Modern people are very concerned about their own physiological needs and psychological needs, is no longer a victim of feudal society, are very open-minded, very popular words is, do what you want to do, happy. So now the ideology of men and women have changed, people are more and more indifferent to the concept of chastity, men and women derailment rate is also higher and higher, but there is a big difference between men and women derailment, what are the differences?
From the point of view of the current social climate, the progress of society, the development of the network, to give people a lot of extramarital affairs of the basis, now everyone's social circle has become very large, very wide, into the cornerstone of men and women, increasing the probability of men and women's derailment, a lot of family derailment is from the network to start with, and now more and more chatting software, chatting tools, and a lot of people think that this is indispensable! Lifestyle, resulting in men and women now have extramarital affairs, sexual partners are no longer the object of scorn, derailment of men and women are more and more unscrupulous.
Man derailment first is the body derailment, women derailment is the ideological, spiritual first derailment, men are prone to new and old, the wife of the family has a variety of dissatisfaction, if this time there is a beautiful woman to throw herself into the arms of the many men are unlikely to be able to sit down and not chaotic, so the man held the first body derailment say again. Women's thinking is relatively conservative, may be the first sex and love, first choose the spirit of derailment, and then the body before derailment.
What are men cheating for? Some people are looking for excitement, it is said that the man is the lower body thinking animal, since ancient times, there is no that man can resist the temptation of women, unless that man has a physical obstacle. There is also his vanity, the family flower is not as fragrant as wild flowers, other men have tasted, they do not taste white not taste. The field of play, chaotic falsehoods, that you love me, as long as nothing happens to be good. The fact is that some men are born with a love of cheating and they can't change it.
What is a woman cheating for? Women derailed most of the husband and wife are not in love, of course, there are also because they can not meet the physical needs of derailment, this situation is not much, in terms of sex, most women's restraint than men. The heart belongs to, from the heart to fall in love with another man, there are also hit the bone is used to playing with feelings, no bottom line, indulgence, desire to be dissatisfied.
After the man derailed, most of them are holding the mindset of playing around, there is still home in the heart, in general, will not let the third party to affect his family, especially after the father of the man, the face of an affair, he will be on the boundaries of the family and the extramarital affair divided clearly, if it is because of the third party will lead to the family rupture, the man will decisively choose to avoid the trouble of abandonment of the trio, and there are also some women who belong to the The fact is that the most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of your life, and that you can do it in a way that you can.
After the woman derailed, basically everything is put down, women have an affair even if it is only at the beginning in order to seek the spiritual or physical, but time is long the deeper the input, want a result of a break, women once an extramarital affair will be invested into it, they will pay their time exponentially, very concerned about their lover, always thinking about him, fantasizing about everything, so many women With an extramarital affair will be willing to put down everything.
This is the difference between men and women, men are the first to have sex after love, and women are the first to have love before sex, it can be said that most of the men derailed are on impulse, in order to the so-called freshness, only purely in order to satisfy the body's desire and derailment, and once a woman derailed, first of all, is the spirit of first derailment, so a lot of women out of derailment are obsessed with, and will not reflect on it, and also will not be The reason for this is that her heart is not in it!