Characteristics of a petty man:
1. He loves to calculate. This kind of man can't afford to suffer at all, and rarely puts himself in others' shoes. His own interests are above all else. Even if his own interests are satisfied, he will not share the benefits with others. He has to keep all the benefits himself. Just take it.
2. Care about every detail. A man with this kind of character, whether it is money or dealing with others, is afraid that he will suffer a loss and not get any advantage, and he will clearly calculate even a few dollars with you. He has the right to do everything, he has the final say, and he will argue with you over trivial matters. He can't win over you with words, and he will never give up!
3. Narrow-minded and likes to hold grudges. Such men lack sunshine in their bones, and tolerance and tolerance are never in their dictionary. They are very concerned about other people's evaluation of them and cannot tolerate other people's bad remarks or even slander about them. Otherwise, "it is never too late for a gentleman to take revenge." They will remember your every word and deed towards them and wait for the opportunity to take revenge on you! At this time, it is not an exaggeration to describe them as sinister and cunning!
The main reasons why men are petty are as follows:
First, lack of confidence.
Worrying that their girlfriend will be liked by others or that their girlfriend will leave them is the psychological state of many petty men, so they care about everything.
Second, there is not enough sense of security.
Lack of self-confidence is fundamentally a lack of inner security and a lack of psychological stability, which requires constant filling by external things.
Third, the personality is not independent enough.
The boundary between oneself and others is unclear because the personality has not matured to the level it should have. In intimate relationships, it is more necessary to seamlessly connect mixed relationships to prove one's existence and value. .