1
Best friend recently fell in love, hot love.
Rarely and I came out to eat a meal, talking about her boyfriend, is to eat, her cell phone is not put down, I inadvertently glanced at: the notes but the word baby.
"So meaty?"
I cocked my head, a few teases in my smile.
"Yah, just can't help but want to talk to him." The corners of her eyes were springy, her eyebrows were sweet and emotional.
After dinner, my girlfriend and I went to the movies together. I thought this always be able to put the phone down, but did not think, the movie opened five minutes before the phone, I heard my girlfriends said: "good, you don't worry, I will send the end time to you, I'm with Lu in the same time, I'll go back with her at that time." Then it was a slow hang up, but also the state of reluctance.
When watching the movie, I sometimes hilarious, sometimes excited and nervous, grabbed my best friend's hand, want to discuss a few sentences, but found that she glanced at the phone from time to time, between the look, in contrast, there are so many points absent-minded.
Because it's not with you, because there is something in your heart, so you can't get into it.
After watching the movie, we slowly walked out with the crowd, but did not want to, a turn of the head, is to see girlfriends smile nightmare like flowers.
Then walked quickly forward.
"How did you come?" And surprise and excitement.
Turns out her Prince Charming has appeared.
I, however, noticed that as soon as we met, the two had held hands.
"You two girls, am I not comfortable."
It was uneasy, but not uneasy about me, but uneasy about the beloved, I guess.
When you're in love, you just can't help but put the other person in your heart, and once the other person is out of your sight, you can't help but worry.
This is a subconscious reaction, but it is the best proof that you care about me.
2
Men and women seem to be in such a state when they first confirm their relationship.
Chatting late into the night also do not want to say goodbye, even if said goodbye but can not help but publish love.
It always feels like there's not enough time, and when you're not there, it just seems like there's something missing.
When I go out with my friends, I don't know why I always think of each other, this place is fun, next time I want to bring the other side to come, so things are delicious, next time I want to bring you to eat.
They always want to be with each other all the time, and they can't wait to see you every second they raise their heads.
Even so, it still feels inadequate.
At this moment, in addition to the physiological release of dopamine, hormonal proximity between each other, more, but because of the other carved in the heart.
Love a person, is this, unconsciously think of him, it seems that all the beautiful things in the world can be linked to each other.
Because he is the most beautiful existence in your heart.
Because it's too good to be true, you're always unsure.
3
The two of you, my sister and brother-in-law, have been married for ten years, and my little nephew is now in elementary school.
But I don't know why, but people who see the two of them say that they have a good relationship as a couple.
On one occasion I went to my sister's house for dinner, and there was a small detail during the meal that made me feel especially cozy.
My brother-in-law has always been the chef in the family, married for ten years, my sister is still in addition to the egg fried rice other than what can not do.
By the way, my brother-in-law is also quite happy, and he did not think of letting my sister learn how to cook, in his words: there is a family that can cook, this is enough.
When eating, my brother-in-law loves to drink a little wine, especially in the summer, he likes to match the crayfish and then drink some white wine, which is a great enjoyment of his life.
But the other day when my brother-in-law finished cooking, he accidentally hurt his hand.
The crayfish is a good thing to eat, but it's a bit of a pain in the ass to peel.
The day dinner, my sister ate one of their own, and then peeled one for my brother-in-law, I looked at the two of them, and suddenly realized that the original love is this kind of pattern, you sympathize with me, I take care of you, each other, snuggle up with each other, each other, but it is the most at ease posture.
4
After the hot love, more and more understanding between each other, and gradually entered the smooth period of love.
Subsequently, feel each other suitable, into the marriage hall, tea, oil and salt, family trivial, children, the elderly, life is no longer purely only two people get along with us.
It's just that, for some reason, taking care of each other seems to have become a habit in our daily lives.
Mutual to each other, seems to feel not mysterious, because each other became the most intimate people, even between each other, that love dopamine release, seems to be not in frequent.
But there are times when, looking at you for the two of us life, so hard, the heart has a kind of joy in the release.
Two people together for a long time, the children have, seriously, they can not distinguish, I am to you, in the end is love, or affection, can be accustomed to take care of each other, out of the house, will think of buying you a shirt, remember that you said you like the blue, so on the blue shirt special attention.
Thinking of you want to eat Peking duck, travel to Beijing, will remember to buy vacuum-packed Peking duck souvenirs, in fact, the flavor is not authentic, just want to bring you a taste.
Marriage in the most harmonious model, I am afraid that this is so, each other, accustomed to take care of each other, sometimes, this care often do not realize, unconsciously to do.
It is the habit, think of each other, and then give each other.
5
My grandmother has recently become obsessed with square dancing.
The old lady is more than seventy years old, but these days, are living a spirited life, every day at six o'clock in the morning, six o'clock in the evening, are rain or shine, is a rainy day, but also in the senior activities room dancing.
A twist of the waist, a swing of the hips, energetic, more than those in their fifties of the old grannies, more a stream of spirit.
Seriously, in the beginning, the grandmother to dance this square dance, our whole family is refused, after all, the age is not small, dance, this movement amplitude is too large, this accidentally sprained, can be how to be good.
The last decision to support the contrary is my grandfather, grandfather usually can be serious, always frowning, heard us this voice against the vote, but it is a hammer: "Activity activity body good, all the old bones, and then do not move, will not move."
Grandma heard this, a rare, but smiled open.
Only later, every time Grandma went to the dance, Grandpa was always watching and following along with a teacup.
He just sat there .
In the morning, he drank tea, stayed at the old people's home next to him, hummed children's songs from time to time, and then watched Grandma twisting the rice-planting songs there.
In the evening, they would just move a stool and sit in the square, seemingly in the cool, occasionally talking to the people next to them, but their eyes would always unconsciously look at the grandmother.
Then, at eight o'clock in the evening, the two of them were walking slowly home together.
We are very old, and between each other, there are no secrets left for a long time, our children have started their families, and now our granddaughters are so old.
When I was older, I still had a lot of worries about my children, my house, my money, and you. Just ah, still want to do some of their own favorite things, have to make life a little bit of hope, well, from youth, to the prime, to the old age, each other, stumble, in the end is to come together.
6
Dopamine is colliding when you are young.
In the prime of life they are harmonizing with each other.
In old age it's all about snuggling up to each other.
Too old to say those words, but it seems to be really realize that we two, together in this world time, in fact, is not much, so want to stay with each other, slowly walk through some time.
No teenage passion, a day does not see, such as three autumns.
No spirit in the prime of life, sparks flying, reckless collision.
In old age, more often than not, it seems to be the case, slowly and leisurely with each other to do some favorite things, simple, we walked together for so many years, a lot of words can not be said, but really put you in the heart.
7
The process of falling in love with a person seems to be like this, gradually put their own heart, slowly divided part of it to him.
When you are passionately in love, you are wholeheartedly in love, the whole world is you, a heart just short of engraving your name.
After the smooth half-hearted, you are still very important, is still my life in the indispensable, but we each other's life, there are some **** with the important people.
After the warmth of old age, we have too much to worry about in our lives, there are too many to let go, but only the two of us, or can not help, want to let each other do something happy.
Love in the end, but can not say out, just become a life in the most common small things.
Just one thing, you are in my heart, never leave, no matter when.
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