The 80's music talent Huang Shujun in recent years by virtue of "China's Got Talent", "Mamma Mia" and other programs to become popular again, become a professional judge tutor.
Huang Shujun said he is very confident in his marriage, age is not a problem, he has a "teenage wife", and hopes to become a "teenage husband" through micropigmentation. On the day of the event scene of Huang Shujun relative to ordinary people of the same age, facial skin is indeed smoother, there is a female fan wearing a short skirt on the stage to offer flowers, Huang Shujun happy to smile, not afraid of his wife jealousy and beauty hot embrace. From the talented musician, to the "non-stop" talent show judges; from the 12-year-old "problem children", to the 46-year-old new baby daddy - is the parents, wife and children, gave Huang Shujun It is his parents, wife and children who have given Huang Shu Jun the nourishment of life, helping him to successfully adapt to his new role at every important stage of his life and to have the courage to continue to move forward into the unknown world.
Son treats me as his mother
In March, his son came into the world two weeks earlier than his due date, and Huang Shujun was a little bit panicked, but more surprised. He not only witnessed the whole process of the "miracle" in the delivery room, but also cut the umbilical cord for his son. Previously, Huang Shujun had heard many friends mentioned, babies are wrinkled when they are born, will be very ugly, but unexpectedly, his son is much better than he imagined, "crying especially loud. Even the nurse said, "Oh, crying so loudly, this child is going to be a singer later, right?" -- The couple was in a U.S. hospital at the time, and no one around them knew of Huang's status as a musician.
In order to let his wife sit at ease, Huang Shujun simply took a month and a half of vacation, but also focus on sitting up the "month", "probably you can imagine and bring children related to everything, I have done. Although the family invited a professional sister-in-law, but most of the "fine work" by his own hands, such as breastfeeding the child, whether during the day or in the middle of the night, the new father a day at least to personally "serve" his son two meals, "usually more in the middle of the night. "Usually in the middle of the night is a little more, as long as the little child movement, I will wake up". "In the past, when I was on an airplane or eating in a restaurant, if there was a small child around, I would be impatient," recalled Huang Shujun, "compared to a younger time, I now have more patience, the whole person is more calm, very happy to do these things." Perhaps because he got married and had children after the age of 45, Huang Shujun cherishes the opportunity to be a father.
The moment a baby arrives, no one knows whether he or she is well-behaved or naughty, quiet or noisy. Fortunately, Huang Shujun's son is a know-it-all baby who doesn't like to make a fuss, "He almost never cries inexplicably, and if he does, it must be a wet diaper or he's hungry. Very good to bring." Huang Shujun affectionately called his son as "small yellow", now 8 months old small yellow can already follow the parents to run around, so that the new parents most assured is that his son will never wantonly cry in public, so that everyone is embarrassed, "perhaps it is true, as they say, my child is more spiritual? " During the conversation, the corners of Huang Shujun's mouth can not help but rise, as if "in the eyes of the lover out of the West", in the eyes of the parents, their own children will always be the world's most adorable little angel.
Little Huangzi can't speak, but he can recognize people, "my son's reaction to see me is always very intense, very clear that I'm his father", even if Huang Shujun for work, a week did not go home, but as long as he appeared in front of the house, hear the footsteps of little Huangzi will be issued while "ah ah". "ah ah" sound, while trying to break away from the embrace of others, tilting his body towards the direction of Huang Shujun, he himself described this state as "big yellow small yellow, look at each other two don't get tired of".
Whenever this happens, Huang Shujun's wife will always complain as if she is petulant: "It's all because when I was sitting in my month, you always breastfeed yourself, maybe now the little kid thinks you are his mother!"
Wife is two rounds younger than me
Huang Shujun's wife is named Zhang Jingfang, Chinese-American, also in California, the United States, studying for a master's degree in medicine. The acquaintance of the two can only be described as destiny.
The end of the previous year, 21-year-old Zhang Jingfang on behalf of the United States to Fuzhou to participate in the talent competition, a song is not yet sung, the judge Huang Shujun made a comment: "the beginning of the time, quite a distinctive odor, but in the rhythm of the mastery of the problem, the whole process makes me feel that it is the hope, disappointment, hope, disappointment... ..." Mr. Shu Jun's comment was unforgiving, but Zhang Jing Fang who was eliminated still politely left a message on the official website of the competition to thank all the staffs, and specially wrote a paragraph to the "commenting judge":" I hope that next time I have a chance to sing a complete song for you." Huang Shujun saw it and naturally replied to her, and she then replied to him. "In fact, the competition site, far away, I can only see a beautiful figure, and then feel that this girl is very polite", who knows in the network one to two, both sides of the heart for each other
Dating 3 months later, the two lightning-fast marriage. Huang Shujun said afterward: "obedient, simple, gentle and kind, miss this girl, a lifetime can not find. Before I met her, I didn't feel that I had to find someone to live with, but after I met her, it was wonderful, she was born to be my wife." The day before the marriage license, as Zhang Jingfang teased Huang Shujun has not yet proposed to his own, they still have the opportunity to repent, Huang Shujun will pull her around shopping, the results of the day in a variety of different scenarios of the wedding proposal for more than twenty times.
