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No matter after marriage, the couple is not happy, once they are also very much in love, just in the long marriage life, because of various conflicts, and changes, they walk, the heart is drifting apart, young, they are all heart in the life, and career, in order to the family, and work hard, just time to dilute all the love in each other's hearts, let The love in each other's hearts, into nothing, even if there is, there is not much, then this life, still happy? Together, the woman to the middle age, the real life of couples is like this, the statement is very realistic.
Ms. Hu 43 years old: get over it, without his love, I can also live a lifetime.
Women and men are different, on the forty-year-old phenomenon, the phenomenon of aging, it is more and more obvious, but the husband is different, he is as big as I am, but only like the appearance of the thirties, successful career, he has long betrayed the marriage, behind my back in the outside looking for more than one woman, I would have made a fuss with him before, to threaten him with a divorce, but when he really agreed to, I have given up, because I have to for their own! children and keep this family business.
After all, to have today, also have my hard work, how can I cheapen others? Now we live each other, do not interfere with each other, but the main savings at home, I hold, or can not let him outside too messy, although he is outside the woman, not with a true heart, but our feelings now, and almost so, just an empty shell, just get over it, without his love, I can also live a lifetime.
Ms. Yang 49 years old: life is neither ***, nor romance, we take each other as a companion
My husband and I from the initial lover, now become relatives, life is neither ***, nor romance, we take each other as a companion, the family meal every day I do, but after dinner, we will go for a walk together, in the mood for good! When we go to the square to square dance, activities, when exercise, body and mind are also pleasurable, after returning home, we go back to sleep in each room, because I like quiet, and my husband to snore at night.
So we are sleeping separately, although we do not have love in our hearts, but the feeling of this kind of companionship is also good, better than a person living strong, nothing, we will be together to talk about the sky, to express, their hearts on a certain matter of opinion, think of the child, call him, so that he came back to dinner, it is so simple, it is very plain.
Ms. Guo 56 years old: as if we are not a couple, instead of enemies, and now this home is just my place of food, clothing, shelter and transportation, but not at all warm
Our hearts, long ago, there is no love, and each other are very disgusted with each other, as if we are not a couple, instead of enemies, and even strangers are not as good as the bickering for so many years, and there has been no end, and sometimes I thought of divorce, but they are so old, and they are not as good as the other people.
Divorce is not home, with no difference, it would be better to just live, usually try to avoid him, out of sight, out of mind, want to find someone to talk to, go out to find neighbors, talk, want to look at the outside world, and they went on a group trip to travel, put their own mind, put open, and the mood is also a little more relaxed, and now this is just a home I live in the clothes and food, but it's not warm at all.
Conclusion: It seems that couples to middle age, many hearts have no love, just since they have been together for so many years, but also experienced a lot of wind and rain, and should cherish each other's lives, rather than each other two boredom, husband and wife life, although it has been very bland, but it is a true picture of the life of couples, said that the blandness is true, the two should not have forgotten the original intention, and did not properly run your marriage, to know! To be able to accompany each other to old age, is a very happy thing, you are already middle-aged, accompanied by the days in the gradual decrease, cherish each other and life, don't wait to lose, and then regret.