No money nor love marriage
No money nor love marriage, a good marriage, must be rich, neither lack of money, nor lack of love. Two people in the marriage, the same boat ****, in order to sail the marriage boat to the harbor of love. Here's a look at the marriage without money nor love.
There is no money and no love marriage 1No money is just relative, after all, two people are not even affectionate, naturally, will be too much to look at the family than you are good, the more you compare the more you will be disgusted with your own family, ordinary income is not necessarily no money, as long as the wood, rice, oil and salt is not lack of food and drink, it is not considered to be no money.
No sex, not to mention, since there is no emotion, that sex talk about? Even if you do that is tasteless, the male is that a shivering thing, the female is even more not to mention, there is no feelings of sex for women with the same as no salt in the dish.
Your current marriage can not be used to maintain the two words to continue, you should come back to a love affair, as long as you have ignited the fire of love, money, sex, love are naturally there, only the spiritual wealth to meet, that the difficulties of life naturally easy to solve, wealth, money to solve the problem, the sex of that do not need to be described too much, the water and milk blend of the four words is enough to summarize your change of the marriage. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from your family and friends.
So what you have to do now should be how to make him fall in love with you, and only then can you change your current marriage, one-dimensional maintenance of the current life, then you will only be their own life are destroyed, the bland and tasteless life is what you want? Since it is not what you want, you need to bravely take steps to pursue love, of course, you now have no right to choose, because you have a family, children, the only thing you can choose now is just the one beside you.
Do not always think to maintain life, will come to the marriage will only make you more and more difficult, while now is not to the most difficult time, in fact, this step is not difficult, difficult just you dare not go to hold his hand and say I love you.
No money and no love marriage 2
What kind of marriage can last
1 What is marriage?
A hundred people talk about marriage and there are a hundred interpretations of it.
When we hold each other's hands into the marriage hall, the attention of all the people, gorgeous flowers flying in the sky, the sound of blessing laughter accompanied by tears of joy crying, we said the vows, when the guests dispersed, when the flowers fall, the last thing left is only each other to accompany walk through every corner of life.
Ordinary days, uneventful life, the same time, but a different life. Because we love each other, we came together, marriage and love is a different concept, love more often than marriage is more free, marriage means more responsibility.
2 This is not love, more responsibility
In my impression, my father has always been a very warm person, very warm to me, and even more gentle to my mother. Although my father did not earn a lot of money, but also running around for the family to work hard, every month will remit a large part of the money to the family, their own only stay a little life.
Every year during the New Year's Eve, my father and I spent the most time together, and he would always help my mother to be busy, and even contracted most of the household chores during that period.
That night, my mother went out and said she would be a little late, and we all went to bed. When I got up at eleven o'clock in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, I saw my father sitting on the sofa, and I asked him why he was still up.
I have a warm feeling in my heart, and I thought that a long time away from home, they will lack a lot of communication, each other may be a little rusty, I think my father must be very much in love with my mother.
Years later, when I was about to get married, and my father talked about him and my mother, I asked him: how do you and my mother know, you love my mother! My father said: met on a blind date. When we first got together, I didn't feel anything for her.
Later, we got married. She is also quite good to me, people are very gentle and very family-oriented, to my parents are also very good, we just flat talk about living our days, this look back more how many years have passed.
"Is not this your love for your mother?"
"It is a duty. Life's long since smoothed out our diamonds, where there will be a lot of passion, and in the end it all boils down to firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea."
3 Love will be smoothed out the corners of the diamond, the responsibility will never change
A lot of people say that a marriage without love can not last long, but often many times the right is more important than the preferred. Marriage love is a big part of the responsibility is also very important, we have to assume our responsibility as a husband, father, give more care around, but also from the people around us to feel the warmth.
In this life, we will like a lot of people, because of the face value, the same interests, magnetic induction, we can watch a TV series, we can change a favorite idol, but the marriage is not allowed to be casual, and more tolerant of derailment, perhaps the time has been the love between us to eliminate all, but you are my wife, I'm your husband, and that's what I'm responsible for.
The most important thing in marriage is responsibility!
Marriage needs to be "rich"
It is easy to say love, but it is hard to raise a family
Psychology expert Li Zhongying once wrote in a book: "A beautiful marriage is not a gift from heaven, and love alone cannot make it work."
When you are in love, you can only talk about the wind and moon, not about money, however, the marriage is inseparable from the wood, rice, oil and salt, life is inevitable to spend money.
Life is very cruel, more sweet words can not withstand the reality of three meals a day.
Those who can't implement the marriage in the clothing, eating, counting money on these small things, are fragile.
There was a couple on Gold Mediation.
The program site, the husband Li repeatedly expressed his love for his wife Ma, but Ma has never been moved, insisted on divorce.
The hosts were very puzzled, but with the story of Xiao Ma, we have understood her helplessness and sorrow.
It turned out that since the marriage for five years, Xiao Ma never earn money to support the family.
He changed jobs frequently, and no job lasted 2 months, either too tired or hurt himself.
In his own words, all the work, he can not eat.
So, he simply did not go to work, playing cards all day long, surfing the Internet, but also with his wife's savings speculation.