Couple get along with the need to sympathize
The couple has no outsiders imagine the so-called "generation gap" between the small to the taste of food, big to the attitude towards people and things, the two are always the same opinion. "I'm afraid I'm exaggerating, people think I'm bragging, but the fact is that in the process of us getting along, all the age-related issues will become a kind of fun", for example, his wife will often accompany Huang Shujun after marriage to run circulars, every time in the background to see and Huang Shujun same time when the star will not be able to help but marvel: "Great, I can see the ancient people!" Huang Shujun will not feel disgusted, but also can't help but ask her: "So your husband is also an ancient?" Once, she pointed at Qi Qin and asked him, "Is that the singer who sang 'Little Bird'?" Later, when she had the chance to meet Zhao Chuan, he patiently explained to her, "Look, he's the one who sings 'Little Bird'."
For Mrs. Huang, Huang Shujun's past and his career is a completely new world, she often ask him all kinds of questions, and Huang Shujun in the process of answering for his wife, also as if to retrace his own first half of life, resulting in a new sense of enlightenment.
When the two of them disagree, Huang Shujun's first reaction is: "Ask yourself, what was it like when you were her age?" Every time he thinks this way, he gives up his insistence and ideas without any obstacles, "I was somehow a mess when I was at her age, and although she is still innocent and lively and beautiful, she has actually matured a lot more than I did back then." When Huang Shujun was young, he always loved to associate struggles, pursuits and suffering together, but at this stage, nothing is more important than being happy. He would always ask her, "This thing, if happy, go for it." In his view, getting along between husband and wife is a process of sympathy, and there is absolutely no desire to compete for victory or defeat, "It has nothing to do with age, there are so many spiteful couples who in the beginning seemed to others to be of comparable age and talent, but if the two people don't have that kind of tacit understanding, each of them, even if they are good, can't be happy together."
I have a "teenage" mother
If you have seen Huang Shujun's mother, it will suddenly realize why he chose his wife, just because they are all "innocent and lively and beautiful". Huang mother is 72 years old, as a housewife all her life, in the words of Huang Shujun, "she is a young girl who never grows up, and the period of girlhood is as long as 60 years", in Huang Shujun's mind, his mother is a good mother who loves her children very much and takes care of her children, "but she never tells any big truth, but says something about life and life". great reasoning, all of them are talking about some daily bits and pieces of life." Huang's father is an ordinary civil servant, and his wife is 7 years apart, "all his life, he loved his wife, he let his mother be a person who has not been suppressed, and spoiled her like a child."
Huang Shujun logically believes that "mother" should be his own mother and wife, until he became a judge of the reality show "Mamma Mia", his definition of "mother" has changed! --Most of the mother contestants in the program have a rough past, they sing songs on the stage about the disharmony with their husbands or the unhappiness with their families, which made him discover that there are so many different kinds of "mothers" in the world. What touched Huang Shujun the most is that "they all have a **** the same point, that is, there is still the pursuit of life."
Huang Shujun said, we always think it is very simple to sing a song, but for the mothers in "Mamma Mia", that short few minutes is an exit in life, a chance to prove their value.
My dad "can't stop asking questions"
White Shujun was already a "problem child" when he was 12 years old - there were endless questions every day, and in the three to four decades of his life, Huang Shujun has been a "problem child", and he has been a "problem child". In the past thirty to forty years, Huang's father has been "struggling" every day to find ways to answer his son's wild questions, and has almost never been overwhelmed by his son's questions.
In Huang Shujun's eyes, his father was as patient with himself as he was with his mother. For example, about "should you drink milk", his father spent 10 years to tell his son, the benefits of drinking milk; Another example, when Huang Shujun was 30 years old, he still did not know what he was doing, he asked his father: "How smart do you think I am? What can I do in the end?" In the face of such an abstract question, his father surprisingly can also answer in a fatuous way: "The bigger the thing you are going to do, the later you will know what you are going to do."
Sometimes, his father would also take the initiative to "find" problems for Huang Shujun. He still remembers that he signed a record label as a singer that year, and when he came home, his father magically took out a can of facial cleanser, "Ah Di, you need to wash your face with this, it's good for your skin." In order to help his son, his father would go so far as to silently care about the artists' maintenance tips.
"Until three years ago, he finally began to answer out," Huang Shujun on this very "sad", "and then I realized that I was young when I asked a lot of questions, in fact, my father could not answer out, just because he felt that as a father, he must give his child an answer." Huang Shujun thanked his father for never letting himself feel frustrated, nor would he perfunctorily say, "Don't ask nonsense!" Because for a child, the answer to a question is never the point, whether a parent chooses to face his or her son or daughter's question with a positive or negative attitude is the key.
Huang Shujun will treat his children along the lines of how his parents treated themselves, "I plan to be friends with my child from the age of three instead of father and son. I won't force-feed him anything, in the future we may all be commuting to the moon, what can we teach him?"
A beautiful marriage
On March 20, 2011, Huang Shujun and Sophia Zhang, registered their marriage in the United States.
For the beautiful girl, Huang Shujun commented, "She is completely the girl of my dream, even more than I imagined, can use my 'What Virtue and What Ability' lyrics 'beautiful and kind, smart and simple, affectionate and stubborn' to describe her, I'm very lucky to find her. "
Huang Shujun in microblogging message: "Yes, I this dust, has settled. Whether it is the same cry or the same laugh, I thank everyone for their blessings and instructions. May the future, even if the road is long, but also do not forget the sweet honey of the beginning. With one voice, I give thanks! "Calling all, he has since stepped into a new phase of his life.