In the process of square dance, I got to know my partner. This partner is usually knowledgeable and has certain accomplishments in photography.
In life, dance partners often take pictures of Aunt Zhao with a camera. It is precisely because the partners usually learn the knowledge of photography that they can always take photos of Aunt Zhao very well, which also attracts Aunt Zhao's attention.
In the normal process of understanding, two people have a certain affection for each other.
Not long after, Aunt Zhao's other half confessed to Aunt Zhao and said to Aunt Zhao that after we live together, I will shoot you with my camera every day.
Aunt Zhao asked, you have your own hobbies every day, so what should I do after I marry you?
As a result, Aunt Zhao's dance partner replied that the only task for you to marry me is to take care of me and this family, and you don't need to do anything.
It is precisely because of this sentence that Aunt Zhao was very angry on the spot and said that she was married, not looking for a nanny job.
As for Aunt Zhao's point of view, I personally think it is really a rare awakening. After all, many 56-year-old women want to find a similar man. We must learn from Aunt Zhao's reluctant attitude.
Marriage is paid by both parties, and housework and child care are not the only things for the woman. Seeing this, I believe many women will have many of the same feelings. In marriage, most women play the role of taking care of their children while doing housework. Although the husband seems to be busy making money every day, he is completely a shopkeeper after returning home, and taking care of the children can't help, let alone doing housework.
It is precisely because of this atmosphere that many young people now see through this marriage model, which leads to many women's longing for marriage no longer.
In fact, whether it is Aunt Zhao or any woman in our life, we must think clearly when choosing marriage. If marrying a person will become a free nanny, then the marriage is not a marriage, but an employment relationship without a labor contract.
Real marriage is what both sides pay, so as to appear equal. If only one person undertakes everything unilaterally, marriage loses its meaning.