Aren't these pictures a true portrayal of mothers every day?
After watching the video, I almost forgot that I was once proud as a fairy.
On the other hand, I look at myself now: plain face, wide and simple clothes cover up my deformed figure, get up early in the morning to finish my children and rush to work anxiously; I can't wait to fly home with wings after work Is this really what I want?
My ideal life:
You can go to work with your husband, get off work together, go shopping together, cook together, watch TV together, and help your children with their homework together. After a busy day, I can hug and sleep.
No all-night party; No pig friends and dog friends; No unnecessary entertainment; My husband won't leave me alone at home to face all the trivial housework; I won't let myself face those helpless or flustered things alone. .......
Yes, there are many family ideals. These are just my simplest wishes. However, in my seemingly simple wish, there is always an unattainable height!
I once read an article explaining what a true "father loves a mountain", which is ironic.
Why use "mountain" to describe father's love? Because my father is really like a mountain, standing still!
When a child cries, there is basically nothing wrong with calling him "mother" or "wife"; Not to mention the child still pees, hungry and sleepy. The so-called father is nothing more than a giant baby who gave up breastfeeding.
Men always think that it is natural for men to be outside and women to be inside. Then, excuse me, did you build a mountain for me outside your house?
Professional women still have the right to lose their temper, while stay-at-home mothers seem to have been deprived of the right to lose their temper repeatedly.
If you compare work with family, it will never be easier to take care of a family than to deal with work, let alone a working mother who holds several jobs.
They all say "being a mother is difficult". I used to be a fairy who couldn't unscrew the bottle cap, but after I was upgraded to a mother, it was not a problem to hold a baby in my left hand, carry a cart in my right hand and carry a schoolbag weighing several kilograms.
Obviously, I have a sound family, but I am very sad to live a widowed life. The so-called husband and father have become furnishings and the fuse of all contradictions.
I don't know if you still remember a hot topic, "What would you do if I gave you 1 10000 a month, but I didn't see my husband for a month?"
The unanimous response of netizens is "Don't say 1 10000, I will post it backwards, as long as I don't see him".
Male compatriots, are you excited? Is this really what you want?
What you see is not as good as your personal experience, so you can deeply understand the bitterness.
Men always find it easy to bring up children. Housework is nothing more than sweeping the floor and washing clothes. They will never understand where women suffer and why women complain.
Let's talk about children first. They only cried when they were young. Adults can only judge what is wrong with their children by guessing. This is their first time as parents. Why does dad think mom can handle everything? These all need to learn from each other. No one is born a parent.
When children grow up, they can run and jump, have their own opinions and argue with adults. Dad threw the child's problems to his mother again because he didn't have the patience to educate him, but he didn't know that his mother was close to the brink of collapse again and again. Is it only the mother's responsibility to educate her children?
When children make mistakes at school, their fathers either ignore them or beat them with sticks, which puts their mothers in a more embarrassing position. If the mother is strict, it is vicious. If the mother defends it, it will make a "loving mother lose more children." Can both husband and wife reach an agreement on rational education?
Everyone is in the workplace except housework, and everyone needs to face the pressure of work. Why is mom busy coming home, and dad comes back like a corpse? Do you really think it's easy for a stay-at-home mom to be busy at home all day?
What I hate most is that when I come home from work to help with housework and say that I am as tired as a worm, a friend of pig and dog calls me, and I immediately become a dragon. These people are not really tired, just lazy cancer. When I meet this kind of person, I think every woman has beaten the other person into a pig's head for more than 1000 times.
Guys, can we have a snack? Your parents-in-law gave you their precious daughter in the hope that you can support each other, care for each other and treat each other like guests, instead of making you a servant.
A happy family should be harmonious and warm, not full of resentment.
"Happy wife, happy life", very fluent and easy to understand English, tells the true meaning of family happiness, and a happy wife can make life comfortable.
"Respect your man, respect your span", men are respected, and marriage is strong. However, don't forget that a man who knows how to love and respect his wife will be respected by his wife instead of asking others to respect you.
Close parental relationship can give children a sense of stability, satisfaction, stable mood and optimistic attitude. Everything, everything is interactive.
Look back at yourself, whether you have given your wife enough love and warmth, and whether you have been waiting for you when she needs you most; Do you fulfill your father's responsibility and try not to miss every moment of your child's growth?
Being a family is fate. In this encounter, you love her desperately, and she will love you desperately. If you become her armor, she can live and die with you!