0 1 Retired teachers spend money desperately, either to buy this or that!
Teacher Zhang has been retired for three years, and has a retirement salary of several thousand yuan every month, so he can eat and drink by himself. Both sons are married, and neither of them lives near. They usually get together for dinner when they are busy.
But when the children are away, he sometimes feels bored. When some old friends got together, they organized Artest Jichuan Group to enrich their retirement life.
Then everyone agreed to go to the park to practice Tai Chi every day, which made Teacher Zhang feel that life was much better. I need to buy some clothes in order to practice Tai Chi. Teacher Zhang usually doesn't surf the internet much, so he asks his son to help. At first, my son didn't say anything, but later he bought a sword practice. My son says these things are useless, and so on.
In fact, it adds up to less than 1000 yuan. Teacher Zhang pays for Tai Chi, and everyone pays 800 yuan. At that time, my son said it was better to save some delicious food for himself.
In addition, he bought clothes later, which made Mr. Zhang feel very uncomfortable. He earns his own money, so why not spend money on the hobby of old age? I was depressed for a long time and almost got sick.
Actually, it's really not worth getting angry about. Don't say that parents don't spend their son's money, even if they do, they should. How much did it cost parents to buy toys and snacks when they were young? Now that they are old, they occasionally have a hobby that their children should support.
However, every family has its own abilities. Since Mr. Zhang has his own retirement salary, it is understandable to spend his own money. Don't worry about the true ability to be a child.
I have been taking care of my daughter for three years, and I want to travel abroad.
The aunt downstairs was a unit worker when she was young, and her salary was not low, but she had five insurances and one gold, so the children didn't have to worry about it.
After she retired, she took care of her daughter for three years. At that time, my daughter's mother-in-law just had a little son who wanted to take the college entrance examination and couldn't take care of it.
In three years, the child has grown up and can go to kindergarten, and the daughter and mother-in-law can also take care of the child. Aunt went home by herself, and finally she could relax. She plans to travel abroad with her boss.
When they were young, they were busy with work and children. The old couple always wanted to go abroad and never had a chance. Now that she is finally free, she has signed up for the senior citizens to go abroad.
She went to Thailand the year before last, and brought some mangoes to her neighbors when she came back. Whenever she talks about traveling abroad, she is very happy. She said that she saw a shemale who was more beautiful than some girls, and that the hot and sour soup they ate was delicious.
Last year, I planned to sign up for Korea. My daughter said that South Korea belongs to young people. The purpose of most people is to buy cosmetics, and the elderly are tired and sleepy. There's really nothing interesting.
If you are not careful, you will be cheated by other people's tour guides, telling you to buy this and that, saying that other people's parents bought a bunch of supplements. Aunt didn't make it in the end, but when other friends came back from there and talked about what was interesting, she didn't want to talk about it.
Everyone goes out for different purposes, has different moods and sees different things. The old man just wants to go out and have a look. For example, look at what people eat, look at their dressing styles, and taste the local customs.
The purpose of spending money is to open your eyes and have fun. If you are afraid that your parents will be cheated, you can make preparations in advance, such as what you can buy and what you can't buy.
People who have lived all their lives, their parents are human and have their own judgments. As long as what you say is reasonable, they should also consider it. Blocking things left and right will make old people uncomfortable.
Besides spending money, he will do what he can. After all, he will do whatever it takes.
I like square dance, and it's not shameful to go dancing every day!
Ms Liu used to work in a bank. After retirement, her welfare benefits are good. She can travel around and have better hobbies. However, she fell in love with square dance, and the more she danced, the happier she became. A group of old ladies organized a dance team at the gate of the community.
She has only one son who has just been married for three years and lives with her. Usually the young couple get off work, and Ms. Liu is responsible for the hygiene and cooking at home. As long as the son and daughter-in-law prepare dinner before going to work, she will go dancing after dinner.
Sometimes my son washes the dishes at home, and sometimes my daughter-in-law washes them. I don't know when it started. My son often whispers to her that dancing every day disturbs people and affects others' rest, which is not good.
At first, Ms. Zhang did not take it too seriously. She said that I do manual work at 8: 30 every night on time, and I was very active for that hour. Who else can it affect? Who goes to bed so early?
Later, my son simply hid her dancing stereo. She asked several times before her son said that colleagues in the same community knew that his mother was the leader of the square dance and had a bad influence.
Because of this, Ms. Zhang didn't talk to her son for several days. In fact, the so-called influence is just that the public is right and the old woman is right. There are more young people in the community, and it is noisier outside than they like at night.
But old people, do you have other hobbies, dancing and stretching? We really shouldn't try our best to stop it without affecting others' rest. Square dance is also a kind of exercise, which can strengthen the body and stretch the bones and muscles. Old people often take part in sports, at least they can exercise.
Whether spending money on hobbies, traveling or dancing in square dance, it is just a form of old age.
Just like us young people, we are either chasing dramas or brushing our mobile phones. This is also a way of life, but only if we can live a healthy life without affecting others.
Old people have these desperate things to do, which just shows their great love for life, and their children had better leave it alone.
French writer Stendhal said that being respected when you are old is the best privilege of human spirit.
Old age should not be lonely because of old age. They need friends, socializing and psychological communication. As children, we can give the best filial piety and support. It doesn't matter how much we can spend on our parents. The important thing is not to give him a bad look.
We give more respect and live a better life.
The greatest luck in life is that it is not too late. There is a saying that the tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop. If you wait until your parents are gone, you will regret it, and it will be too late.
It is better to leave them alone and talk less when they are alive. The happiness of parents is our greatest filial piety.