A while ago, I chased a Korean drama "Mr. Sunshine", starring Lee Byung-hun, a powerful Korean actor.
Yesterday, I brushed the posters to see that with this drama, Lee Byung-hun, who is forty-eight years old and used to be scandalized, won the 2018 Korean Acting Award again.
It's not just us who are puzzled, but the people of the kimchi country are also puzzled.
Lee Byung-hun from debut to this day, with superb acting skills, not only the size of the South Korean awards to get all over, people also succeeded in Hollywood, not only stood firm, but also in the Avenue of Stars there to leave handprints and footprints.
Career would have been very smooth, kimchi country people are also in his favor, who knows Lee Byung-hun's persona suddenly collapsed. The cause is that he was taken indecent video, but also rumored to be during his wife's pregnancy out . Cheating and so on.
In the kimchi country, the people's concept of right and wrong is very serious, even if you are the people's idol, the people hold you in the heart, but if there is a scandal, minutes to step on you under the foot, if you say that never turn over, may also be about the same.
But Lee Byung-hun is extremely special that one, despite the scandal, to the police and the court, people are still many awards, why, why?
Because Lee Byung-hun's acting skills are superb, people have to take the capital, which is a very funny scene, the people of kimchi country while scolding him scum, while watching his movie and television drama, but also busy hands in the hands of the vote to vote for him.
And Lee Byung-hun can be so easy to whitewash, relying on not other than dedication, people in the acting is not ambiguous at all, people focus on acting.
The great writer Goethe also said, focus is the most important, reputation is empty talk.
In fact, the subtext should be that only after focusing can we achieve results, and with results, reputation will come naturally.
Lee Byung-hun's acceptance speech is also, the time to wait is the time to practice, wait will not be wasted, so wait, life and all the feelings in this time, all kinds of emotions, later will be shown in the acting.
In fact, to put it bluntly, waiting is a thick and thin, focusing on a certain one and accumulation.
So, all other things aside, in order to be recognized, focus on a cause is inevitable, Lee Byung-hun ultimately won the focus, because the focus on acting and success, which can not be replaced by anyone.
Focus is the key to winning in life.
02
? Tell me another story about my friend, the cat who pretends to be asleep.
Sleepy Cat was the first friend I met when I started my story number.?
That day, Sleepy Cat was doing her daughter's homework with her eyes on the TV, but in her head, she was working on a story, because she needed to write every day, and she didn't have a story for tomorrow.
Mom, who are the eight greats of the Tang and Song dynasties? My daughter got stuck on her homework and asked in passing.
Tang Pak Fu. The cat said without thinking
Tang Song eight big family, as if there is no name with a tiger ah? The daughter questioned.
The sleeping cat is still immersed in the story that is about to take shape.
There should be a Ouyang Xiu, right? My daughter continued to ask.
Ouyang Xiu is a character in the Legend of the Eagle Shooting Heroes. The cat who pretends to be asleep answered as if he were traveling.
Wake up, can you not mislead your daughter. The cat's husband couldn't help but remind the cat of this.
The cat finally got out of his storytelling mindset, took his eyes off the TV, and started to look at his daughter's question. When she realized that her daughter was going to ask about the eight great men of the Tang and Song dynasties, she almost didn't laugh out of her eyes.
Absentmindedness and answering the wrong questions should be the real portrayal of the cat pretending to be asleep at this moment.
Half-asleep, half-awake, should also know the Tang and Song dynasty, but because the mind is not in the child, my friend sleepy cat, even if it is rich in learning, but also by their own focus to run away.
She and I said this anecdote, across the screen we laughed out of the crow's feet.
Because of the focus, her story number did very well.
Life is always a contradiction, both to try to take care of their own, but also to take care of the home, but also to take care of their own story number, but a woman's energy, after all, is limited, the fish and the bear's paw can not be both, but also to think of the trade-offs between the hobby of being able to focus on their own.
I've read online that a person's attention span is limited, and that only by focusing on one thing at a time can you not waste your life in a world full of distractions.
Although the focus will encounter a variety of trouble, but only focus, can be persistent forward and ultimately successful.
03
It's not easy to be focused.
For example, my family Mr. Tang, years ago, I have been suggesting that he learn English, so that one day, perhaps, when we travel around the world, will not be in the communication in the short board.
Mr. Tang also vowed to learn, and pulled out the book from under the bed, blowing away the dust on it.
To this day, the dust fell on the books again, about as thick as a copper coin, and Mr. Tang's English, I did not hear a word, maybe those words, either eaten with rice, or mixed in alcohol distributed.
Mr. Tang did not pop up a word, work is not often busy, but the idle time, to make friends to socialize, but also to catch up with the drama and listen to the song shopping Taobao, where to care about the English it.
I was angry at Mr. Tang's diffidence, and I was sarcastic when I caught him.
As a result, yesterday, Mr. Tang was watching TV, suddenly jumped up, proudly said, daughter-in-law, you do not worry, I will learn English sooner or later, you see on TV reported that the painter Qi Baishi, sixty or seventy years old before he became famous. The English language is not urgent, sooner or later can learn.
I looked at him calmly and said, do you know what Qi Baishi was doing before he became famous?
It is a carpenter, people before the wood is carved on the painting, only later do not do carpentry work, but the painting technology from the wood, transferred to the painting paper. People just don't do carpentry work anymore, but the skill of drawing has not been lost.
Because of the late start, so famous late, but because of the focus on painting, and finally succeeded.?
Mr. Tang was hanging down his elm-like head.
Whether full-time or part-time, want to do things, if there is no focus on the concept in it, then it will never be able to achieve results, let alone success.
04
In the circle of friends, I often see a girlfriend sunshine her pen character, a picture every day, never stop.
Once and her chat, I realized that behind the beautiful pen character, but there is a heartbreaking story.
She was born in a patriarchal family, her parents did not allow her to study after graduating from elementary school. When she was herding cows, she took a tree branch and wrote the words she knew.
Later, when she went out to work, whether on a plaque or in newspapers and magazines, as long as she saw the words, she would write carefully, only a little better, she could buy pens and paper.
She didn't have much education, but her love of writing persisted.
She has worked in many jobs, no matter how hard, how bad life, including later through the divorce, reorganization of the family and so on.
She has never given up her love of writing.
Now, she can't do the work anymore, although she is idle, but she opened a class to recruit elementary school students to practice writing.
She said, earning money is not important, the important thing is their own hobby, finally have a sense of accomplishment, and the current sense of accomplishment, due to decades of day-to-day focus, if not heart, do not adhere to, then Pi then, can only be a big woman jumping square dance.
Anyone, no matter how humble, as long as you focus on a cause, you will have your own will be surprised by the results.
The great writer Emerson said, "Focus, love, and concentrate on what you want, and you will be rewarded.
So, what are you waiting for? No matter what you do, what you like, what you are devoted to, with a persistent heart, focused on doing it, your achievements, is the best return to the focus.