"Should I choose to be a full-time mom for the sake of my children?" I believe that many people have pondered this question in their lives: should they take care of their children full-time or let their in-laws help them? Different people have different views on this question.
Some people believe that it is difficult to be a man and even more difficult to be a woman.
When you go out to earn money, you are not close to your children; when you don't go out to earn money, you don't have money to spend.
Many mothers-in-law bring up their children, mentioning grandpa, grandma, and dad the most, and seldom mentioning mom in front of the children.
Not so for grandmothers, the most common thing they talk about is that dads and moms are out there earning a lot of money and saving up for their children's schooling! The most important thing is that the mother and father love their children.
The fact that the children are left in the hands of the elderly while the parents go out to earn money sounds good, but the children are actually missing their mother's companionship, which is hard to buy even if you have a thousand dollars!
It is true that the mother accompanies the child to grow up, gives him enough care and love, witnesses every happy moment of him, and plays a vital role in shaping the child's character.
But perhaps in the heart of a full-time mom, there will always be a scar - her own career.
For full-time moms, it's not just the job that's lost, but also the most basic of connections, work ethic, and so on. Even if God has mercy on them and they find a satisfying job, the lost time and opportunity will not come back.
Possibly the same batch of colleagues and close friends, now most of them are retired, their children are raised by the grandmother, compared to the full-time mothers will probably be hard to escape regret and blame.
If you don't quit your job, your quality of life will improve, your children's education will be better, and you'll be able to do the same thing as your sisters -- run to the park in the morning, go to the dessert in the afternoon, and practise square dancing in the evening.
But if you don't quit your job, who's going to take care of your children?
For many full-time moms, it's really a dilemma to choose! Full-time moms might also bemoan their careers, and if they could do it all over again, they would probably find a balance between their careers and their children. Of course, the balance always favors the kids, and that can't be changed in any way!
In order for the child to have a better life, for the career of a busy mother is great;
In order for the child to have a better companion, for the family quietly conduct, for decades as a day mother is also great.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
Whether inside or outside the home, mothers and fathers are the same, are the backbone of the family and the backbone. But no matter what is given to the children is only limited time or simple material, can not lack of love and companionship for them, which is the most important for their growth, once missed will be difficult to make up.