He, as it happens, also likes me.
But I haven't said yes to him yet - he'd have to give me a confession with roses, a confession gift, and take me down to the restaurant so I'd agree to be his girlfriend. So I made a deal with him that nowadays he can book his girlfriend first (the "booking" of engagement) and then confess to me when the school is unblocked.
Dreaming at night, I became his wife. After waking up, I realized that there was drool all over my pillow, and after wiping it off, I snuck a smile and lay down on my bed and started fantasizing about ......
If I became someone's wife, then I would definitely put myself first. I would invest in myself, become beautiful and good, so that my husband would love me more, so that he would have no reason to dislike me.
I will go to see the customs of many places, I will read books written by many people, and through this way, I will have a perfect independent personality with my own career, hobbies, and circle of friends, and I won't change my dreams for anyone.
I will protect my girlish heart, I will do my nails, I will buy nice clothes, I will put a few dolls on my bed.
If I were to become someone's wife, I would be very exclusive and grounded. One day a male coworker would show me favor and want to give me a ride home, I would tell him with a big smile that my husband is picking me up today. I won't hide all my femininity just because I'm married, but I'll turn down every possible fling for his sake.
I will **** enjoy the location with him, even if I am out late with my sisters, I will make sure not to worry him. I will travel with my girlfriends all over the world, but I will definitely bring him local specialties. I have my own world and will also clear a clean and tidy place in my world to put him gently there, I will give him a sense of security and will tell him how much I like him.
If I were to become someone's wife, I would make our time together new and comfortable. I would hit a lot of places with my husband and plan together to do different things in different places.
He and I would have different hobbies, for example, I'd be in the living room watching TV while he's in his room playing on his computer, but it wouldn't matter, he'd be there with me to catch up on a show that doesn't interest him in the slightest, and I'd be willing to spend time with him to watch a ballgame that I can't even understand.
I won't stop my husband from playing games, I won't rush him home when he's partying with his brothers, and I won't force him to watch Legend of Zhen Huan with me, I'll give him some free space. I will give him some freedom. He is the boy I chose, so he must be the one who has the heart and knows the bottom line. I will let him do what he likes, and won't ask him to do what he doesn't want to do.
I won't peek at my husband's cell phone, but I wish he would tell me the password to his cell phone - it's the security he gives me. I wouldn't stop him from watching videos of beautiful women, but I would secretly tell him I was jealous. I trust him not to mess around with other girls, I trust his loyalty to me, and I trust his character.
I will find the right way to communicate. I won't express my love for him like "Linglong dice and red beans", I will be more direct and say "I don't know if I love you".
When I'm angry, I don't get hysterical, I don't try to calm myself down, I calm down first, then I lose my temper, I tell him why I'm angry, I tell him what I mind.
When he prepares a little surprise for me, I will act like I'm extra, extra happy, because I know he doesn't have to prepare a gift for me, he's only giving me a gift because he loves me, and for that reason, I need to give him a positive, positive response so he'll be happy.
If I became someone's wife, I would definitely be financially independent. I am very much against becoming a housewife myself, and I need to be able to support myself with my salary at least.
I love an even-keeled love and I will not grovel to anyone. I want to work hard so that I can go wherever I want and do whatever I want, and I don't need to look at my husband or my mother-in-law - I've often heard of such instances of having to look at my husband or my mother-in-law because I'm broke.
I don't want to be in charge of my husband's paycheck, I don't have that kind of time. My husband and I would definitely get a bank card together and put some money in it every month, but of course he would have to put in more than me.
If I were to become someone's wife, I would get my days in order. I would learn to cook and take turns with my husband every day, and if I didn't want to cook by myself one day, the two of us would go out for a meal together at one of the restaurants downstairs. We have to have a big cleanup once a week, and the vase could use a little fresh flower (preferably from my husband) every now and then. The cross stitch hanging on the wall is my first piece of artwork, and on the balcony is my better half hanging out the laundry. The trash in the house is remembered to be taken every night before I go for a walk after dinner.
I pursue romantic love and long for a stable family. I will try to buy a house, do not need a large area, the location can be more remote, can not be in the city center, but the traffic must be more convenient, the neighbors should be more harmonious, downstairs there must be supermarkets and restaurants, not far away from the best subway (even if it is the end of the subway station I do not mind).
When he and I are full of gray hair, I will hold hands with him and walk on the road, around the neighbors I already know all the neighbors, I will take my old man to dance with the square, but also to buy a bicycle, he sat in front, I put my arm around his waist and sat in the back.
If I were to become someone's wife, I would work on my relationship with the man's relatives and friends.
I will respect his parents and relatives very much, I will treat his parents as my own family, I can also be pampered in front of them, and I will also cry and spit out with them that my husband is a bad cook, but I won't say any of my husband's shortcomings (I don't think that being a bad cook is a shortcoming), and I won't brag about myself all the time in front of his parents because I know that his parents are more concerned with my attitude towards my husband and my character education. I know that his parents are more interested in my attitude towards my husband and my character upbringing.
At the same time, I will give him face in front of his friends, I will be a little birdie, will also listen to the words, all the grievances will not let his friends know, if he wants to have dinner with his friends, I will give him his pocket money to support the scene.
If I were to become someone's wife and "unfortunately" have children, I would insist on protecting my "childishness".
I never hated the idea of having a baby, but I dreaded it, and my parents thought I was just afraid of the pain, but I was more than that. I am afraid of losing my freedom, afraid of becoming a "child's mother", afraid of having to "motherhood" ...... If I were to get pregnant in the future, I would eat well while I was pregnant, If I were to become pregnant in the future, I would eat well, exercise and take care of my skin while I'm pregnant. I would enroll in a postnatal restoration class in advance and ask my husband to read more books on parenting. My mother will come to take care of me and stay with me during my monthly period. My friends would come from far and wide to visit me and would go shopping and watch movies with me. I would say to my husband before I was wheeled into the delivery room: come see me first after the birth.
If the child is healthy and grown up, I will pretend to be soft in front of the child, and I will tell him/her: I am the same as him/her, I will not give way to him/her, and I can intervene but never get involved in his/her affairs. Of course, bringing up a child is definitely not just for me.
When he and I are in our seventies, my kids will give me money to travel with my old partner and take the same paths we took when we were young ......
Thinking too far ahead, maybe think about a few years down the road-. -I can do without the wedding, but I want a beautiful wedding dress, and he and I can keep the money from the wedding to go on a wedding trip to a dozen cities, or to all those contiguous countries in Europe, and maybe because of this trip we become travel bloggers ......
Wow! ...... I'm only nineteen, I can look at the matter at hand first - I like you.