Meanwhile, Xiao Ma has been desperately trying to earn money to support the family, and even tired out of the disease, she is always looking forward to her husband to go out to work, to share the burden of the family.
Despite his wife's hard work, Xiao Li feels that she earns enough money to cover her expenses and that he doesn't need to worry about family matters.
Xiao Ma is exhausted and disappointed in her marriage, and no matter how much her husband talks about it, she never looks back.
When I was young, I always felt that talking about money hurt my feelings; as I got older, I realized that not talking about money in the marriage hurt my feelings.
The two people in the marriage, the same boat ****, in order to sail the marriage boat to the harbor of love.
If one party selfishly throws the burden of supporting the family to the other party, for a long time, people are tired, heart broken, marriage has come to an end.
I heard a very interesting sentence: "Money is the bottom of the marriage, outsiders can not see, but you have to wear."
It's easy to say love, just move your lips; it's hard to raise a family, and you need to take care of the material.
If you can't feed your family, marriage is like running naked, sooner or later it's a joke.
Saying I love you more is not as good as having money in place; shouting big slogans is not as good as having a family.
It's easy to give money, it's hard to take care of the family
Is there such a person around you?
You think you have to work hard to make money, and then you go home and ignore the household chores and don't do anything.
Thinking that their money is in place, they will not pay attention to the trivial things at home, and do not care about anything?
But the fact is, it's easy to give money, and it's hard to take care of your family.
Those who only know how to use money to measure the responsibility of marriage, although not widowed, but the same as the virtual.
One person with a baby, one person to the hospital, one person to support a home ......
Have seen a Korean tear-jerking short film.
In the movie, Jang Nara played a mom who cried at the daily routine of bringing up a baby alone.
Empty house, only mom alone, even go to the toilet, the child is crying outside the door, can only helplessly let the child in.
It was hard to stay awake until the child fell asleep, just want to eat a mouthful of rice, the child woke up, only one hand to hold the baby, one hand messy stuffed rice.
A long time a person to hold the child, her wrist sore, had to put on a plaster, even if the pain is unbearable, in the moment you hear the child crying, immediately reach out to hold.
In the middle of the night, the child was sick, but the father was still out socializing, the mother was anxious and did not know what to do, and kept calling the father, but could not get through, and had to carry the child to the hospital alone.
She was so tired that she hoped her dad would come back soon, but she got a text message: "I'm not coming back tonight.
At this moment, she could no longer hold back the collapse and cry ......
This is not real life, many mothers portrayed? There is no lack of money trouble, but there is a lack of place heartache.
No one's family is calm, life is supposed to be full of trivialities.
A family of food and drink, the child's upbringing, the care of the elderly ......, which are inseparable from the time and energy.
To give a higher salary, but not in exchange for other people on your family's heart and lungs; spend more money, but also can not buy a family of harmony and happiness.
In fact, a happy marriage, not only need to pay money, more need to participate in the two sides of the heart.
You can be busy, but you can't care less; you can socialize outside, but you can't be absent at home.
Only give money, do not participate in the marriage of *** with the responsibility, everything to do a handshake, when the other side of the heart will be cold.
Mr. Lu Xun said, "The most tortured in marriage is not conflict, but boredom."
Tired of one person's charge, also tired of two people's marriage.
Rich marriage: half money, half love
On Knowledge, someone asked: what is the best state of marriage?
One of the highly praised answers is: no lack of money, no lack of love.
When you think about it, it's true.
No lack of money, in order to live a carefree life; no lack of love, in order to be spiritually carefree.
When it comes to model couples in the entertainment industry, many people will think of Chilam Cheung and Anita Yuen.
Chilam is known as a wife spoiler.
In one program, there was a question "What would you like to say to your wife if you only have the last 24 hours?"
He said to Anita Yuen without even thinking about it:
"I don't dare to die, I'm afraid that if I go now, you and your son won't have enough money to spend. But if you say you and your son have enough money to spend, I won't worry even if I go now."
Heartfelt words that moved both Yuan and the audience.
Because his parents were divorced when he was a child, Chilam especially cherished his family, and apart from working to earn money, he spent most of the rest of his time with his family.
He has also revealed the details of the couple's time together in the program. At home, he is responsible for dealing with things on the electrical appliances, while Yuan is responsible for the children's school.
They never let one of them deal with the household chores alone, but instead, men and women divide up the work, each trying to do their part as well as they can.
As he said himself, "Giving each other a stable mindset and enough security is the most romantic thing in a marriage."
I think this is probably the most beautiful way of marriage, not only to make money to protect the family, but also to accompany the family with the same ****.
People often say, "Love is beautiful, marriage is not easy."
Marriage is difficult, bitter is a chicken feather, busy is chicken and dog.
This is not easy, not only can not do without the money to pay, but also love the company, which is the responsibility of raising a family, but also the responsibility of the family.
Life may not be perfect, but marriage needs to be rich.
Rich marriage, half is money, half is love.
It's okay to make good money; it's okay to stay with your lover.
Two people, three meals, four seasons, wind and rain, each other warm, each other nourishing.
And a marriage of mutual nourishment, enough to join hands for a lifetime, against all odds.