The biggest weakness of a second-married man is two, one is his ex-wife and the other is his own child. Tell me more about his ex-wife. Although divorced, the previous emotional ups and downs still exist. Although they are no longer husband and wife, they have a feeling closer than their relatives, which others can't surpass. It's really embarrassing to fall into such a relationship. If you have an argument with his ex-wife, you may say that you are not sensible, but in the end you can only suffer.
Then his children. As the saying goes, stepmother is hard to be. Even if you give him your heart, he still knows that you are not his real mother, and there is a gap between you and the generation gap. Moreover, he will think that you drove away his mother, which made him a child without maternal love. It is even more troublesome for you to discipline him at ordinary times. If the discipline is light, he will not listen. If you are disciplined, people will judge you. You will have a hundred arguments then. Even if you pay a lot, you won't get the corresponding return, and you can only suffer by yourself.
So, when you meet a man with a baby after his second marriage, you must think it over. Don't wait until you get married to regret it. It was unnecessary to go or stay at that time. You are in a dilemma. Just don't think he's nice to you. Feelings are not only the business of two people, but also the business of two big families. It is wise to think it over.