I remember a few years ago, a province's college entrance examination essay to "how to effectively manage the square dance" as the topic, which also caused a great deal of social concern. So, how to make a move against the enemy, effectively deal with the big mom's enduring "square dance spirit"?
The following teach you 3 tricks, teach, effectively deal with those who have nothing to do with the square dance to make noise of the mom.
One: tearing before it is too late
Not afraid of tearing face, as the saying goes, "tearing before it is too late", since the group of mothers in the country's boisterous governance "square dance" phenomenon is still shamelessly happy to twist the square dance, disturbing the normal life. You have a normal life.
At this time, no matter what the face is not face, directly to the front of the big mom to turn off the music, let them pay attention to this matter. It has completely affected your life.
This move is a little strong, of course, the way to pay attention to the right, do not just start to shut down the music, the first to go downstairs to go to the front of the amazons, righteously said said, at this time, to observe the scene of the amazons' reaction, if the amazons to accept your complaints, honestly shut down the music, back to their respective homes. That's another story, next time this group of big moms will certainly change a place to jump, but it will not affect you. You have achieved your goal.
So this first trick, you have to be in accordance with the situation, it may happen to what usually to chew the root of the tongue, do not suspect that the matter of the big moms. At this time you have to be a little bit of eyesight, to the big mother classified into two
1: to chew the root of the good mother
2: to square dance leisure mother
These two kinds of big mother are in the square dance, but in the use of the first small way can not be, you can be divided into these two kinds of big mother. You can also use the "cheeky" approach to deal with them effectively. Let them have no rules to follow, only to leave your line of sight.
Second: to raise the metaphorical suppression
I would like to explain the meaning of "to raise the metaphorical suppression", in short and concise is to praise the way and tone to inhibit the love of chewing on the root of the woman's broken mouth.
Women are a kind of horrible not fully evolved animals, in their eyes, what others do is news, and all are bad news, for example, the village widow Cuicui and single stick and how how to have a leg, the reason is to see the single stick and the widow Cuicui together in the well washed clothes. Whose son in the village didn't go to college because he didn't do his own laundry, whose family owed money on a house in the city and didn't do well. How odd this is! It's simply intolerable. I'm afraid that only rural women can dislike the sky and the earth, and dislike their parents.
At this time, don't be afraid to be disliked, you can use a novel way to dislike back.
Compliment them!
Praise them hard, praise them hard, praise what she says, preferably in front of her. Then pick her soft underbelly, pointing to praise, words in this and mean in the other, not to say that she, but catch her defects to say others, can be in the books, news, movies and television works. Let them know their weaknesses. But do not poke through, this time in the talk about the square dance thing, say they see in other places of the square dance mom things, form a contrast. And then at the end to talk about their square dance situation.
At this time, even if they do not listen to you, they will reflect in private. The phenomenon of square dancing that night, there is definitely a qualitative improvement.
Three: create chaos
Since the big moms in the street square dance, the property did not care about their charges, you can take their friends children pets and so on this time, downstairs shopping. To the location of the big moms to follow, there are pets the best, walking pets a strong dance, pets, after all, is not a person, sure to listen to the noise will be chaotic, messing up the chicken and dogs, so that the big moms have nowhere to dance.
If you are complained by the big moms, you can this time and dish out that they disturbed the people in the first place, but all a bit of quality will support your action.
They will also pay attention to the next time, do not make a big sound, the stop on the stop.
Finally, remember that square dancing is a passion for middle-aged and older women. Fitness and entertainment is the right of the big moms, as long as it does not disturb the people. It is best not to take the three extreme ways mentioned above, and if they are really disturbed by the square dance, then it is a different story, and it should be said or criticized.