money, collect collect your so-called belongings. When the time to follow him is to live a hard life. Because he followed him did not see tomorrow, because you do not know which day he. When he collects all the assets, what will you do? You're just like that. No way. The first man who loves to gamble, you'd better break up with him before it's too late.　If you are with such a boy, you may have more pressure in the later stage, because if you are often like this, it will be very difficult for the economy.　The mind will also not be very good, so it is better to find positive and enterprising boys, must take the right path, in this case will be better.　 How to advise gambling husband 1, calmly talk about it. To deal with the man who loves to gamble, it is recommended to talk to him calmly and peacefully first. After all, the day to live, life must continue, if always like to gamble so, that day is very difficult, I believe that the big housework sooner or later have to be lost, so as a woman, it is recommended to find a time to talk to the man.　2, give him the opportunity to correct. If through the exchange, he recognized his own mistakes, but also willing to correct, after all, we get along a, then give the opportunity to let it to correct.　3, repeat offenders have to die. If you give the opportunity, also guaranteed that they will be reformed, but said to say, but did not go to the actual practice of their own promises, but instead, not long, and back to the gambling table, again and again to deceive you, again and again to trample on your trust, in the face of repeated offenders he should know that the dead heart, as soon as possible to stay away from.　 The harm of gambling 1, gambling can make people charming mind, do not think of progress. Gambling is originally the embodiment of people's good and bad behavior. Players want to use crooked ways to get the maximum benefit. Players think that their wisdom to study a certain method, with their own ghost talent in this area can be rewarded. Deviated from the path of down-to-earth, step by step.　2, gambling can make people indifferent to family. Gamblers can forget to eat, drink, sleep, and leave everything behind when they are addicted to gambling, and only return to reality after completing the intended goal or losing everything.　Career matters, family obligations, and fatherly responsibilities will gradually fade away. When gambling is in progress, the gambler does not want anything to disturb him or her, and the gambler puts all of his or her energy into it and forgets everything in the world.　3、Gambling can make a person's family die. Gambling gambling is money, and basically involved in gambling, as long as the long-term continued to play, received the limitations of probability, almost without exception are losing. And gamblers feel that money comes too easily when they win, and most of them squander it. However, in the end, they still lose, Marrying a man who gambles 2 Why men are prone to addicted to gambling 1, men who go gambling usually just want to entertain at the beginning, to make a scene. Later, due to the focus, they get hooked on it, and some of them gradually develop it into their own occupation, and they simply can't stop.　2, gambling establishments in order to attract more gamblers, usually give some benefits to the novice. These small favors make more people spend more time in gambling.　This image is provided by registered user \ Mind Secret \, copyright statement feedback 3, if you lose some small amount of money, the casino has a way of lending you money so that you can renew and continue to play. This method makes the gambler's confidence increase, and will not consider the consequences of not being able to pay back the money.　4, the atmosphere of the gambling game is usually testosterone, someone in which the provocation, once you feel that the retreat lost face, that is not far from losing money.　5, addicted gamblers always win a little money at the beginning, began to fantasize about being able to make money with the help of gambling, become a big winner in life. And once the loss of money lost more and afraid to go back to the wife there is not good delivery, it is hard to wrestle a big one, trying to return to the capital. It is so step by step to the abyss.　6, in fact, now many mahjong hall inside more or less will be involved in gambling, just too much of this kind of thing is not enough people to check. Advise everyone nothing even square dancing do not go to watch the battle. Don't be obsessed with gambling, you small gambling once you get started can't stop, big gambling will definitely be involved. By the time you lose money owed a debt want to run can not run.　 How to save the love of gambling husband 1, recognize the fact that the husband loves to gamble, for the matter and the husband to discuss calmly, without emotion, on the matter, to avoid the wife's bad attitude aggravated by the husband's bad emotional experience, thus refusing to cooperate with his wife, listen to his wife's words; 2, to help her husband to understand the feelings of the heart when he gambled, why the need to gamble, what is the need for the heart of the lowest level, through the husband gambling What has he gained through gambling?　3, when the husband understands that in gambling he gets a sense of achievement, pleasure, pleasure, and these are not available to him in real life, it can make the husband understand what he really needs, the internal lack of these feelings is the spiritual world does not have the hollow, only to look inward and improve the level of psychological structure, so that they will not look outward to get these so-called good feelings through gambling; 4, to be a wife to be able to Understand the husband, more from the spirit to give the husband nutrition, nourish, mirror their . Husband, so that they did not get in the parents that spiritual food, can be through the life and interaction with the wife to get compensation and new experiences, so that the husband is full, have a sense of stability, do not have to pursue external stimulation; 5, more communication and interaction with the husband, so that the family life is rich and interesting, full and happy, so that the husband is willing to stay at home and participate in family activities; 6, the wife should not be everything, to show weakness in some areas, so that the The husband has a sense of value and significance at home, feel that he is the backbone of the family, to develop the husband's sense of responsibility for the family; 7, considerate and caring husband, can see his joys and sorrows, become a container for the husband's emotions, tolerate him, trust him, respect him, so that the husband feels comfortable at home, relaxed, harmonious and democratic, so as to retain the husband's heart, and will not be greedy for gambling and other stimulating activities.　Married to a gambling man 3 How to persuade the gambling husband I. Looking for the root cause of the existence that is reasonable, why their own family husband will be addicted to gambling? Surely not for no reason on the passion for a thing, all things are traceable, carefully recall whether recently happened what influence is relatively large things, or some long-standing hidden trouble is that you think it is a small thing, negligence.　In the final analysis, life is subjected to resentment is enough to let your husband dared to suffocate, such as work boss colleagues do not understand the ridicule, every day is in the middle of a tense battle, back home but also to collect from your family trivia complaints, and gradually piled up, can not release these grievances, can only be vented in places like gambling, where he can strategize and turn over to be the master of the people! More or less have the so-called desire to control, just ordinary people usually not easy to show it.　 II. The right way to solve the problem The beginning of the traditional trilogy to keep people does not work, you can keep his people but can not keep his heart. A good gambler can gamble on anything, as long as he can gamble on it. What he cares about is not winning or losing on the material level, but enjoyment on the spiritual level. So the right way to deal with the love of gambling against the husband is indispensable. What is the right way it, here is not a thousand, as if it is the same as the universal textbook method. This is a method that you already know.　You should know that no one more than you understand their own husband, the correct method is different from person to person, seize their weaknesses on it, but do what have to have a bottom line, but also to deal with gently, do not move on the threat, the threat is not a good method. Everyone has a weakness, the more hidden part of the more likely to be where the weakness is.　 Three. Do not push too hard, appropriate to spare yourself to let him go If you find that because of the husband's gambling, leading to this marriage is difficult to move forward, they can do all do, but for the love of gambling husband or no role at all, this time you should do is to think about whether this marriage should continue to go on. Marriage is the most favorite and the most annoying is habit, like is used to each other's existence is a good thing, the two couples grow mutually dependent on each other, hate is used to a mode of life, when you want to have a little bit of change when it is intolerable.　At this time you can try to let him go, let him do what he wants to do, reduce the number of control him, perhaps gradually in turn he is not accustomed to, not accustomed to no one in charge of the day, do not like you ignore, slowly and seriously run the family. This method is more applicable to the lost sheep, just appeared to love gambling signs of husband, deep in which can not pull themselves out of the still need some other panacea to strengthen a little