However, there are still a group of friends who are confused or embarrassed before this festival, but they can't show their deep love for their father when they see all kinds of blessing news and activities on Father's Day. Because, I have never deliberately and obviously expressed my father on this festival, let alone said "Dad, I love you". Just a small thank you may make father and son or father and daughter feel embarrassed. I think there are still many such father-son and father-daughter relationships today.
There are probably two situations that make us reluctant to show our hearts to our fathers on Father's Day.
First, since I grew up with my father, it has been a mode of little communication. On the one hand, this situation may be caused by the personalities of both parties, on the other hand, it is also caused by the image of strict father. There is always nothing to say between my father and me. They love each other very much, but they never express it. I talk a lot with my mother, but even in my daily life, I have to think about what to say to my father in advance. My father never expresses his love for his children. Over time, such a fixed mode of getting along has been formed.
The second situation is more common in rural areas. Because the situation at home is not very good, and the family members get along with the traces of traditional countryside, they usually don't care about this festival at all. There may not be many children's birthdays, let alone these festivals. On the one hand, there is no money to do this, on the other hand, there is no such habit at all. This situation makes children and fathers completely indifferent to Father's Day, so there is nothing abnormal in the past, and no one will think there is anything abnormal.
So, is it wrong not to show love to your father on Father's Day?
I don't think so. Personality and habits are hard to change, especially children and fathers don't like to express their personality, and it is really difficult for them to express their love. As long as you have each other in your heart, love each other and put them into action, you can't expect too much.
On the other hand, however, we should know that expressing love is a way to bring us closer. Even though you may not be used to it, you can try to make the other person feel it on holidays or in daily life. We don't have to say "I love you", but we can say "you have worked hard", or we can usually call my father to ask if the work is going well and how is your health recently, or we can try to buy him something. You will find that dad will be really happy, even if it is not so obvious.