What do you imagine your life will be like in your old age?
When I talk to the moms and dads, I always say, "I don't want to help them with their kids. I'm working hard for my kids now, and then I'm going to help them with their kids, and then I'm going to have to do it again.
The moms will always advise: you do not give people children, people will complain about you in the future, you see those who live in the nursing home, not moving to be abused, how miserable!
In the future, the child will grow up to become a family, the situation is unknown, at least now many families are the old man to help bring up the child.
Every time you take your child out, you will find that most of the children are followed by their grandparents or grandma and grandpa, and at least one old man is standard for a family.
Yes, young people have young people's helplessness: the pressure of life, family expenses, the elderly do not take children, can not afford to live, can not afford to raise children, if the child and then enrolled in one or two classes of interest, it is simply more can not afford to live!
Elderly people not only help bring children, but also young people with money.
There is a baby in the neighborhood called Lele, who is helped by his grandparents, and his mom and dad don't have a high salary, and every month his grandfather will take his pension to subsidize.
Perhaps the old man at home also often read, the little guy every time out to say: my father and mother work to earn less, all rely on my grandfather subsidies!
This is not a small number of elderly people, after all, retired in addition to skating birds, dancing and nothing else, to help take care of the baby, and incidentally, the use of pensions to the grandchildren to pay a tuition fee, get a living expenses.
On the matter of elderly people taking care of their children, different people have different views!
Sacrificing the freedom of the later years to help their children with their children, the young people are happy and the family is happy!
"I retired a long time ago, and I come over every day to help my daughter with her kids, we don't live together, my daughter commutes to work, I commute to work, and when she comes back, I go!"
Mo Mo's grandma regularly comes over every day to take care of the kids, and has been insisting on it for 4 years, and now she's getting over it, and her grandson is already in kindergarten.
For the matter of taking care of children, compared to other old people's complaints, Mo Mo's grandma is willing to take it easy:
Why not take care of the children? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world!
A lot of elderly people to help with the baby is to hold this idea, the heart of the children, in the children have the need to help children through.
There are also old people who say:
You should have your own free time in your later years!
This part of the elderly on the self-pursuit is relatively high, the late retirement hope to have time to do something of their own, young time to dedicate their time to the children, the family, to the late retirement, finally a little bit of their own time, to enjoy their old age.
For this part of the idea of the elderly many people have expressed support: the first half of their lives are in the family to pay, the late years should always have their own time.
Happiness is like drinking water, warm and cold, in fact, whether the elderly to help young people with children is the same, like the children of the elderly, to help young people with children, the heart is also happy.
The elderly who want to spend their twilight years with ease, will also live a tasty life in their old age.
Regardless of whether the elderly with children, young people can not take this as a standard of filial piety to the elderly.
Some years ago, the Internet is particularly popular sentence:
You do not care about my small, I do not raise you old!
The whole network is following the trend: if the mother-in-law does not help with the baby, the future will not care about the mother-in-law.
But have you ever thought about one thing: whether you manage your mother-in-law or not, you can't change the fact that she is the child's grandmother, and can't change the fact that she is your husband's own mother, even if you don't care, you can't interfere with your husband to do his duty in front of his in-laws.
The elderly with children is a choice, a right, not an obligation. Of course, young people can also refute: the husband filial parents is an obligation, daughter-in-law does not have this obligation.
If this is the perception, then keep a bowl of soup away from your in-laws, and of course, you can keep your husband away from your parents.
Just like papi sauce: a few years of marriage, do not have to see each other's parents, New Year's home to go back to their own homes, each looking for their own mother!
But most people can not do this kind of spontaneity, so for the old man can help with the baby this matter, the young people should give more understanding, after all, everyone is an independent personality, have the right to choose.
Your family is the elderly with children? What do you think about the matter of the elderly with children?
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