Many times, even if you are tired and upset, you can only struggle, dare not stop to rest, and can't enjoy the scenery along the way.
It is said that there are three tiredness in life: work can't be finished, it can't be said, and no one understands. The world of adults is often full of physical fatigue and mental fatigue.
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There is a kind of fatigue, which is endless.
Last year, a picture went viral on the Internet, which hit many people's hearts.
The screenshot is from the Japanese drama "Uncle's Love". A management is telling her colleagues:
Never scold young people, but never be soft on middle-aged people in the office.
You quit immediately because of young people, but you can scold those middle-aged people to death, especially those who have houses, cars and babies.
Zhang Ailing once wrote in Half Life:
Middle-aged men often feel lonely, because when they open their eyes, they all depend on him and there is no one he can rely on.
When people reach a certain age, they will always find that there is endless work, endless daily necessities, and things are unpredictable, and big and small things will always come to you together.
Many people still choose to wander forward when they are overwhelmed. They understand that fatigue is a normal state, as are endless work and daily chores, because life is a process of moving forward.
But a tired life is not equal to happiness.
Su Shi is a man who knows how to take pleasure in suffering. He can always enrich himself in ordinary and trivial life.
It's raining, and everyone else stays at home. Su Shi, come on. Bamboo straw sandals are lighter than horses, and a misty rain will last a lifetime? Peek into the open-mindedness of life from the rain.
Su Shi's life was full of hardships, and he was demoted many times, and his situation got worse every time, but he still chose to face it calmly with an optimistic attitude and find fun in the busy and difficult predicament.
Life is sometimes really hard and tiring. If it doesn't work out, please believe that there must be other arrangements.
In a difficult situation, keep a positive attitude and discover the beauty of life, then you can meet better arrangements.
The story of 02CY
There is a kind of unspeakable fatigue.
Zhang Ailing said: When people reach middle age and open their eyes, they are all people who depend on you, but there is no one you can rely on.
Life is a journey to an unknown destination, and every family is a speeding car.
When I was a child, my parents were train attendants. We only looked at the scenery outside the window and enjoyed their caress.
When we grow up, we become ticket sellers and have no time to see the scenery, because the road ahead is full of obstacles, and a little carelessness will bring misfortune to our families.
We are responsible for protecting our families, and we should lead them to seek happiness and avoid harm and pain.
On the way, we will meet our lover, we will open the door to accept Ta, and then have children, and the burden on our shoulders will be heavier.
A Chinese Odyssey has a hot comment:
When we were young, we desperately wanted to be the Monkey King. When we grow up, we desperately want to be carefree and supreme wealth.
Growth is a process of transformation. We put away the stubbornness of childhood, put on the magic spell, shouldered the heavy responsibility of learning from the scriptures, and became an unsmiling the Monkey King.
There is no quiet day in the world, but someone carries the burden for you, and now it's our turn to carry it.
We no longer complain to our families, but silently digest and pretend that we are invincible to shelter our families from the wind and rain.
Just like the lyrics of Wukong: the golden hoop is the head, I want to say it.
This is the truest appearance of an adult.
The story of 03CY
There is a kind of fatigue that no one understands.
A survey shows that:
People will meet about 29.2 million people in their lifetime, but the probability of knowing them is less than 0.000049.
Therefore, not all people can walk into your heart, and not all people can understand your feelings.
In this world, there may be many people you know, but few people know you.
I remember a classic quotation on the Internet:
Indeed, it's no use talking to people who don't understand you.
People who know you can understand your heart and your feelings even if you don't say anything.
He said that he happened to be in hospital when his son was ill.
Liu feels guilty and worried because he can't fulfill his responsibilities as a father.
At that time, Ba Jin and his wife came to visit him, but none of them spoke, just silently accompanying Liu.
It was not until Liu's wife called to report peace that Ba Jin and his wife got up and left.
There is a saying:? The best tacit understanding in the world is not that someone understands the story you tell, but that someone understands what you can't say. ?
As the saying goes, the five senses are not as good as three views, and it is better to understand you than to love you.
One person who knows you is better than thousands of passers-by.
Understanding is a silent warmth;
Yes, it is a warm harbor;
The happiest thing is to meet someone who understands you.
I hope someone can read your heart, understand your words and be really good to you.